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writes:What's worse? - Being in a relationshpip with a cheating coward or a arrogant know-it-all? Or are both types equally undesirable? Any related comments or thoughts would be very helpful. Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2014): Being with someone who is a coward and knows nothing.
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (15 April 2014):
 Depends on what.is meant by arrogant know it all, or if arrogant know it all is just a nasty way of describing a person who is out spoken about what they believe to be right.
But there is NOTHING worse than a cheating coward, except being married to one.
I'd rather be punched in the face than stabbed in the back.
I want a partner who will stand up for me.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (15 April 2014):
 I'm with eyeswideopen. I was thinking something similar myself, though I might see it slightly differently if I suddenly found myself with herpes or HIV through no fault of my own.
Both are bad. Find someone else.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 April 2014):
 Which is worse...getting hit by a Mack truck going 85 miles per hour or getting hit by a Peterbilt going 85 miles per hour?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2014): Technically an arrogant know-it-all is less likely to give me an STD so that's not "worse".
I'd not be with either though. I don't get why anyone would choose either when there's a sea full of good fish out there.
These aren't the only two available people in existence, so I'd chalk them down as undesirable and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2014): Are you asking with yourself in mind or are you lamenting somebody elses choices?
I, personally, would choose neither preferring to remain single but I guess that my "arrogant know-it-all" might be somebody else's "confident and clever" - but then I'd leave her to go out with him instead.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 April 2014):
 I would choose neither, if that is the only available choice, better being single.
If really forced at gunpoint to make my choice, I would choose the arrogant prick. While an arrogant prick does not have to also be a cheater, a cheating coward is ALSO arrogant. Cheating is arrogant, it means " I'll do the f..k I want when I want, regardless of any promises or obligations, and regardless of how you may feel about it "
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (15 April 2014):
 I would never be with a cheat, but then I wouldn't choose the other one either. Why haven't you included the single option?
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (15 April 2014):
 they both have character flaws. and in one way they are a like. the cheater, cheats because they think of them self and place them self above anyone else. the arrogant know it all, think they are better than everyone else and think highly of them self also.
one may cheat, and the other may not. but both are in love with them self, and look out for what is best for them.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 April 2014):
 I think if I HAD to choose... I'd choose.. BE SINGLE!
Neither sounds like men I'd want to date honestly, though, a coward cheater would be "ranked" higher on the undesirable list them an arrogant prick.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 April 2014):
 Cheating is a deal breaker. If there's cheating, there simply isn't a relationship. Cheating is just a way for cowards to break up with you, without having to tell you they want out... They just start relationships with someone else while still with you.
I don't see how someone who is arrogant can really be compared to that.
Neither of these two "options" of yours are options in my book. Better to be SINGLE, than with either of your "options".
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reader, Hnk +, writes (15 April 2014):
In my opinion BOTH are extremely undesirable and you can not live happily or comfortably if involved with either !
Cheating shows quirks of lying, dishonesty, disloyalty, unfaithfulness. Even one of the trait is a big NO in my opinion! Coward too ?
An arrogant know it all be always rubbing how he's better than you in every possible way and have no respect at all. Always nagging or boasting about himself is hard to get along with. He might find you inferior for knowing less and he can easily deceive you by pretending he knows more than he actually does because you might be under the impression of him knowing more !
I'll be single than being abused and not respected!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2014): its easier to be alone!!!
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