I am always hard around my fiance and it's starting to turn her off
Q. Is it normal for me to just be constantly hard around my fiance. we been dating for 4 years...and we lost our virginity to each other. She is very very beautiful and when i was younger, im 19 now i dont remember being so hard around her, ever since ...
A. 29 April 2011: Thank you all, and well i havent been trying to have sex with her thats the thing. It's like my body just wired it self to get hard when im around her or hear her voice lol. but lately i have i ve talked to her and she just seems moody. she said she ... (read in full...)
How do I go about this relationship?
Q. ok so i have this girl i been dating for a while. she has been through somethings...in the area of abusive boyfriend...bad relationships and moms ex boyfriend almost raping her.its been many years since then and this was before i met her.i ...
A. 9 January 2011: Thanks :) that helped a lot. and no i have not unfortunately... (read in full...)
We hardly get to spend any time together...
Q. I'm 18 and my boyfriend and i rarely go anywhere. We used to work together so i was all right with it because i got to talk to him and he would take me home and pick me up everyday. But i got laid off and he didn't. now he works 5 days a week an...
A. 29 December 2010: I think you should ask him if he can clear more days for you at some point so you guys can be together longer. if not the best thing to do is work with the time you have until something opens up. there is no point on breaking up if it is not his ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I get a fair return in relationships
Q. Why do I feel this? Let's say everyday I come home from work. I have to cook, clean, and keep my child quiet and inactive. At night I relieve my man (not saying that I don't enjoy sex, I actually very much do.) My man just pretends to help out with ...
A. 29 December 2010: Have you tried sitting down with him and told him how you feel. i mean you have a point about not getting any moral support.sex is one thing but not having the moral support around it kinda takes away from it.Anyway my simple suggestion is to ... (read in full...)
Neither of us really understand what love is! Help!
Q. I'm 19 and I used to be a bad person. I was raised by a single mother that never really cared about me because i was a mistake. I was shown no love growing up so I gave non. About 2 years ago I looked into this girls eyes and sense then she is all i ...
A. 13 December 2010: well a simple way to describe love is strong unconditional feelings toward another person..and i meant to confide in a 15 year old for love is a little concerning as well but i understand you been through a lot.also u sound like you need someone who ... (read in full...)
Boys are asking me to change! Should I?
Q. Hello. here's my question. i have so many guy friends and since we are now teenagers we are now talking about teenage stuff. some of my guy friends ask me to change and be a little more girly becuase they think i am too tomboyish. should i change?...
A. 13 December 2010: if you feel like thats what you should do then do it.but do it because YOU WANT TO DO IT and not because OTHERS WANT YOU TOO. you will come to find that some boys like tomboys such as yourself. haha i one of them lol i always wanted to date a girl ... (read in full...)
I need help negotiating all the problems with my girlfriend and my friends!
Q. If you've read my other quetions, you should know exactly what's going on. I've found lately that my best friend has become a bit angry with me abiut my girlfriend, who he liked, but I didn't know. He doesn't say anything to me openly, but I think ...
A. 13 December 2010: well it sounds simple. if you want to keep your girl then dont fight. Sometimes battles are won by not fighting and you have to swallow your pride sometimes in order save the good things in life. As far as JP just let him get use to it. I mean you ... (read in full...)
I don't love him like he loves me. but I like someone else they way they like me. can some1 help?
Q. Hey, im 13 years onld and i have been in a relationship with a 15 year old for about 3 or 4 months now.... we had a relation ship once befor this and it dident work for many reasons. anyways. he says he loves me with all his heart, and he says whe...
A. 13 December 2010: talk to him on the phone or txt and just say how you feel. say you think we need to break up for what ever reason you feel yall need to break up for. and say i will glady be your friend because thats what you feel like is best. n yeaa ... (read in full...)
My father is furious over my new bf, I am 16, how do I cool him down??
Q. Um... I need help quickly. I got my first boyfriend about a week ago. He's really sweet, caring, etc. (not going into detail, just know he is a nice guy.) And I told my mom, who was excited, and knew i liked the guy before he asked me out. Now my ...
A. 12 December 2010: well basically half the battle is one if your mom is ok with it. use that to the advantage and have your moms talk to your pops.i mean your at the dating age anyway your dad is just over protective ..he ll be alright lol.your already dating him so ... (read in full...)
I don't love him like he loves me. but I like someone else they way they like me. can some1 help?
Q. Hey, im 13 years onld and i have been in a relationship with a 15 year old for about 3 or 4 months now.... we had a relation ship once befor this and it dident work for many reasons. anyways. he says he loves me with all his heart, and he says whe...
A. 12 December 2010: yea i hear you. my fault..you do sound very mature. but its like you said with the 17 year old it wouldnt be legal in a few months ..then what? and im happy to see you want to model your relationship after your parents :) but sometimes things just ... (read in full...)
