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Do I send my ex a Valentine's card?
Q. Hi, I'm looking for some advice on whether to send my ex a Valentine's card. We were together 9 years, lived together for 7 years, but finally split up September 2009 after coming to a stuttering end when I found out he was 'messing around' with a ...
A. 13 February 2010: Dont do it.if anything does happen like if he answers back and you two get back together he is gonna hurt u again!honey its gonna take time for u to get over him bcuz u two was together for a long time so its understandable why u feel like this.but ... (read in full...)
Is he interested in me or just being nice?
Q. I have been going to a counselor for the past 2 years and can't ask him because he is the one I need advice about. About 2 months ago I developed an interest in him and there are some things he does that makes me wonder if he is interested also. ...
A. 11 February 2010: None of my ever been that nice.if u truely like him then just give him little hints until u know like for sure bcuz u dont wanna mess up having a great counsler.it would be pretty werid if u told him and he said he didnt like u like that.i know i ... (read in full...)
Will it be a mistake to have sex with my sister-in-law?
Q. I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I ...
A. 9 February 2010: Dont do it or even think about it!it will not be worth it at the end of the day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Problem with long distance husband being committed to our marriage...
Q. I have been married for only a year and my relationship with my husband has always been long distance, due to my husband's job (he is an officer in the Military). The problem is that I don't feel that my husband is ready to commit to our marriage ...
A. 8 February 2010: my husband use to be a marine(excuse me...once a marine always a marine)anyways ever think he is use to making desicions by himself bcuz of the position of work he is in?we are in a nasty war and im sure if he has been over seas and since some ... (read in full...)
What to do with the engagement ring after breaking up?
Q. Hi! I was engaged 5 years back, and he got me a diamond engagement ring. Things didn't go well and we split up, but I kept the ring when we moved apart. We did have a small discussion about it, but he said he wanted to wear it and I didn't like the ...
A. 8 February 2010: every couple is different. Some give back the rings and some keep them and throw them away like in a river or ocean....werid that someone would waste money but they do! I feel after 5 years with no contact you should be able to do whatever YOU feel ... (read in full...)
I want to keep in contact with my teacher as friends, so how do I approach him?
Q. I am graduating from high school this and I want to keep in contact with my former english teacher. I want to keep in contact with him because he was a great help and over the years we have developed a friendship. How do I approach him and what do I ...
A. 8 February 2010: congrats! See? It was nothing! Im so happy for u.well i have u have a great long lasting relationship with him for years to come and have a great night/day!... (read in full...)
I get so wet during sex I cant even feel it! What's wrong with me?
Q. i have a quick question for yall! My husband and i always have great sex......but for some reason i have been getting so wet we cant feel it! Its always been easy for me to get wet but its such a turn off when we cant feel it and we have to stop ...
A. 6 February 2010: thanks everyone for the great input and help and no i never changed my diet and also i really dont drink that much water at all.but thanks!... (read in full...)
How do you really know when you love someone?
Q. I think I may love someone but I don't really know, how do you really know when you love someone?...
A. 5 February 2010: i know at your age your gonna have puppy love. lust. but at your age you can fall in love. im 21 and been with my man since i was 15 just turned. we just got married. Vday is our 6 month ann.! But u know ur in love when u think about him everyday ... (read in full...)
Why is it that a guy can get over a girl so easily but the girl is left feeling like shit for years?
Q. My ex of three years and I broke up seven months ago due to him cheating. And I'm still completely messed up about it. And yet, he was able to get over me within a few... hours? It's so aggravating and it kills me inside even more! I hate feeling ...
A. 5 February 2010: i never understood it.i think bcuz you was in a relationship for a long time and in your eyes everything was fine and out of nowhere your lover is sleeping with someone else.its crazy!im married and to this day when i think about my ex bfs i still ... (read in full...)
I cheated twice and now my wife is emotionally distant. How can I get back in her good graces?
Q. I have been married 8 years. My wife emotionally is not close to me. I admit I have done some wrong. I have cheated on her twice and I deeply regret it. Ever sine then I have done everything I could possibly think of to get back into her good grace ...
A. 5 February 2010: ok im gonna be honest.my husband hurt me in the past just like u hurt your wife.the first time i was blown away and couldnt believe it and it made me very jelous of other girls and made me wonder everyday what he really is doing when he leaves the ... (read in full...)
