My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!
Q. Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an ...
A. 1 July 2007: I'm sorry but I am 100% sure NO ONE on here can offer you any reassurance in this situation. He is obviously up to no good :( which I know is horrible to here and I feel bad for you, but its better to know now then to spend 1 more day not knwoing ... (read in full...)
I haven't met my online boyfriend yet..what do I do?
Q. I met my boyfriend online. We haven't met yet. I'm not sure what to do? Is it safe to meet up with him? How can we do stuff like normal boyfriend and girlfriend do? ...
A. 1 July 2007: If you and your onlne bf want to meet up then you should tell your parents about him and ask them if they would meet him and his parents with you, altogether one day. This way when you meet him you should be very safe and your parents wont be ... (read in full...)
What can I do to show my girlfriend how much I love her?
Q. My girlfriend and I just went through a really rough period - we had quite a lot of arguments - and I wanna do something to show her how much I love her. I want it to be really special, but I can't think of ANYTHING good enough. Please, I need s...
A. 1 July 2007: I think getting a cute little soft/plush toy is always a great gift and then maybe give her a card saying how much you love her too.
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Do teen boys like shaved pubic hair?
Q. I'm 14 and I'm wondering, do majority of the boys my age like shaved pubic hair or not?...
A. 1 July 2007: It comes down to personal opinion. Some guys may like it, some may not, no matter what there age is.
But it doesn't matter what they think, just do what you want for yourself, not what they want. In the end if a guy is really interested in you, ... (read in full...)
He couldn't get an erection, now I'm afraid to bring it up--help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and are in love with each other. The problem is, each time we have tried to have sex, he couldn't obtain an erection. He said he wanted nothing more than to 'be with me' and I could tell he was ...
A. 1 July 2007: I would say something similar to what flower_girl said, don't put so much pressure on to have sex. If you 'plan' to have sex on a particular night, there is going to be pressure, which can be quite high since you are both virgins. Instead just get ... (read in full...)
Why do I always attract Abusers, Liars and Cheaters?
Q. why do you think women attract men who are abusers and liars and cheaters? I seem to always meet these type of men. It is usually within the first couple dates that I notice the signs and then I leave them. I just wonder why this keeps happening. ...
A. 1 July 2007: Those types of people prey on those they see as weak, insecure and easily taken advantage of. Perhaps you are giving them signs that you are easily taken advantage of, easily fooled, insecure and weak. Be careful with what you say to people and ... (read in full...)
I want to send my boyfriend naked pics of myself
Q. My boyfried of two years is now long distance and I miss our sex life. Would it be stupid to e-mail him some nude pictures of myself? I am no model and a little bit round around the waist. Will he be shocked? How do I pose?...
A. 30 June 2007: What is making you question whether or not you should do it or not? Do you fear someone else might end up seeing them? Or do you think he may just not like it?
You asked if he will be shocked? Do you mean shocked as in to see you naked or in that... (read in full...)
I want to date my best friend
Q. There is this girl I like she calls me her best guy friend... she doesn't have a boyfriend, she knows I'm not gay, she finds me "funny" but not in an obnoxious way im not ugly.... well im really really bad at asking girls out and im pretty sure she ...
A. 30 June 2007: Everyone gets nervous about asking someone out, even if they seem really confident! On the inside they are sooo nervous and think they are bad about it. So you're not alone! However it does get easier the more you do it.
Find a way you think yo... (read in full...)
I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind
Q. Well, firstly this is a great forum. Hi, My problem is that I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind..:( I Try though.. I would appreciate very much answers from women and don't be ruff on me. I know I shouldn't care,...
A. 30 June 2007: I just read some of the previous answers, in particular one from xSarax...I would ignore what she has had to say. She doesn't understand how you are feeling. Personally I know how you feel and am going through a similar situation at the moment to be ... (read in full...)
How can I tell her "nicely" (for her own good) to lose some weight?
Q. Hi, My girlfriend and I are both in our early 20s. We have been dating for over a year and we love each other very much. There is one small issue. She has been gaining a few pounds and doesn't seem to be that concerned about it. She doesn't ...
A. 30 June 2007: There is nothing wrong in wanting your girlfriend to stay fit and in shape. But the thing is people often take it the wrong way and assume you think shes fat ugly, therefore you are seen as a shallow person. But this isnt always the case. One of the ... (read in full...)
Three nights ago he found out my age, now he's barely talking to me! Is he worth it?
