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*rns96
writes:I have this best friend JP (not a real name of course) andvI'm afraid. I've always been more popular, got the most girls and had the most influential friends. JP is just coming into the world of popularity as a freshman. i feel that he's been resenting me lately. i suppose it shouldbe happened sooner in our 3 year friendship, but here it is now. ever since i began dating this girl "Dana", he's been all moody.when i asked him if Dana was the problem, he said no. i see no reason to disbeliee him, he usually tells me wen he has a problem. idk watsup, nd i need help
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 no problem.and yea i here you.finding him a girlfriend is the best solution you know.another thing is you cant please everbody and its best to keep your closet friends close to you such as JP and your Girlfriend.so yes definetly hang out with JP more often and when in a big group of friends..spend time with everybody to make sure nobody feels left out...especially JP.get him comfortable with your friends as well so that way he doesnt feel left out as much.
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reader, jrns96 +, writes (12 December 2010):
jrns96 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Tizzie, I appreciate the help. I'll try to chill with JP more often. It's just hard you know? He needs more hang out time than anyone else since he has less friends. This makes it hard to balance my closest friend, my girlfriend, and my host of other friends. Thanks Tizzie.
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (12 December 2010):
maybe he feels that your spending more time with dana than him. i mean he might not tell you this because of how it sounds but yes that could be the problem. or if anything maybe he wants a girl and feels lonely eevery time he sees you with dana.Also, i got like that sometimes as well when i played the 3rd wheel with my friend and his girl a while back.
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