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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend broke up with me in a cruel way about a week ago. he says there shouldnt be tension between us it was best to remain friends but that i should sleep over the next day and chill. so its more like he didnt want to be in a relationship but yet still have sex with me and have me. absolutely i said no!we've been on and off breaking up and making up and this was final. i yelled at him, like how can he play with my feelings. so then he said im sorry you shouldnt be mad at me because i know you are. oh i guess you dont want to be friends either or see me at all now. we could of been friends and see where it goes. so i replyed no! i was really crying i just felt used all this time. my friends told me everyone told me he wasnt good for me, and i was blind not to see. i miss him and i know he doesnt deserve my tears. yesterday this guy that i know for almost a year who's my friend came to my house. and i felt awkward but i needed someone to talk to. i wanted to confess everything to my best friend but i couldnt, she always warned me about my ex and i ignored her all the time so i didnt wanna hear all that. so i knew my friend wouldnt be like that.We came to my bedroom and we just laughed and talked about things. The next thing led him to kissing me unexpectally. I pushed him away because the first thing that came in my mind was my ex, he asked me whats wrong and i just stared at him and he kissed me again so we kept kissing. I stopped and i said i couldnt kiss you im sorry you know i still love my ex. so he said yes but does he loves you? and i just stayed quiet because i knew it was true. i asked him what do you want from me and he replied i want to hang out with you i want to know you more, and then if you agree i want a relationship. i've been waiting for you all this time. i know you are not over your boyfriend but i'll wait. so i said but what do you have to offer me? so he said caring, i'll always want to see you, i know that i will love you and never cheat on you, i know my past isnt good but i never done a girl wrong. so i started to cry because all i thought was about me and my ex. and i didnt know what to do. My friend kissed me again i let him. i thought maybe this would get my ex off my mind, make me forget him... but it didnt. i told him go away and he did but i see in his eyes that he was hurt and now i dont know, i like him but i dont know what to do. i felt like a slut.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (23 March 2010):
I see how your ex made you feel like a slut. He was way out of line asking you to sleep with him even tho he didn't want a relationship. If you can find it in you to forget what he did and give yourself and someone else a chance. You have to give yourself the right chance to fall in love. And yes if this guy really loves you he will wait. Spend some time with him (not romantic time). Just as friends. Good luck
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