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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, I would really appreciate advice on this matter as I have no idea where to turn. I'm in my early twenties and my girlfriend a few years older. We've been together for two years and living together for one. As far as I'm concerned, our relationship is great and she has seemed to feel the same. She recently came back from a brief period of travelling and was acting slightly distant from me. When I asked her what the matter was, she replied that she loves me but no longer feels sexually attracted to me and therefore thinks we should split up. We were both devastated to be having such a conversation and we both claimed to love each other deeply. Since then, we have acted as normal and have been kissing and cuddling which leaves me totally confused about what to do. I don't want to look back in a year's time and think what an idiot I was for staying with someone who claims not to be attracted to me, but I don't want to lose what is possibly my greatest chance for happiness either. Any advice would be wonderful.
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reader, mariet +, writes (6 August 2007):
she is into the security that you can give her. She is looking for an open door, but is keeping her options open. Is she looking for an open relationship. Can you carry on like this. She sounds very confused, and this rubs off on you. Its not good, and it aint fair.
Put some space in there, she won't know what she has lost til its gone. And if its gone, move on.
Take good care of yourself
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (6 August 2007):
I wouldn't be able to give you sound advice as I would need to know more of the relational background between the two of you. Which would include your past, and her past relationships. If you would like to contact me through DearCupid, I'm more than willing to be of help to the both of you.
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reader, boyo9876 +, writes (6 August 2007):
Dude, you need to speak to her and ask her what she's doing! She either wants you, or she doesnt...if she doesn't then she needs to stop playing with your head.
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