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writes:My ex girl friend mum has cancer. I still love her. Want to be there 4 her. We broke up not 2 long after we found out. Because the pressure on her was too much. Even I still want her back . I want to do the right thing. She does mean a lot tome
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (10 October 2008):
 if you really love her,stay next to her through these tuff times,hold her hand,and don't let go of her.be there for her and don't leave whatever happens even if she asks you to!
take care!XXX
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (10 October 2008):
 I'd suggest that you talk to your ex girlfriend. Sit her down and say that you realise that this is a very difficult time for her right now, but that even though you're not together, you want to be there for her. That you want to support her and look after her when she needs a cuddle or when she just needs someone to talk to.
I'm sure she'll appreciate that a lot.
Don't mention anything about wanting her back right now though, I can't emphasise that enough.
She's got a lot on her plate right now and as she's already stated, she really doesn't want the pressure of a relationship on her hands too. It wouldn't be right to keep asking her to take you back when she's got so much on her mind right now.
Leave the ball in her court. If there is a time when she wants to take you back, then by all means do it. But just be there for her right now - tell her that you are there for her no matter what. She'll be really grateful, I'm sure.
Take care xx
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reader, tammye17  +, writes (10 October 2008):
 if you truly love her then be there for her. love is patient, love is kind and endures all things. its going to be tought but hang on hard if thats what you want try to understand her feelings.
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