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anonymous
writes:I've been having sex with my girlfriend just recently. 98% of the time i have wore a condom. but me and my girlfriend prefer to not use them. is there a chance she can get pregnant if i ejaculate on the outside of her virgina. (on her virgina, not in it) ???
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reader, ChristineD.  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Dont take the chance. If you were to have a baby and you are not expecting or want one, you will wish you had never done it. Maybe talk to her about birth control. If you guys are worried about her parents not letting her, or not approving, she needs to have a serious talk with them. She just needs to tell them that she is trying to be extra safe and its a natural thing. Me and my boyfriend are both almost 18 and I did that with my mom, and trust me, she is that kind of mom who would never in a million years think about that for her young daughter, but if you have a good talk, they feel better about it. Now, my mom knows I am on it, and shes just glad im being safe, and she loves my boyfriend. I think it would be worth it!Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Yes, it is possible for her to get pregnant in the way you described. Watch this for some sex education:
http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
Please don't put her at the risk for an unwanted pregnancy just because you don't like latex. Take good care of her and yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): If you are having sex without a comdon then of coarse there is a chance she can get pregnant... Even if you pull out and cum on the outside?
Pre-cum can get her pregnant. This is where your penis lets out sperm before you actually cum.
Even if you do not put yourself inside you can still get her pregnant if you cum on the outside. If you are both determind not to wear a condom then you should get the pill or another contraseptive.
Maybe try feather light condoms which are thinner feeling, but still give you protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): preejaculation sperm can leak out prior to orgasm so always wear a condom.
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Yes she can get pregnant. If you guys want to stop using condoms when your having sex (and your confident about each others sexual health) then there are other types of contraception that you should look into and get up and running on before you take that step. If you don't do this you will most likely end up with an unwanted pregancy.
Try googling contraception and clinic and see what services your local sexual health clinic offer. It might even be free.. There is teh pill, the injection, the implant, the patch... there is bound to be something that will suit the pair of you.
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Yes, it is VERY possible. That's why even when you ARE wearing a condom it's important for you to pull away from the vagina before you take the condom off.
Sperm can swim! so if you happen to get cum on the outside they can still swim back up there. Those little sperms can live up to 4 to 7 days I think after sex. BE CAREFUL!
-you're better off using a condom.
-or maybe try birth control?
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reader, petina1 +, writes (6 December 2008):
 yes, any contact at all near her genitals,even on her underwear there is a risk can enter her. You both need to re think the condom thing or you could end up being parents. hope this helps.
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