My internet love broke up with me and now isn't returning my calls!
Q. i meet a guy 3 months ago in a internet, and we chatted for 1 week than we fall in love, i don't what happens he don't talk to me much or don't come online much i got so upset and i write to him asking why is he doing this to me he reply he said its ...
A. 5 July 2010: Im sure your a nice girl but this guy was never for you anyway. If he really loved you he would still be talking to you. I know its hard it happens to all of us. Im really sorry hun. You will be ok over time. ... (read in full...)
Do I take in only one of my siblings, or leave them both together?
Q. My sister (12) and brother(10) are both in a care home as my mum lost custody of them as she is a heroin addict. I don't have enough money/big enough house to take custody of both of them but my solicitor says that I could certainly take one of ...
A. 28 June 2010: I agree that you should try to find any way possible to take them both. they need to be gotten out of that home if there is going to be any hope for them finding good direction in life. You will have to do whatever you have to do. This is above ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to stop his sarcastic comments?
Q. What do you do when your boyfriend (of 7 years) won't stop with the sarcastic comments? He has comments about my stretch marks, saggy chest, belly, mommy pouch, butt, ect. (We have two kids, I am 26 years old) ALL the time, sometimes they s...
A. 21 June 2010: GET OUT!!!!!!! You leave. Thats what you do. Thing is even if he does stop if he really loves you he just wouldn't say those things about you in the way he does. I hope you can just find the strength to leave his sorry ass. If a man loves a woman ... (read in full...)
Just curious, could an affair ever be justified for purely sexual satisfaction reasons?
Q. Please understand that I love my husband and have not cheated on him. The reason I am asking this is because I feel so conflicted at the moment I need impartial advice. I love my husband. He was my first (not only) lover and when we got married I...
A. 21 June 2010: Key word at the end of your post is you have no physical "LUST" for him anymore. To put it plain and simple that is exactly where your problem lies. You have untied sexual pleasure from love. For some reason you have disassociated sex with love. ... (read in full...)
Makes no sense to me, why he texts without actually meeting me
Q. What's with texting? I met this guy couple months ago.He is a little younger than me. He started texting me few days after we met, first as friends and then flirty messages all the time. He is still in college, works as valet during summe...
A. 20 June 2010: He just wants to sleep with you. Dont txt him no more
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I don't classify this as cheating but my boyfriend will!
Q. Okay, Ive been dating a guy for about 2 months and I told him I would never cheat. But recently I was out with friends (1 girl and 2guys) one of the guys is an ex boyfriend. When we were leaving, i hugged him goodbye and I turned to kiss him on ...
A. 1 May 2010: If there was a toung involved it wasn't a friendship kiss and if you returned it then yes it can fairly be classed as cheating by him. Don't belittle him make small of this. Ask yourself this. If he did exactly what you did that night with ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old when I'm 16?
Q. Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old girl when im 16. No its not about sex thats completely retarded at this age. She admitted she liked after her mom told me....
A. 24 April 2010: No... (read in full...)
I'm 18, she's 14 and may be pregnant. Could her dad file charges?
Q. I'm 18 and she is 14 turning 15 in less than two months she might be pregnant?Her mom has legal custody her dad doesn't,does that mean only her mom can determine whether to press charges,but her mom is okay with me and her daughter.Help me? what do ...
A. 22 April 2010: If she is pregnant you better take care of her otherwise her mom has 3 years to decide that she doesn't like you and to hold pressing charges against you. You not only have to make sure the girl is happy you also need to stay on good terms with her ... (read in full...)
Am I asking for trouble moving nearer to his ex?
Q. Me and my on off boyfriend are thinking about moving out somewere different, he wants to move down the country to where his ex girlfriend lives. Now me and his ex used to be mates like she told me she and him where bests friends and while we were ...
A. 22 April 2010: Nope you shouldn't and if he really loved you he wouldn't want to move closer to his ex. I know its hard and you probably won't do it but you should find someone else. There is true love to be found out there... (read in full...)
Is it bad to masturbate so much?
Q. I am 14 years old and i watch porno. i watch the type of porno that is called hentai or animations "mangas" because they usally have stories. everytime i watch it after im done i go and masturbate. i done it a lot lately. at least 3 times a day. is ...
