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writes:A couple days ago someone confessed to me. I said I liked them back, but I'm not sure if I just like them as a friend, or like like. I think I may grow to like like them, but is it wrong for me to date them when my feelings are so confused? What if I only like him because he likes me? It feels unfair to him. I had never really thought of him more then a friend before his confession.I get this jumpy feeling in my chest when I think about him, and I'm not sure if it's nervousness or something else. Is that good? I feel awkward and nervous around him; this never happened when we were just friends. What's going on? I'm confused about my feelings. Reply to this Question
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (23 March 2010):
Your over analyzing it. Your asking yourself frivilous questions. Keep it simple. You like the guy go out with him if you feel it keep going out with him
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Your heart and your brain is not on the same course. Thats why you feel confused.
You have those feelings in your heart but your brain is denying it.
It is not wrong to date him because you need to find out if he is the suitable one for you and whether you have those feelings for him as a friend or more than a friend.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Going on a few dates with him is fine, its a way for you to see if the is that romantic spark there at all. Its sound like there are feeling for him within you and it would be worth it to see where they go. The only thing is that it is the right thing to do, if you don't have that kind of connection to not let things drag on. You should figure most of this out within a month and atleast then even if things don't work that neither of you will be wondering what could have happened between you two.
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