Me and my cousin are in love and thinking of moving out of state.
Q. I've fallen in love with one of my cousin, and we are thinkin about moving out of state so we can really be together,what should we do?...
A. 25 December 2007: If Adam and Eve's children married each other,and they did,why get excited about cousin marriage. Do have a truly, loving, commited relationship.... (read in full...)
I have good reason to think he cheated....how can I get over this?
Q. Hi, I have a dilema and need some advice. I have a strong suspicion that my hubby of 7 years cheated on me, I just don't know what type of cheating. 2 years ago I found a receipt for cell phone minutes. The problem is that he never had a cell pho...
A. 25 December 2007: If you knew for sure that your Hubby cheated on you,would you still be able to overlook it? and forgive him. That's something you need to think about. He has given you grounds to walk, but only you can make-up your mind to do that. You need to pin ... (read in full...)
Following my attempt to discuss his having distanced, my lover told me he is "mad" at everything. What can I do?
Q. AGh my lover is ignoring me sexually but still talks to me in a friendly way! It's been 6 weeks! we see each other everyday at work but no longer seems interested in me. Attempts at discussing his distance was futile he said he was just "mad" at ...
A. 25 December 2007: Not a Hell of a lot,until you both can begin to talk to each other. And if you can't do that,you never will, and it's time that you two moved on.... (read in full...)
Unresolved issues in our relationship--should I bring it up?
Q. My relationship with the man i dated the last year seems to continue although the issues of the past haven't been definitely solved. However some things have been improved. Should i speak to him politely or should i show him that something keeps us ...
A. 25 December 2007: Not enough Info. For me to give you any advice.... (read in full...)
My Bi-polar partner has become emotionally and physically abusive...what should I do??
Q. My lover of six months has recently become emotionally abusive and on one occassion physically abusive. He suffers from Bipolar disorder and refuses to take medication. I'm in love with him, but should I just move on without him?...
A. 25 December 2007: You are asking a question that you already know the answer to. But for what it's worth dump him, you have nothing going for you.... (read in full...)
How can I stop craving sex with much older men??
Q. Could you please advise on my current practice of having sex with older men. I have a boyfriend my own age with good sex but I crave sex with much older men, They are usually business men passing through and I go to their hotels for seedy sex, I'm ...
A. 25 December 2007: You already know what you are doing isn't right,and that you have a good relationship with your B/F, even though in bed you want more than he can or sexually is giving you. These other men don't have a problem asking you sexually,for what they ... (read in full...)
How can I show her a good time and hopefully hook-up with her??
Q. Ok well I like this one girl, she has been a good friend and she recenly has been dating guys but no luck and I want to show her a good time to cheer her up and hopefully be with her. What can I do? We are going to hang out neer the beach where th...
A. 25 December 2007: First-off Stay her best fried,and let her do the leading as to what she wants to do in your relationship. And should it go further than that,still be her best Friend,even if you become lovers.... (read in full...)
Why is he telling me about her and is she real??
Q. My ex fiance called me and left me a nasty message saying how his family and friends think I am so heartless for not returning his calls. I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive and manipulative and told him never to contact me repea...
A. 25 December 2007: You did the right thing to get out of an abusive relationship, STAY OUT OF IT. Merry Christmas.... (read in full...)
Couldn't enjoy received oral. Should I explain that it wasn't that great with him or hope that maybe it will be better next time?
Q. Ok...so I recently started giving my bf oral, but last night he wanted to try 69 and he has never tried this position before, but I have. Anyhow he has only recieved oral and never given it. I don't want to sound mean or ungrateful, but ...
A. 25 December 2007: You both would do well to study some sex manuals,as it is the best way to learn how each of you would like to be sexually pleasured. And YES,If you do oral so should he, that's what loving someone is all about.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)
Q. ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...
A. 25 December 2007: I wish that I had the wisdom of solomon,but even he played the fool with women,but then they weren't children who he abused,such as you. And Yes, Hellen us boys also get raped too. And I also know what being raped can do to either gender's lives. I ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to realise his role in killing the passion in our relationship??
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years complains that I am not passionate in bed anymore and I don't initiate sex. I thought about it for awhile and I realised that while I give a lot, I don't get a lot. He hasn't taken me out for dinner, or for a movie, or just ...
A. 25 December 2007: If you are running on empty, emotionally speaking, fill up your heart soul and mind with a new relationship that isn't all give on your part and no return on his."KISS HIM-OFF-SWEETHEART". And you'll have a wonderful New Year.