A. 18 April 2010: I agree with caring guy. Nothing wrong with it just don't develope an addiction to porn. I watch porn sometimes though I've watched a lot less as I get older. My personal opinion is that you should mov away from watching the kind of porn your ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend told me he'd leave if I got pregnant, and I tested positive.
Q. I am 15 and i done a pregnancy test this morning it was positive.My boyfriend said he would leave me if i ever was what should i do?...
A. 17 April 2010: This is the most jackass and selfish thing a guy could ever do or say. Its worse than cheating. He does not care about you if he would say that. You know even if he apologizes to you it still won't matter. A guy would never say that to a girl he ... (read in full...)
Is he up to something if it took him 2 months to kiss me?
Q. What do you think?? is my boyfriend up to something bad? my bf is really sweet.it took him 2months to kiss me..we'd hang out cuddle, hold hands but he didn't make a move to kiss me. i asked him why it took him that long cos most guys would just jum...
A. 15 April 2010: Does he kiss you now? He's a gentleman hun hang onto him. Maybe take the lead if you want... (read in full...)
Is there a way to fix this without kicking him out?
Q. I feel terrible for writing this, but feel I could benefit from some advice on how to approach this situation. I trust my boyfriend, but there is a money issue and I dont want to be taken for a ride. We just moved in together, and he was originall...
A. 14 April 2010: I disagree with marie. Even though you make more money living together even as she explained is a team effort. Therefore you must each do your part. You agreed to pay half each and he doesn't that therefore he is not doing his part. I would say ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to say that if she won't do it for me, I won't do it for her?
Q. my girlfriend had a lot of sex before she got with me. She was well known for giving blow jobs. We have been together a year and she won't give me one. When I asked her to do it she refused. She said that when she was younger she did it ...
A. 13 April 2010: Um she doesn't want you to be like those other guys. Shes ready for a guy to want to be with her for her and not what shes willing to do. She is ready to be loved. get over it. If a BJ is what you need than yea move on. If you really like this ... (read in full...)
Mates will make fun of me if I ask this girl out
Q. theres this girl who likes me. i think she is nice but if i go out with her i will get stick off my mates. what should i do?...
A. 13 April 2010: Umm who are you attracted to the girl or your mates? What has you worried what they think? Do you really think a girl would appreciate and how would she feel knowing you are with her to try and impress you mates? Trust me bud if this girl is ... (read in full...)
I am a lesbian, how can I get my friend to like me back?
Q. Ok so I like this girl well she is actually a friend and I fancy her and have done for the last few months so I told her. not really my best idea but she was cool with it. Its just am not sure what her sexuality is because she has never said am ...
A. 13 April 2010: Well you can't make someone gay if they aren't. That must be her orientation in order for you to have her like you in that way back... (read in full...)
I am a lesbian, how can I get my friend to like me back?
Q. Ok so I like this girl well she is actually a friend and I fancy her and have done for the last few months so I told her. not really my best idea but she was cool with it. Its just am not sure what her sexuality is because she has never said am ...
A. 13 April 2010: Well you can't make someone gay if they aren't. That must be her orientation in order for you to have her like you in that way back... (read in full...)
How can I show him I'm not still cheating?
Q. hi there, i cheated on my partner earlier this year. I feel like a slut for doing it. He is always saying to me that im still cheating. But im not. I made a massive mistake once. Im not gonna do it again. Im scared that he'll leave me. i wanna try ...
A. 12 April 2010: I disagree with the last poster. He has every right to seem as though he is stringing you along. He doesn't owe you a definate answer. See now because you did what you did 3 things have taken place. First he now has to wrestle emotionally with ... (read in full...)
Any idea's on kinky things that don't include sex?
Q. my boyfriend and i don't want to have sex. oral or real.we just believe we should wait. so i was wondering what kind of kinky stuff we could do that doesn't include sex/oral. thanks xxx...
A. 12 April 2010: Umm your fooling yourself. When he says he's not ready he means he's willing to consider that your not ready. He's ready just he cares about you so he doesn't want to push you. Keep in mind that he is hoping that by showing patience you will ... (read in full...)
Breaking up by text message. I find it rude and immature!
