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writes:well i am 16 and i am in my first year of college,i wouldnt say that i am beautifull or any of that becasue i dont have much confidence in my apperiance but i do in my personlaity even though a lot of peaple say i am stunning and i turn heads but i never listen to any of that.Anyway i have a problem its not big one but to me it is for some reason. So there is this boy in my college he is like the one that everyone thinks is good looking. I have him on facebook and he inboxed me and we were just having a nice conversation and then when he saw me in college he just looked at me! then i went out at the weekend walked into the bar and there he was and he went wahaaay and pointed to me then i kept seeing him all around the bar and like smiled and stuff. But my question is how do i get him to notice me? becasue there are soooooo many more georgeous girls out there and yet he inboxed me?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 December 2010):
HE ALREADY HAS NOTICED YOU!
Why do you think he spent his time waving to you and staring at you? It's not about him noticing you anymore. It's about whether he knows you're interested in him. So, if you are, go and talk to him and maybe ask him out on a date. The problem between men and women is that we can't all read each others minds. He may well like you, but maybe he's unsure whether you like him. So quit worrying about so called 'prettier girls', and go talk to him. It may be the best thing you do.
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reader, jrns96  +, writes (12 December 2010):
this is a bit tough. but im a guy and ill tell u how it is. if ur even moderately pretty, hes noticed u. believe me. the problem is, actually making contact with u. just start talking to him, initiate conversation. he WILL respond. talk tohim enough nd even if u werent the most gorgeous girl in the world, hell begin to see a lot more in u.i promise. i have been in his situation plenty of times. ---joerns
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reader, JacksMama +, writes (12 December 2010):
Well from the sounds of it has noticed you. Dont forget some people are shy too. Also there are many many many woman in the world but that doesnt mean they are all better than you either. Try going up to him and flirting with him show him that your interested in him. Maybe hes confused too.
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