Married and hopelessly lonely
Q. My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs.he's had 3 affairs that I know of! Should I walk away,or try to work @ it again??...
A. 5 February 2010: walk away u deserve so much better.have u seen the news latey?how do u feel about tiger woods.that he is an a**hole huh?thats gonna be u and ur husband except that u know about the affairs.im not trying to be mean i really feel for u and give u my ... (read in full...)
So did I actually have an orgasm ?
Q. my bf and i have been having sex for about three months now an i had never came but he said he thought i did the other night because apparently my vagina got suddenly hotter and i got soo much wetter, but i never felt anything spectacular like ...
A. 5 February 2010: maybe you just got wet.i dont know how you wouldnt know if you had one.i know i know and all my friends know and im pretty sure you would know.its a feeling like amazing...hard for me to explain but honey your time will come.and hopfully your va jay ... (read in full...)
Is Three A Crowd?
Q. Hi Aunts. Okay alot of people will think im a lucky girl but to me, its a nightmare! A year ago i was out clubbing with my girl friends and i met a guy Alex* talking, he bought me drinks etc. Well after about an hour, he said 'Be right back', when ...
A. 5 February 2010: i have never been in ur shoes but i would sit them both down and tell them the truth and maybe if they dont understand u need to just leave bcuz u deserve a family and whatever u want.... (read in full...)
I always thought Valentines day was about the guy treating the girl. Now my boyfriend thinks I don't care.
Q. This Might Sound Bad But I had No Idea That I was Supposed to Buy Something for My Boyfriend For Valentines Day. We're Going on 4 years Now and Every Year he always Does something Extreme For me and I Love it! Though I have Never Bought Him Anything ...
A. 5 February 2010: get him something he has been talking about or does he have a fav sports team?get he something that will surpise him and make sure the sex is good!lol if vday was just for girls than it woulda been called treat ur girl day.lol.i dont know ur man but ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, and I think I'm rubbish in bed
Q. OK well I have a great fantastic boyfriend but I don't feel like I really show my love for him and that he doesn't get what he really wants from me and that im rubbish in bed....
A. 5 February 2010: Honey! I wish i could tell you this and that about being to young but i was your age.but plz just be careful.i had a miscarriage at the age of fifteen.what kind of life is that?not right.i was a baby myself!sorry i just want you to understand i wish ... (read in full...)
How long shold I wait for him to get over his last relationship and be ready for a new one with me?
Q. I like a guy. Who is still getting over his last breakup. It's been affecting him pretty hard. We hang out, we fool around (no sex - his suggestion and we both agree), we have the best time when we're together. He's told me the reason we aren't ...
A. 5 February 2010: Sorry im on my cell when im on dearcupid so it dont show everything and i would have sent something to ur mail but it wounldnt go thru but from what u said.i know its hard to pull away from someone that ya really like and get along with and now i ... (read in full...)
Is it bad of me to want to do more with him?
Q. me and my bf have been going out out for two months, but the most we have done is hug once - when he asked me out - and been to the cinema with his friends. Is it bad of me to want to do more with him? it's starting to feel as if we are more like ...
A. 4 February 2010: you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel.tell him you wanna go hang out.thats not nice of him to treat you that way.i would break up with him if i tried to hold his hand and he ran off.but he also deserves to know how you are feeling.bcuz ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to drop out of school and I feel it will affect our future together! What can I do?
Q. My girlfriend is currently home schooled and her mom is planning on signing her out i ask her all the time not to drop out to finish school and also meet better ppl while shes in high school i dont want her missing out on the experience, I feel like ...
A. 4 February 2010: Your looking out for the best of her and she cant even listen and give u some respect u is so rude.honestly if she dont care what u have to say than i would dump her and find someone who cares what u say and feel.sorry... (read in full...)
My friend thinks she has to stay thin or else guys won't like her.
Q. My friend is in her mid 20's and she has lost a lot of weight within a few months. She says that guys give her attention that she never got before when she was heavier. Guys that rejected her in the past are now asking her out, but she just likes ...
