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36-40,
*tudentnurse
writes:Not to long ago a bunch of my friends and I got drunk together, and an old love interest of mine told me that he loved me and always had, but he was young and stupid and didn't realize it. But two days later he said he was lying. I don't know what to think,help?
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reader, studentnurse +, writes (16 January 2008):
studentnurse is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks to everyone for your advice. We hung out for about a a month trying to be just friends and he couldn't handle it. He was always coming on to me, so I told him were to get off at. And I have to say it feels quite nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): He might have just been trying to get you to sleep with him. "He loved you but didn't realise it"?? Bullshit. He just wanted to have his way with you.
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reader, leonard j, Douglas  +, writes (25 December 2007):
Your drunk B/F may have been young and stupid way back when, but now he is older and still stupid, but stupid is as stupid does, and if you hang around with him, guess that'll makes you stupid too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): This boy was drunk and probably thought that the only way to describe to you how much he wanted to have sex with you was to tell you how much he cared...and even if he did mean it he then said he was lying...which makes him either one confused male or deficient in the emotions department. Both are not good candidates for your time let alone good boyfriend material.
Go find yourself someone who will tell you his feelings truthfully.....when sober
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): Probably he felt stupid because you didn't say you loved him too and then lied about the being in love with you to save his rep. He is faking rejection so he would feel less rejected ny you. Or maybe he doesn't know what he wants. Or maybe you were so drunk it was only a dream. ;-]
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