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Men: is this a real belief?

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Question - (6 April 2014) 12 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2014)
A age 26-29, * writes:

Question for the gentlemen only please :)

This doesn't actually relate to me as such, but it's something that I heard and thought was ridiculous.

I was talking to my male friend and we were discussing girlfriends and things and I asked how his relationship was going and he said he'd ended it because her white bra had grey bra straps. I asked why it mattered and he said if a girl has grey bra straps then she's a liar and been cheating on their partner.

This would never have even crossed my mind if I looked at my girlfriends bar straps and they were grey, I'd just think it was a well worn bra and nothing more. But then of course I'm female. I just wanted to know whether it was something people believed or if it was my friend being his usual bizarre self.

My question is, do men actually believe this? If your girlfriend has grey bra straps, do you genuinely think she's cheated on you?

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A male reader, methuselah United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2014):

Hi,

I've never heard of that. He just didn't want her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2014):

LOL that's some funny s*** right there! Anybody who believes that is deluded. IGNORE.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (7 April 2014):

CindyCares agony auntNo, if a woman sports grey bra straps does not mean she is a liar.

It may mean she is cheap, though.

When bra straps become grey, it's time to buy a new bra :).

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (7 April 2014):

Aunty BimBim agony auntWhen paper drinking straws were the norm green ones caused pregnancy .............

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A male reader, Levsn Sweden +, writes (7 April 2014):

Pretty sure he also believes the toothfairy exists or that the earth is flat.

A specific colour does not make someone a liar.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (7 April 2014):

C. Grant agony auntNonsense.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2014):

Yes, it's true, some men do believe this.

They also believe that, unless you carry small packets of disposable tissues in your handbag at all times, you are a witch.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (6 April 2014):

Honeypie agony auntThat is about the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Where the heck did he get that notion from?

Grey strap means it's an older bra that has been worn and washed a lot, THAT is all.

What a delusional dude!

If he wasn't kidding, he is certifiable.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (6 April 2014):

Ciar agony auntMost likely it was your friend's way of saying he didn't want to talk about his relationship or its demise. He was directing your attention away from something uncomfortable and on to something absurd or mundane.

I have never heard of this belief from anyone in real life or anywhere on the internet. Ever.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (6 April 2014):

person12345 agony auntIf he's not joking he's a complete nut. How the heck could bra straps POSSIBLY mean that.

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A male reader, Hnk  United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2014):

Hnk  agony auntAbsolutely gibberish ! Where did he get the idea?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2014):

I think this friend of yours lives with the fairies! A woman's bra colour has nothing to do with anything. God knows what he was on, but either he was having a joke with you, or he has some serious problems and needs help.

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