A. 4 February 2010: She has a problem.its good that you noticed but im not professional so i cant say excatly whats wrong and what to say to her.i think u and your guys best friends should get some pamlets about eating disorders and have like a intervention with ... (read in full...)
How long shold I wait for him to get over his last relationship and be ready for a new one with me?
Q. I like a guy. Who is still getting over his last breakup. It's been affecting him pretty hard. We hang out, we fool around (no sex - his suggestion and we both agree), we have the best time when we're together. He's told me the reason we aren't ...
A. 4 February 2010: Just give it time.you never said like how long his past relationship was and what happen but i just all you can do is live your life.dont push it but dont wait on it if u get into a collage then go dont waste time on a unsure relationship.if it was ... (read in full...)
I think I might be pregnant
Q. Allright so my boyfriend and i had never had sex before until this one night when we decided to see what it was like. Well he ended up putting it in one time. he didnthump or anything it was just in and then out and we stopped. He never had an ...
A. 4 February 2010: I dont think u are.u might be late bcuz ur stressing out about it.or sometimes your period can be late over things like stress,weight lost or gain,diff sleeping patterns,and bcuz since ur still young ur period probly aint perfect yet.like in ... (read in full...)
I need to know if she is lying or telling the truth please help.
Q. ok i think my ex is lying to me about having a boyfriend. because just a couple of days ago on facebook she found out i had a girlfriend and then she says that she has a boyfriend who supports the same football team as me. but the night my ex found ...
A. 3 February 2010: You guys are playing games with each other.no one can says weather or not she is lying except her cuz we really dont know but i think u two need to just talk it out and get back together.u two feel for each other so get over playing games and just ... (read in full...)
How can someone get over someone?
Q. How can someone get over someone when it hurts really bad? I'm in deep pain.. I hurt and I feel my life is on hold. I just miss him all the time and he doesn't want to even talk to me. He doesn't respond to my calls or texts.. He took advantage of ...
A. 3 February 2010: Time is the only way to get over someone.i know how much ur in pain.it feels like ur heart really hurts and those feelings are normal. The first step is to forgive yourself.then to delete his number and get raid off his stuff and any thing that ... (read in full...)
Is it bad of me to want to do more with him?
Q. me and my bf have been going out out for two months, but the most we have done is hug once - when he asked me out - and been to the cinema with his friends. Is it bad of me to want to do more with him? it's starting to feel as if we are more like ...
A. 3 February 2010: no its not bad of you to feel that way.just tell him you wanna do something together as just a couple.if u dont feel comfortable then write a note or email or text.you guys are young and maybe he is just scared around you.has he even had any gf ... (read in full...)
I want to keep in contact with my teacher as friends, so how do I approach him?
Q. I am graduating from high school this and I want to keep in contact with my former english teacher. I want to keep in contact with him because he was a great help and over the years we have developed a friendship. How do I approach him and what do I ...
A. 3 February 2010: well thats perfect!im glad you could figure this out and move on your life and not have to stress out about this bcuz this is a very tricky question.well i hope everything goes well and have you talk to him yet?im really intrested in what happens.i ... (read in full...)
I am trying really hard to give him pleasure and give him an orgasms everytime but I just can't!
Q. me and my boyfriend have tried twice to have sex and i'm not sure what is going on..he just can't seem to keep an erection.im trying really hard to give him pleasure and give him an organisms everytime but i just can't please... help any ...
A. 3 February 2010: My husband tried these pills to make it bigger and the sex to last longer and now he stop taking them and he can get it up but it wont stay hard.he didnt even need the pills he took them cuz they was free and now our sex is awful and we always had ... (read in full...)
I want to marry her but don't have the nerves to ask!
Q. I love my girlfriend more than anything else and I want spend the rest of my life with her, but I'm don't have the guts to ask her to marry me even though I'm fairly sure she would say yes. She makes me smile when no one else can she is always t...
A. 3 February 2010: Congats are in order!lol you both love each other and i totally agree with lexie88. U really dont know one hundred percent that she will say yes but if u really cant bring yourself to do it then give her a promise ring to show her how much u care ... (read in full...)
Is he REALLY my friend?
Q. My friend only talks to me when he doesn't know its me? I just started AIM and added him. He kept asking who it was and I didn't want to till him knowing if I did he would never chat with me. I wanted so much to talk to him but he never understands ...
