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Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   6 January 2008: well... i decided. it doesnt really matter... i went to visit a friend this weekend... i had alot of fun with him... then im not sure what happened...they kicked me out of the barracks... he wasnt allowed to leave so his roomate took me to a clu... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   29 December 2007: im thinking about giving it to him.... any reason why i shouldnt?... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   28 December 2007: well... i dont know why... but i felt the need to write a poem.... even though i've NEVER written one :) well here it is.... tell me what you think...but dont be too mean :) “Molded by her father’s hands” By: Jenny For: Daddy… …you ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   26 December 2007: hi rockell, the support group we have here is run by the spouses of the soldiers...the spouses i work with... the group is more about dealing with the army life and coping with deployed soldiers than anything else... but i wish we did have one beca... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   26 December 2007: i was just outside smoking... my dad came out to grill... i sat and talked with him for a minute... i started to wonder about why i always choose the same type of guy... and i realised im still looking for a father figure... but it never works ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   26 December 2007: to the anonymous reader, i guess its a fact that people who were abused as kids are more likely to abuse kids themselves... i really dont understand how someone could do this knowing what it did to them... but hey... look at my dad... if i were... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   25 December 2007: leanna, i just want to say that im not looking for sympathy... i dont want anyone to feel sorry for me.... all i want is to see what people whould do or have done so that i can make the best decision for me. what you said about us keeping a secret... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   25 December 2007: jenny wren, my parents are still together... going on 25 years... i have no brothers or sisters... and my mom is an only child too... my dad is the youngest of 6 or 7... so i know i have a crap load of relatives...but ive never met them...b... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   25 December 2007: "You are a strong brave woman to come through what you have and you will come out the other side even stronge" .... ive had this dream since i was maybe 10... im running down this hallway...i turn back and see this shadow chasing me...when i turn... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   25 December 2007:  dearkelja, thank you so much for responding :) well... mistake might have been the wrong word...i ment like my problem....she had nothing to do with it...and if i tell her id be the one ruining her life...it would probably kill her! i couldnt l... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   23 December 2007: well my dad has kinda the same problem... he told me when i was 17 my mom didnt want to anymore... theyve been married for 25 years now(im 23 now)... i hate to say it but i think their marriage might be over... even if they stay together itll be a ... (read in full...)

She was sexually molested by a male relative and now I find it gross touching her.

Q.   Hello Ive been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and recently she came clean about being sexually molested by a male relative when she was 8-14 and now as horrible as it sounds i find myself kind of grossed out by her. everytime i touch her i ...

A.   23 December 2007: hi :) ive had kind of the same problem. i was abused from when i was 6 till i was 17. ive been with 26 guys now and regret them all... either i left because they hit me... or they left because im "psyco".... its a vicious circle i cant get out of. ... (read in full...)

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