Q. My girlfriend of 4 years basically is trying to break up with me through a text message. I feel that is very rude and immature. So I'm thinking about writing this back. " I don’t understand the reason why you send a text to do this. Keep the phone. ...
A. 12 April 2010: That's just her trying to keep you as an option or trying to give you false hope... (read in full...)
Breaking up by text message. I find it rude and immature!
Q. My girlfriend of 4 years basically is trying to break up with me through a text message. I feel that is very rude and immature. So I'm thinking about writing this back. " I don’t understand the reason why you send a text to do this. Keep the phone. ...
A. 11 April 2010: The best thing to say in this situation is absolutley nothing. Don't even acknowledge her and just move on.... (read in full...)
Is it a bad thing to tell her I love her even though she has a boyfriend?
Q. I'm in love with a girl since 8 months and i've had a crush on her since 17 months. We study in the same college. She has a boyfriend since 5 months who studies in her class. I didnt know she was in a relationship until last month.She wants a long t...
A. 8 April 2010: I agree with the first answer. This girl asking you if you love her after you confessed your crush is just her filling her own ego. She loves the fact that you like her but really she's just enjoying the attention... (read in full...)
Does he like me or just want FWB?
Q. first off i am 21, and my brother is 19, but his best friend is 18. his friend is so attractive and we have soo much in common, me him my brother and his girl friend all bowl together and go to baseball games and things like that. we get along so ...
A. 8 April 2010: He said "hook up" so most likely fwb. Although he might entertain a relationship to a certain extent.... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 8 April 2010: Whatever man. Women are human beings they deserve to be treated like you would treat anyone else... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 5 April 2010: When I was your age I thought I was the king at digging a hole. it is with "force" I must pass that crown to you... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 4 April 2010: Hey buddy! No you are wrong you are a user. Unless you tell these girls about what usually happens you are just using them. You go into knowing what happens. Again "you" are wrong!! This girl who seems to be spreading accurate information is ... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 3 April 2010: Aren't you charming. You don't try to decieve anyone? So I guess that means you tell these girls that you only have sex one time before you move on? Yea I didn't think so. You are decieving and you are using. Best clean your act up... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's best friend assaulted me
Q. I started to tell the whole, long story. but it turned out to be about 20000 words.. so here is the short version: My boyfriend's best friend forced me to give him head. He was drunk, i was not that drunk. My boyfriend was sleeping on the couch ne...
A. 3 April 2010: He didn't assualt you. You gave in and now you regret it. That's it. You could tell your bf or you could not but what if he finds out? What if his best friend blackmails you and makes you do it again otherwise he will tell his buddy about it. I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is the complete opposite of my "normal" type, will I regret dating him later on?
Q. This is something I've been thinking about and hopefullly some of you can give me opinions. I've always had a 'type' of guy I go for...light hair, boyish features, confident, athletic etc. I always find myself checking such guys out...I'm just d...
A. 2 April 2010: Have you asked yourself what if maybe your not the usual type your BF goes for? Lets be real here. The type of guy you described says nothing about your standards for how a guy treats you. Sure go for the physical type of guy you like and maybe ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gave weird answer to my money questions and now I'm confused!
Q. i m in a commited relationship...its a ldr..well jst for fun i asked my bf.. How do you think a woman and a man in a relationship should handle money together? n the reply which he gave i found completely irrelevant...he said that Money org...
A. 1 April 2010: Lol "heed the demands of wives"? Are you mad? Ur pretty young to already be this mad. Like if u get married all u have to do is demand something and he has to produce it. I bet if he didn't heed your demands you would stop sleeping with him ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is falling for me way too fast after losing his virginity
Q. Hello everyone, well this is my problem. I been with my boyfriend for about 3 months going on 4 and I'm his first everything. In the beginning I knew he was falling for me and he was falling fast. But now that I took his virginity I know that he i...
A. 29 March 2010: Its funny on thise site how people give such mundane assumingly very mature adult advice to these kinds of questions. We aren't robots people. His feelings are gonna be hurt if he says he loves you and you don't say it back. But don't say it if ... (read in full...)
She thinks it's okay to flirt with other guys in front of me!
