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writes:dear cupid, i would like to ask, is right to spend alot of money in a relationship to impress your girlfriend.
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reader, der_zyniker  +, writes (4 January 2011):
Well i personally don't really see the point in that. If she is worth something I doubt that she would care about your money. All she should care about is what sort of person you are because if she marries you some day I doubt you want to reason to be because of your money.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (4 January 2011):
imho
if you impressed her from the the begining by expesive gifts
you well have to continue this behaviour for the rest of your relationship time because first impression is a lasting impression..
so i suggest that you try to get to know what makes your girl happy and mind her taste(t-shirst,music cd's,video games,maybe a nice peice of jewelry that you can afford)
buy it to her and make it a very nice surprise, i believe it well work better this way
Good Luck
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reader, jrns96 +, writes (4 January 2011):
Hey, if you have money like that, that's pretty cool. But like Illithid before me said, you spend tto much, the chance they're with you for the cash increases.
Also, like he said, spend money on her in intervals, surprise her. When you spend money on her, try to spend it going somewhere with her, or get something you both can share/have one of. Try to tie a sentimental rope around every bit of money you spend. You don't want her to love your cash, you want her to love you.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (4 January 2011):
 You CAN, and many girls will appreciate it, but it's risky. The more you spend, the more likely it becomes that she's only with you for the money... not to mention that she may become accustomed to it and then what happens when you lose your job or an emergency occurs and you can't afford expensive gifts anymore? Finding a girl who enjoys the simpler things and just wants you, not gifts, then surprising her once in a while with a thoughtful gift would be ideal.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Only is she has earned it and you know her for long enough to be confident that it's not material things she is interested in but yourself!
Money can't buy you real love hun, it will only attract shallow materialistic women
Hope this helps:)
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reader, Fabulosa +, writes (4 January 2011):
 As long as your not going in debt or not holding up to your financial responsibilitys then its no big deal. But u got to be careful that she doesn't fall inlove with the money instead of you. And make sure you save someone to.
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (4 January 2011):
Well, it depends! Does she appreciate it as much as you want her to?
As a girl, I hate stingy guys but you should always remember that you can't trade her love with money.
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