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writes:my boyfriend and i don't want to have sex. oral or real.we just believe we should wait. so i was wondering what kind of kinky stuff we could do that doesn't include sex/oral. thanks xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, brokeninside +, writes (13 April 2010):
 you could always kiss his neck or find a his soft spot, whether its ticklish or gives him goosebumps, other than that there isnt anythhing else but giving him a hand job and him fingering you, if you include that as sex, than good luck
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (12 April 2010):
Umm your fooling yourself. When he says he's not ready he means he's willing to consider that your not ready. He's ready just he cares about you so he doesn't want to push you. Keep in mind that he is hoping that by showing patience you will reward him by getting intimate with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): isnt that like bondage without bonds? Or testimonials without tests? ...guess you could stand on your head and kiss...Or hey, try normal dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): You could try handjobs, but my guess is that is not up your street so...
You could try kissing games & new types of kisses... Sounds silly but its all about the attitude you do it with - if you do it with a sexy attitude you'll feel super kinky and super hot :)
Try romancestuck.com and look under the kissing section for kissing games & new types of kisses :)
There are some great ideas there
Add in different flavours of soft drink, gum & sweets - try hot & cold drinks, ice and tea, mint & cinnamon... you get the idea? I personally love my bf to drink strawberry softdrinks or gingerbeer - tastes great on his tongue :) hehe
You can play other games with each other - act out things they've always wanted to try like dress as a differently labelled girl and kiss him in a totally random place like a second hand book store. Pretend you don't know each other - things like that. Role Play without a sexual end.
Hope you can find fun stuff to do without going overboard :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): Mutual masturbation?
Dry humping?
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