Merry Christmas. ... (read in full...)
How can I not go into marriage anxious after the guilt of feeling my mothers touch??
Q. Hi, I am a virgin in my twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I am close to...
A. 25 December 2007: Lets look at all human-sexuality,perhaps this is the very place for you to begin not only to understand your own sexuality,but also what makes most of us men tick,sexually. You'll find that most of us men's sexuality is Same-O, Same-O. And there are ... (read in full...)
How should I masturbate??
Q. Could someone please give me advice on how to masturbate? I'm only 10 but I'm surrounded by sex loving people. My friend is doing it and so is my Dad. What am I supposed to do?...
A. 25 December 2007: Welcome to the Self-Stimulation-Club. There are many ways for a man to enjoy his Joytoy,Penis. Guess, About the best advice that I can give you would be, "Use The WEb" as it does have some good Info.about how to pleasure your Maleness. But do keep ... (read in full...)
An old love interest said he had always loved me but two days later said he was lying...any ideas what is going on??
Q. Not to long ago a bunch of my friends and I got drunk together, and an old love interest of mine told me that he loved me and always had, but he was young and stupid and didn't realize it. But two days later he said he was lying. I don't know what ...
A. 25 December 2007: Your drunk B/F may have been young and stupid way back when, but now he is older and still stupid, but stupid is as stupid does, and if you hang around with him, guess that'll makes you stupid too.... (read in full...)
My ex took my virginity and would like to have sex again but now he has a gf.
Q. When me and my ex were together 6 months ago we had sex for the first time. Since then we hardly talk execpt on the phone. He says he loves me and wants to have sex again. I don't whether to or not? I don't want him to think i'm a whore and i no...
A. 25 December 2007: Your B/F didn't take your virginity,you gave it away,and cheap at that,but then there are young fools and also old fools. And to continue to let him use your body makes you a much greater fool. You know what you need to do, so do it.... (read in full...)
Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?
Q. I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...
A. 24 December 2007: There are no easy answers in what you are going through in your 19,years of lonelinness. My wife an I also have a language and cultural barrier between us, And Yes, There are often times when this loneliness is pretty damn hard to bare,and I too am ... (read in full...)
Broke up with my cheating bf..now other females are wondering about our relationship status...how do I handle this?
Q. I am grateful for any help I get here. I broke up with an very attractive and popular guy here on campus because I know that he was seeing other women when he was seeing me. He is continuing to see a few women at the same time and I am glad to be ...
A. 24 December 2007: What goes on, or went on, between two people is their own business,and something that needn't be bandyed about by so called friends. Let them find out what kind of person he is,but don't badmouth him,as he'll cut his own sexual throat in the ... (read in full...)
Why Does My Mum Blame Me For Losing The Person She Loved?
Q. why does my mum blame me for the person she loved going to prision? i know what he did was wrong, and i know my mum loved him, and i know she'd choose her childen over him, but why does she still blame me for losing the person she ever loved? ...
A. 24 December 2007: Your mother is caught-up in the Blame-Game. And she needs to have someone to Blame for the things that go wrong in her life. You don't have to understand her, but you do need to keep on loving her,no matter what.
Have a nice Christmas.... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my self esteem issues and become more provocotive for my husband?
Q. I am a married woman and I have two kids. For the first several years of my relationship with my husband, our sex life was amazing. We always wanted eachother and we always experimented with different situations, positions and scenerios. I got ...
A. 22 December 2007: Sex isn't, or shouldn't be, about one's physical appearance,but about loving each other no matter what. As a man, I could careless if my wife looked as big as a barn,as long as we both stayed in love each other, but that takes work on the part of ... (read in full...)
I have an annoying little Sister--how should I deal with her?
Q. I have a younger sister who is always getting on my nerves. She is always taking and using my stuff without asking first. This may not seem like much but after a while it does get on your nerves, especially if your parents don't do anything about ...
A. 22 December 2007: There isn't much you can do about your little Sister,as I see it,but you can kill her with kindness. Have a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year. from the Philippines.... (read in full...)
He cheated on me 4 times and I'n furious but I can't let go of him.. Advice needed!
Q. Last night, I my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years confessed that he has cheated on me 4 times in the past. We have been in a long distance relationship for a good chunk of it because we are both very ambitious people. I travel a lot and he is in the ...