My best friend hates me?
Q. I have this best friend JP (not a real name of course) andvI'm afraid. I've always been more popular, got the most girls and had the most influential friends. JP is just coming into the world of popularity as a freshman. i feel that he's been ...
A. 12 December 2010: no problem.and yea i here you.finding him a girlfriend is the best solution you know.another thing is you cant please everbody and its best to keep your closet friends close to you such as JP and your Girlfriend.so yes definetly hang out with JP ... (read in full...)
What am I involved in with this guy?
Q. Been involved for past 6-8 years with male partner with sex as the only reason for us meeting or communicating. He is more than willing to meet with me anytime at my request. This male is NOT married (confirmed)or in any other type of commited ...
A. 12 December 2010: maybe not..he says he prefers to be single and when you look at it its for the exact reason he meets up with you. Eventually he ll stop if you catch feelings somewhere along the line and if he catches feelings..which has little probablity..then it ... (read in full...)
I was scared to go out with him, and now he has a girlfriend!
Q. Well i have a problem with this guy... well it started in eighth grade.(now in tenth) I had told him that i liked him, and he had said that he liked me back but when he asked me out i said no because i was scared and he would be my first boyfriend, ...
A. 12 December 2010: naw just leave him alone. i mean yes he is a cheat if he has a GF and is touching you. basically it sounds like he jst wants to sleep with you. its best not to engage in any contact with him and detach your feelings for him.
i mean think about yo... (read in full...)
My best friend hates me?
Q. I have this best friend JP (not a real name of course) andvI'm afraid. I've always been more popular, got the most girls and had the most influential friends. JP is just coming into the world of popularity as a freshman. i feel that he's been ...
A. 12 December 2010: maybe he feels that your spending more time with dana than him. i mean he might not tell you this because of how it sounds but yes that could be the problem. or if anything maybe he wants a girl and feels lonely eevery time he sees you with ... (read in full...)
Should I care or just follow my heart?
Q. i am 13 and a girl and i really like this guy. he's not that cute, but he is really nice and sweet. our faiths are different, but i don't think that matters, at least right now. it's not like we're gonna get married, haha. but the thing is, my best ...
A. 12 December 2010: a guy is not with your friendship. I mean there is plenty of boys out there and if one guy is gonna ruin your friendship with your friend then its not worth it. Now what i would do is talk with him privately on facebook and ask if he likes you. i ... (read in full...)
I don't love him like he loves me. but I like someone else they way they like me. can some1 help?
Q. Hey, im 13 years onld and i have been in a relationship with a 15 year old for about 3 or 4 months now.... we had a relation ship once befor this and it dident work for many reasons. anyways. he says he loves me with all his heart, and he says whe...
A. 12 December 2010: wooah did you say 17.i mean big age difference maturity wise and yea im not sure if thats even legal..it is best for both of you guys to stay friends but as far as yor boyfriend situation i would say that you are a bit too young for love.you still ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend still living with me but seeing other men!
Q. Ive been in a realationship with a her for 5 1/2 years. Lived with her for almost 2 1/2 years have two children one 18 months and one 8 month old. My girlfriend started seen another man well men in the last month. and still is living with me and the ...
A. 12 December 2010: maan listen. as much as it hurts you to let her go..its about that time. she is really disrepcting you by having these guys come over all hours of the night WITH KIDS IN THE HOUSE. plus she said she dont love you so yea its time to split up.if ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to understand him... at all!
Q. Okay so me and this guy has been talking for 8 months now and I can't seem to understand him... at all! He says he likes me and cares about me but never shows it besides when he comes to see me. And even when he does come to see me, we barely even ...
A. 12 December 2010: that is a possibility ..the fact that something in his life happend that now he cant communicate his feeligns with others well or maybe he wants to but just doesnt know how. If anything what you can do is sit him down in person.literally break it ... (read in full...)
I'm living with my boyfriend's ex and she hates him, how do I tell her I'm seeing him again?
Q. I have a complicated situation I need help with. A few months ago my mom kicked me out and I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years for a month before we broke up. When we broke up I moved in with a friend who was my boyfriends ex-girlfriend(they ...
A. 12 December 2010: to be honest there is no way around it.Its better to just sit her down and describe the situation.something like ..i really care about you and we been friends for a while. i know how you feel about your ex but me and him are dating again..and i know ... (read in full...)
I was infatuated, but I wanna get over it! S.O.S.
Q. I am a sophomore now and this happened a couple years ago. So there was this one teacher, he was a band teacher. He was super super cute! He was a teacher at the jr. High. Everyday after lunch he would always try to walk with me and we would talk. ...
A. 12 December 2010: Find a boy your age who catches your interest.Also, stop visiting your middle school for a while..besides that you ll grow out of it. your still young and things like that happen here and there lol.... (read in full...)
