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Is he up to something if it took him 2 months to kiss me?

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Question - (15 April 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

What do you think?? is my boyfriend up to something bad?

my bf is really sweet.it took him 2months to kiss me..we'd hang out cuddle, hold hands but he didn't make a move to kiss me. i asked him why it took him that long cos most guys would just jump on me.. he said hes got respect and didn't want to scare me off.

it kinda made me feel he didn't like me..but says he thinks am pretty and sexy but why did he take 2months to kiss me??

some people say is not right that he waited that long to kiss me (no guy does that).. and that he might be up to something.

what do you all think??

thnx,..xx

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A female reader, GettingHelp South Africa +, writes (15 April 2010):

I say you've got a gentleman - hang on to him. Men like him are few and far between! :)

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A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (15 April 2010):

Does he kiss you now? He's a gentleman hun hang onto him. Maybe take the lead if you want

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (15 April 2010):

Honest Answer agony auntI think you have found a gentlemen. Good for you.

Good Luck!

Jeff

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010):

That alone doesn't mean there's something wrong. He's probably naturally a little shy and respects you a lot. Maybe he wanted to show that he cares about you a lot and isn't just looking for the physical part of the relationship. In any case, it sounds like he's kissed you now, so apparently he likes you.

Just remember that different guys have different comfort levels with regard to touch and romantic/sexual advances. Those who are less experienced are probably going to be less confident and take things more slowly. It doesn't mean that he loves you less though.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010):

Seems like an honest and decent guy. Perhaps he's shy and perhaps he wants to see if you are really interested in him as a person and not just for cuddling and having sex.

Give him time and get to know him well.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (15 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntMaybe , he is afraid that you may turn him into a green froggie and keep him as a pet.

He could probably be very shy and does not know how to kiss a sexy girl or his mom did not tell him how to kiss or warned him not to kiss any girl or he could get into troubles.

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