A. 22 December 2007: Any advice we give you,or anyone else gives you, won't help you,until you get some back-bone and say enough is enough,an kick his butt out... (read in full...)
What to do when you fall out of love with your wife and in love with someone else??
Q. here goes I'm a man I've been married for 11 yrs. and the problem is i'm seeing someone else right now and i believe i'm starting to fall in love with this women i have 2 kids and a house and am having serious considerations to ending my loveless ...
A. 22 December 2007: How does one fall out of love? Easy question, You never were in love in the first place. Like most of us men,you fell into Lust,and like lots of men, we call that lust love. To receive love you must first-off be able to give love. It appears that ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but just doesn't want to date me..now he's dating another girl! .what's the deal here?
Q. Well i went out with this boy in January and we split up a month later.. then about 5 months later in July he told me he still loved me but he didnt want a relationship at the moment.. then about a month later he started going out with this girl and ...
A. 22 December 2007: Well,Sweetheart:
As i see it you'er just a spare-tire in his life, and handy to keep around just in case his other G/F blows-out.... (read in full...)
My brother has asked I not tell my parents that he is gay! What should I do?
Q. Basically I have suspected that my brother has been gay for years but he never answers questions on his personal life and showed many signs which suggested he was gay. I finally asked him yesterday and he confirmed this and said he had been in a ...
A. 22 December 2007: You got wonderful advice from lilacutie.So please go with it,as it is right on in my books. Do keep in mind that love really knows no sexual boundaries.... (read in full...)
I hate my bf's loser, low class friends! How do I handle this?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. My problem is his low class friends. I am from a good family and so is he but his best friends are all the guys almost 30 years old with no life and no class and of course they are dating the girls ...
A. 22 December 2007: As I see it you can tell your B/F to get rid of his low-life friends or you better move on with your life without him. Why not see what kind of a B/F you really have,when the rubber hits the road, and he has to choose between them or you.... (read in full...)
My parents are divorcing! Is it my fault because I'm such a handful?
Q. ok,my mom and dad have been fighting for awhile and they are getting divorced after christmas.my dad isnt even gonna be with us for christmas hes just gunna stay home or go with his friends.i think itll be kinda weird without a dad.i feel like its ...
A. 22 December 2007: Sometimes us parent don't have a lick of good sense,and we can't see that marriage take a lot of hard-work to make it work. So just like two jackass's we end-up pulling in different directions And then blame each other for the things that go wrong ... (read in full...)
His affair has really messed me up inside...I need help on how to cope?
Q. I know everyone means well, but everyone is making me feel like crap....My husband had an affair the 2months that he was doing this on the net and off, he became distant from me I dont believe it was the bad sex or because he felt bad for the...
A. 22 December 2007: Life is about loving yourself long before you ever learn to love someone else. And as I see it your self-love has hit bottom due to His affair. For a woman,unlike us men, you can't turn on-and-off love like a faucet. And that love will always be ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her if it's time we split (especially if I discover she is again unfaithful) or should I just accept our marriage in these circumstances?
Q. My marriage of 20 plus years is in serious trouble again. I caught her cheating a few times and she blamed me for her infidelities. I have made many changes to try and correct the issues she said made her cheat. Things between us got better for a ...
A. 21 December 2007: We are here for you,and love to give the best advice that we know how,but in your case you already know what you need to do,"KICK HER ASS OUT", or leave yourself. However If you want to continue in your Matrimonial-Shit,guess that's up to you.... (read in full...)
My gf is violent when she has her period. She even punched me in the face! What should I do?
Q. i have been with my girlfriend now for 2 years. We have a good relationship the majority of the time but things go a bit ugly when she has her period. I know that may seem a stupid reason but I think this may be an exception. Since we started ...
A. 21 December 2007: Go with Frank, Good advice.... (read in full...)
I like her, we sleep together, yet she says she just wants to be friends. What's going on?
Q. i have this girl i like living with me sleeping in the same bed as me and acting like my girlfriend yet when i ask for a kiss or anythink that suggest we are going out she says she just wants to be friends. what should i do?...
A. 21 December 2007: Guess, You'er hot to trot and she is not,
And sleeping in the same bed is a bunch of rot.
There seems to be something that you forgot,
She'll have a lot to lose, and you will not.
Have a wonderful Christmas.... (read in full...)
Help! My marriage is a mess and I'm making it worse!