A. 3 February 2010: honey if he dont care about how are hurting then thats not a good friend.the older u get the more people change.i hated school bcuz everyone seemed to change for the worst.but try and talk to him and just be honest to him and let him know how u are ... (read in full...)
I want to keep in contact with my teacher as friends, so how do I approach him?
Q. I am graduating from high school this and I want to keep in contact with my former english teacher. I want to keep in contact with him because he was a great help and over the years we have developed a friendship. How do I approach him and what do I ...
A. 2 February 2010: i would wait until class is over and go up to him and tell him what a big role he played in ur life and he is such a great role model and u would love go keep in touch and give him ur email address.i think a phone number is a little over board and ... (read in full...)
Do I need to let her go home to her family and trust her? I'm afraid she will meet her ex.
Q. I need advice on whether to be ok with my fiancé, soon to be wife, going back home for Christmas. Her parents and some of her family live in Florida. About 3 states away. Her sisters live in Texas. She moved here with one of her sisters two year...
A. 2 February 2010: first of all the things she was doimg i would not trust her.she should have never talked whatsoever to her ex.she knew how u felt about him so thats really wrong and to let him make fun of ur career that is messed up.what is her problem?i would tell ... (read in full...)
How do I break up with him, without hurting his feelings too much?
Q. Hello. I'm in need of some advice here! My boyfriend and have been dating for a month, which is a pretty short time. I just don't feel attracted to him, no "spark". I've felt a spark when kissing my other ex-boyfriends...not my current one. I feel ...
A. 2 February 2010: Just tell him the truth.if u think that will hurt him then tell him u have family issues and should be in a relationship at this point.tell him your sorry and dont wanna hurt his feelings and u want him in ur life but not dating.i hope i helped.good ... (read in full...)
Is he REALLY my friend?
Q. My friend only talks to me when he doesn't know its me? I just started AIM and added him. He kept asking who it was and I didn't want to till him knowing if I did he would never chat with me. I wanted so much to talk to him but he never understands ...
A. 2 February 2010: i would just give him some space for a while and see if he comes up to u and talks to u.if he dont and he is mean to u then its time to tell him ur done and it hurts but u want true friends honey not mean ones.i am very sorry for ur lost with ur ... (read in full...)
The only girl I've slept with would not let me come inside her - even with a condom. Is this normal? I am not sure what to do with my new girlfried.
Q. I dated the same girl for 4 years and she's the only girl I've had sex with. We broke up a few months ago and I'm starting to see someone else now. The entire time I was with my ex I never came inside of her at her request, even with a condom on. I ...
A. 2 February 2010: every girl is diff. Ur ex probly didnt want the slightest chance of getting preggo.which is smart of her in case there was a hole in condom or something.but most girls i know let the guy cum inside them as long as there is a condom.i let my man cum ... (read in full...)
His porn has become a problem in the bedroom!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and weve had some problems with is porn addiction. i left him bout 7 months ago because he had such a problem with not only porn but datin sites and personals ads. i left him for about 3 months ...
A. 2 February 2010: Gosh hon stay strong.u love him and this hurts huh? My husband wasnt that bad but then it started to become a problem.if he just uses his hand wit no lotion tell him to use lotion so its more realstic feeling.ya know.then it should help a lil but my ... (read in full...)
I am very confused and not able to forget her past.
Q. I recently found that the girl i am going to marry had sexual relationship with 8-9 people. I asked her before we got engaged about her past relationships but at that time she told me that she was a virgin. But somehow i got the password of her ...
A. 2 February 2010: well....this is a hard one.first of all she lied which is not a good thing which will make u not trust her if future.at least she did come out and tell u about it.my husband cheated on me before we got married but he was sorry and we worked things ... (read in full...)
Is dating someone who is financially unstable with stress and anxiety issues worth it?
Q. My boyfriend is broke. After working as a stock broker and earning a very high income, he began suffering medical issues from the stress and pressure of the job. He eventually quit this job so that he could improve his health and found something ...
A. 2 February 2010: Honey i understand where ur coming from.my husband and i went thru smilier thing.bout a yr and a half ago he lost his job and i had got laid off a yr before so things just went down hill and everyday just waking up was hard.we just stuck it out and ... (read in full...)
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