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anonymous
writes:Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed. It has been going on for a long time but why do you think i have them?Please Please Help Meeee xx
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reader, outandrproud +, writes (5 August 2007):
ok. so you want a boyfriend. i know. so do i. im 16 and i know 1 other gay guy whose 23 and too old for me.
heres my advice:
you cant pick who loves you, and vice versa, but you can be yourself. you just have to wait for the right person to come along. it could take days, or weeks, but there is still someone out there for you! patience is a virtue!
things to do:
be yourself
be patient
things not to do:
go for the first person that you think likes you. its creepy...
do anything that makes you uncomfortable
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (4 August 2007):
Hi! sweetheart, Know how you must feel, as if the whole world is passing you by. And that there is no one out there for you. You are also going through Hormonal body changes. That wants to push you into bf and gf relationships, Perhaps, sooner than your heart and mind are ready for them. So don't get up tight for the time being, but sit back and play it cool. Yes even hard to get,as that's a great turn-on for most boys. Also now is the time to watch what mistakes your gf are making in their relationships. And you can learn to avoid these mistakes in your togetherness with others. You'll do just fine, And in your loving of others, others will be come to you. Love and XXXXXX's from the Philippines.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you soo much for the help :)The problem is, is that i go to an all girls school :PIt's crap i no. heheL. xxxx
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reader, male260468 +, writes (4 August 2007):
Okay, I will gry and answer this question, from the angle of the opposite sex. When I was a couple of years younger, I had the same feelings as you. i was longing to have a girlfriend. It is a very normal fact of life. We all want companionship and someone to love and care for us. u advice is though, try not to get too depressed. Time will come when you will eventually meet someone. If you have not found a boyfriend yet, I recommend that you go to a couple of good friendship/dating websites. "Make Friends Online" and "Match.com" are good ones.
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reader, Emilie +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Hey, aw honey youre perfectly normal i used to be like it. It normally happens because your friends and people close to you start having boyfriends and start dating at this time in their lives, and if you havent got a guy you start feeling left out. Dont worry you will find someone who loves you sooner than you think. i had given up all hope until i met my guy because i went along to the school drama club :) Try something new, go along to a school club or something new out of school like an art group or go along to an icerink for a day out with your mates! Have fun and try not to think about what you havent got yet. You will be surprised at how many guys take an interest in you. Things can only get better honey :) Get all your girl mates in for a girly day out, being with friends can make life so much better :) hope this made things a little better hun, Good luck! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): you are hormonal. i know exactly how you feel. i went through exactly the same thing. i would recommend joining a drama group, or youth club where you can meet new boys. trust me, you do not want a boyfriened in the same school as you. keep meeting new people and socialise, you could even ask some of your friends if they know any1 you'd like. but make sure you know them well enough first. just go with the flow and see where it takes you. i find that the more you want a bf the harder it is to get one. so just relax and enjoy yourself. you have your whole life ahead of you so enjoy it! hope this helped =DXxXxX
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