Q. Augh... I dont even know where to begin. I am married for 5 years. We have two children. My husband has serious anger issues. He yells and says really disrespectful things and he even hit me once. I told him that if he didnt change I would leave ...
A. 21 December 2007:
I don't see how creating another sexual problem with your Husband's friend will help solve the problem of an abusive Husband. You need to keep in mind that your children come first, and he is the one who needs to do the changing,as you can't do t... (read in full...)
Help! I'm 14 and my girlfriend is pregnant!
Q. Hi ,i am 14 years old and i am concerned that my girlfriendis pregnant. she was a virgin as i had sex before. We dident use protection and now she is 3 months pregnant. Web dont know how to tell our parents as they will both go mad with us. She has ...
A. 21 December 2007: You got some great advice go with it.... (read in full...)
I like a girl at school, but I barely talk to her. Also, she has a boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. There is this girl at my shool that I like...i talk to her but bearly, Porbably the reason I liek her is becasue she noticed me...by that i mean one time she saw me at the park and told me the next day at school...this was when we didnt knwo each ...
A. 21 December 2007: Be nice and kind to her, them, but leave them alone... (read in full...)
My friend is really irritating me, and I can't take her crap anymore. What should I do?
Q. I have a friend who lies about basically everything. She even made up a rumour about one of our other friends having a backstreet abortion. To be honest I think that's sick. She's aparently been pregnant twice, once she had an abortion (she would ...
A. 21 December 2007: If she were a B/f you would no doubt dump him,so why not her?... (read in full...)
Your most memorable sex experience?
Q. Hey I have never really had good sex stories, and I was wondering what was your most memorable sex experience? I need sex stories to get "in the mood", and right now I have none! Please help me and my boyfriend...
A. 21 December 2007: There is lots of sex stories on the Web that you two can use for your sexual arousal,but any two people who are truely in love. Well,It's a part of their togetherness, and for me I wouldn't be sharing that wonderful moment with you or anyone else.... (read in full...)
How do I help him to realize I AM different - so we can have a functional relationship, which at the moment he is unsure of?
Q. I've recently starting dating this great guy last Sunday (almost 2 weeks. We've been talking since the end of Nov). We've seen each other almost every day since then. I've connected with him so well right off the bat better than most other me...
A. 21 December 2007: Why don't you just be yourself,if he isn't blind he will see that you'er different. We cannot make those who we really care for like us,that must come from how we relate to them in a loving, caring way. Have a wonderful Christmas,and a Happy New ... (read in full...)
To my husband - all I want is sex. Actually, it's the only missing aspect. What can I do?
Q. My husband says that there is nothing wrong with him but he is never in the mood to have sex. What could be the reasons why a husband is not in the mood to have sex with his wife? To shed some light: he subscribes Playboy, watches porn (rarely ...
A. 20 December 2007: Bet that this is true in your sexuality, when it comes to your husband. He can't get an erection prior to vaginal intercourse, or if he does,he cannot keep his erection long enough to bring you to an orgasm, Well, He can thank his early,speedy ... (read in full...)
He never finds the time to have sex with me. Please help me make sense of this situation
Q. My husband cuddles with me and says that it's true intimacy, and that he is closer to me than to all those women he dated and had sex with. He has a history of having hot sex with unavailable women. Either she was a horny unhappily married wife or ...
A. 20 December 2007: The only sense in what is going on in your loveless relationswhip would be to get out of it,PDQ,Pretty-Damn-Quick. You have nothing going for you.... (read in full...)
My fiancee has used porn in the past and lied to me about it!
Q. Pornography is effecting my relationsip..Help! My fiancee has used pornography in the past and lied to me about it. He has done it whilst i have been asleep, or gone out for a while. We have always had a very healthy sex life until this cropp...
A. 20 December 2007: Every woman on the street is naked to the lustful eyes of a male. Where a woman sees another woman's clothing,Well,Most of us men see lovely sexy bodies. So most men are engaged in their own mental Porn,like it or not. and it's my understanding that ... (read in full...)
He is lying to me about watching gay porn!
Q. help! i have been with my husband for 5yrs and married for 2an a half, but things have been gettin a bit wierd! i knew about him watchin porn its happened bout 6times and everytime he swore it'd b the last, but its still happenin a yr on, but now ...
A. 20 December 2007: Before I comment on this I would like to know what is going on within your bedroom,your sexual relationship to be quite blunt. Also you may have married a Bisexual who is just beginning to discover his dual sexual Preferences for both gender, It ... (read in full...)
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