Is it because he feels something more or he thinks that I do???
Q. I have been fuck buddies with a guy for quite a while now, but lately things are getting weird but for whatever reason we havent seen each other for a couple of weeks. That's because when one of us plans to chill something always comes up. Now he's ...
A. 12 December 2010: souds like he sexually frustrated. probably upset because you guys havent been fuking and something just coincidently happens on the day yall are suppose to fuck.just give it time and wait for him to say he wants to fuck.or just ask him when is the ... (read in full...)
She's convinced that I don't love or care about her!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been fighting about small things but now, she thinks that i wanted to brake up and she thinks that i dont love or care about her at all. But the thing is i really do love and care about her and i want to be with her. What ...
A. 12 December 2010: sounds like she needs more attention from you. write her poems and tell her you love her every morning whether its in text or person.send her cute songs to let her know how you feel.I play the song i made for my girl here and there and she knows now ... (read in full...)
Do you sometimes have to play games in relationships?
Q. Do you sometimes have to play games in relationships? I met a guy a short while ago and he came on really, really strong...not sexually, but lovingly and wanting a relationship. He kept saying he was afraid to get involved with me because he worri...
A. 12 December 2010: yeah it sounds like he has been through somethings..with the incarcaration and all.Honestly, he has some issues with himself he needs to take care of before he can be with you.Sounds like he is afraid of being close and has trust issues.I would back ... (read in full...)
Why does he cheat, there's nothing binding him to me?
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 yrs. I have caught him cheating on me a couple of times. But he insist that he want me and dont want to loose me. So why would a man cheat on you if he is really in love with you and dont want ...
A. 12 December 2010: lol OMG let me tell you this brings back memories.you sound like how my girlfriend use to be with me. well i was the cheater. everything you wrote happen to my girlfriend and i said those exact same things.well its what the first person said. for me ... (read in full...)
I never get hit on!
Q. I am a 19 year old woman. I'm five foot four 115 pounds in very good shape. Have green eyes long blonde hair and I'm a model and a nurse. I'm friendly and I smile but men still NEVER approach me. I don't feel like I'm unattractive and I make eye ...
A. 12 December 2010: well for one if i knew you or seen you around i would definetly approach you, but during this day and age both male and female are afraid to approach each other due to doubts and fears.i use to be afraid to approach any girl for the fact i didnt ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend ends up kissing her best friend whenever we're on a break!
Q. please i need your opinions , every single one possible , i just do not get what my girlfriend means when she tells me she always had feelings for her best male friend ?.. i know that they kissed and done stuff together but i dont know what to think...
A. 12 December 2010: Then you need tell her she needs to make a choice. its obvious she has feelings for this friend.It seems like she wants both of you and both of you play a certain role in her life but she needs to pick 1!Talk to her about it and let her know how u ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is my family really screwed up?
Q. Are my morals wrong in thinking that sisters shouldnt sleep with each others exs?? I'm the middle child of 3 sisters.I found out recently that my little sister slept with my ex fiance' and my older sister is currently sleeping with a guy i was ...
A. 12 December 2010: naw, your not crazy it is wrong. its just the moral principal that you shouldnt date or sleep with another family members ex. espcially if they are as close as siblings.It's happen to me before where my brother slept with my ex girl the same day we ... (read in full...)
Why do men cheat with women who are not as attractive / accomplished / affectionate as their partners?
Q. Why do (guy) cheaters cheat with women who are usually not as attractive, as accomplished or usually not as affectionate? ...
A. 12 December 2010: I believe its because some men find it easier to get all they want from a women that is not as attractive/accomplished/affectionate as their partners.For a women of those qualities are willing to tend to that mans every need and will.As for a women ... (read in full...)
He admitted he was hung up on his ex, so I went for his brother instead!
Q. SO not too long ago I met a guy that I really liked. Well we hit it off well and things seem to be doing great! then a couple days ago he said that he is still in love with his ex. I told him that it was okay and we can still be friends. Then I ...
A. 12 December 2010: honestly i would suggest not dating his brother no matter how much you want too. It might or might not ruin the relationship between them.Your ex may not show it but he still has feelings for you and even if he doesnt im sure he will feel some ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a high sex drive, its driving me crazy, is there something wrong with her?
Q. this is a question mostly for the ladies- how high is your sex drive? I am asking because I am with a girl who is just about insatiable, we've been going out for three years and she's ALWAYS after sex. All the time! In the beginning we had it two o...
A. 12 December 2010: Honestly i dont believe there is. Maybe she just likes sex.im a 19 year old male and i ll admit i have the same problem as your girlfriend.For me, i think its because i was really attracted to my partner who i been with for almost 6 years.i lost my ... (read in full...)
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