Q. I've been dating a girl for about four months now. I've met her parents, and we're going abroad for a holiday next week. Things are great when we are together, except for one thing: she neither loves me (she 'likes me a lot'), nor does she consider ...
A. 29 March 2010: Bud if she was in love with you she wouldn't be acting like this. Don't ever believe a woman who says "that's just how I am". When she is in love with a guy she doesn't do things like this. I can say that about guys too to be honest. Just look at ... (read in full...)
She thinks it's okay to flirt with other guys in front of me!
Q. I've been dating a girl for about four months now. I've met her parents, and we're going abroad for a holiday next week. Things are great when we are together, except for one thing: she neither loves me (she 'likes me a lot'), nor does she consider ...
A. 29 March 2010: I won't even suggest telling her to choose as she already does that by flirting with other guys. Just stop seeing her. When a girl does this its different than when a guy does it. Girls are sadistic and manipulative. They will without any ... (read in full...)
I want my baby but my boyfriend wants me to abort. Help!
Q. Okay so I'm 16 and 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is 17. Just hear me out okay (: Although my boyfriend of 19 months and I had talked about having kids, our baby was not planned. We weren't careful at all with protection and so inevitably, I fe...
A. 27 March 2010: If you abort you will regret it for the rest of your life. If you don't you will look into that babies eyes and be mad for ever considering it. And guess what? When your bf holds that child for the first time he will be so happy you didn't. ... (read in full...)
Another boy tried to kiss me but I just couldn't get my ex out of my head and told him to stop!
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me in a cruel way about a week ago. he says there shouldnt be tension between us it was best to remain friends but that i should sleep over the next day and chill. so its more like he didnt want to be in a relationship but ...
A. 23 March 2010: I see how your ex made you feel like a slut. He was way out of line asking you to sleep with him even tho he didn't want a relationship. If you can find it in you to forget what he did and give yourself and someone else a chance. You have to give ... (read in full...)
She won't talk to me!
Q. How do i get my girlfriend to talk about us, our relationship, her feelings, her feelings toward me. Every time i want to a have a talk about us, she looks away, or she goes quiet, or tries to change the subject, or finds something to distract her, ...
A. 23 March 2010: Your stepping on her toes by initiating "define the relationship" talks. That's a womans job to intiate those talks. If she doesn't initiate the talk then she is happy with the relationship the way it is. Initiating this talk with her is similar ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to date him if I'm not sure if I like him as more than friends?
Q. A couple days ago someone confessed to me. I said I liked them back, but I'm not sure if I just like them as a friend, or like like. I think I may grow to like like them, but is it wrong for me to date them when my feelings are so confused? What if ...
A. 23 March 2010: Your over analyzing it. Your asking yourself frivilous questions. Keep it simple. You like the guy go out with him if you feel it keep going out with him... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my GF, I'm so unhappy and I don't trust her, but I keep failing
Q. *OP's own title* I'm in a 2 years relationship. basically, i do not trust my GF. i'm sooo unhappy, i have been trying to break up with her for the past three months. all attempts failed. in fact, sometimes i end up having sex with her when im...
A. 22 March 2010: I don't really believe that anyones softness to keep from breaking a persons heart is so intense that they ignore how they really feel. My theory is that you really do love her. If you really didn't love her then. Reaking her heart wouldn't be so ... (read in full...)
Changing my ways to win a good girl... I need advice.
Q. Hello, all. I've got a few insecurity issues atm. I'm currently 21 and though I won't reveal my title, I'm an Earl in the south of England. I'm valued at over £6 billion and control my father's estate. I've always been what my parents and exes...
A. 22 March 2010: 6 billion huh? Well aren't you something. Sounds like you view yourself as gods gift to women. Doubt you would ever be able to truely love this girl and I doubt she would ever truely love you for who you are and not what you have. I would stick ... (read in full...)
I am 14, my boyfriend cheats, should I stick with him?
Q. erm, you might not think its much, but I don't know how to react. me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months, and a couple of months ago he got off with this girl a couple of times and we nearly split up. I stayed with him but it took age...
A. 21 March 2010: Stay with him and let him keep cheating. That's what your doing anyway. You don't want to listen to your friends so why would you listen to us? You already have all the information you need to make the right decision... (read in full...)
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