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*ah mouw
writes:okay... I'm just really confused. So my boyfriend broke it off a bit ago but we still talk and stuff and it sort of seems like we'd still be dating... Sometimes I talk to other guys (why shouldn't I?) but when I do and he finds out, he gets upset! He accuses me of "moving on" and then he calls me a liar and stuff and then he acts like it's all whatever. Then, when I find out he's flirting/talking to all these other girls he acts like it's nothing... no big deal or he'll try and hide it. Then since he's talking to all these other chicks I figure I give him some space... But when I do a couple days later he texts me and accuses me of not loving him anymore and complaining about how I don't talk to him enough. Something always happens but then he always ends up coming back to me... I just don't get it! It's confusing and takes lots of energy... of course i care about him and love him.. but WHAT DO YOU WANT?!!? MAKE UP YOUR MIND!!!!!
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reader, masterpo +, writes (21 June 2010):
he's the one who broke up so he should be the one that capable of letting go. he's just not very mature and he probably feels that since you're not the one who broke up, you should be upset and all that. based on what you said so far, it seems like he's trying to make you jealous.
i think that you should go up to him and talk to him. say that since he's the one who broke up with you, he shouldn't care about youre relationships with other guys. talk to him calmly and try to talk some sense into him.
i suggest staying friends with him though. its always better having one more friend that one more enemy
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (20 June 2010):
lah mouw is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm not really attached to thinking he'll come back to me. He wants to do what he wants soooo why not let him? That way I can do what I want. But when that happens he acts like the world has ended. It's just really wishy washy. one days it's this way the next it's another way. oh well!
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