Q. Heres the situation. Im 18 and I've been talkin to a guy online, we met last week and we got on real well. He's 32. I spoke to him 3 nights ago and he found out that I was 18. I've been texting him and talking to him online a bit but he's ba...
A. 30 June 2007: It sounds to me he doesnt like the fact that you are only 18. He may not be angry at you for 'lieing' or not being upfront about your age, but more so just doesnt want to go out with somoene of your age, so therefor hes giving you those signals to ... (read in full...)
I see him actually having sex with someone else. What do these dreams mean?
Q. My name's Summer. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. In my past relationships, I was abused, cheated on...and lets say I haven't got the greatest trust issues. Latley I've been having all kinds of dreams about him. Such as him cheating on ...
A. 30 June 2007: Its understandable you have trust issues because of whats happened in your past, however they are in the past, this means you DO NOT have to suffer from them any longer. And you shoudlnt. Seek professional help from a counsellor could be very ... (read in full...)
What do her actions mean?
Q. what does she meant by this when she performed this action on me? sorry that this is a bit long... but i'm going to try to make it short. this was very unexpected and was surprised and full of shock when she (a lady i knew for almost a year) ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hmmm this is a different situation. Sounds to me like this lady may like you or something? Do you know if she is a lesbian/bisexual? It seems to me from what she said to you, that she seems to think you are in denial of your 'true feelings' for her. ... (read in full...)
I confronted her about using me and now she isn't speaking to me
Q. I liked this girl so much over 7months but known her for longer. She has always fancied my best mate. My best mate doesn't like her but she recently used me to talk to him like always calling me over than tellin him we're talkin and he should come. ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hi there,
First of all I just wanted to say that I can see how bad you must feel. Its a really bad position you are in to have what has happened to you. Must hurt a lot!
Everyone deals with confrontation in different ways. They either take ... (read in full...)
Will it hurt me if he puts his fingers inside me?
Q. I am 14 and have a 14 year old boyfriend. Alot of my friends have finger banged or gave hand jobs. My boyfriend has finger banged before, but i havent done either. I want to do both with him and i feel ready and i know he is too. We talk about it ...
A. 30 June 2007: If your bf puts his fingers inside you it may feel a bit umcomfortable and could hurt. But how much it hurts really depends on how relaxed you are. The more relaxed and less tense you are, the less painful it will be. So if you do decide to let your ... (read in full...)
Should I give in so we can be together?
Q. Dear Cupid... I have an ex-boyfriend his B. I still like him alot but I guess all he wants to do is have sex with me, In fact we broke up because I didn't want to have sex....Should i give him what he wants so we can be together again?...
A. 30 June 2007: Your question is should you give into him so you can 'be together', and my question for you is how would you both really 'be together' after having sex if you believe (and it seems quite clear from what ive read) all he wants is sex. If thats true ... (read in full...)
I'm also so tempted to just use her, tell her I still love her and have a ton of sex then move away (as wrong as it is).
Q. Six years after I met this girl (lets call her P) I am still confused. I think I instantly fell in love with her, she was the complete opposite to me and a perfect compliment to my personality. We were at college together (17/18 years old...
A. 30 June 2007: Should you stop taking to her or just stop spending time with her? Thats up to you and what you think you can cope with. Everyone is really different, some would find it better to cut all contact with her but some may be able to cope with still ... (read in full...)
How can I make it clear to them that I JUST want to be friends.
Q. Oi, I need help, aunts! Okay. Let me start off by saying I am in a relationship with a guy whom I love very much, and who loves me. We are happy together, and things are going smoothly. My relationship at home is not my problem. However, I'm sta...
A. 28 June 2007: First of all I think its great that you have the will power to being so dedicated to your relationship with your bf. The best thing to do is when you see these guys next talk about your bf alot, just say how much you care about him and love him etc ... (read in full...)
I'm also so tempted to just use her, tell her I still love her and have a ton of sex then move away (as wrong as it is).
Q. Six years after I met this girl (lets call her P) I am still confused. I think I instantly fell in love with her, she was the complete opposite to me and a perfect compliment to my personality. We were at college together (17/18 years old...
A. 28 June 2007: The only way you two could be together it seems is if this girl stands up to her religous parents. And you know she DOES have the choice to marry or be with whoever she wants. She obviously doesn't think the same as her parents, that the only good ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 years old with a baby on the way and I'm incredibly afraid about my future. I need help badly!
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl with a baby on the way and has a 20 year old boyfriend. I really don't know what to do. I am incredibly afraid and I have no idea what's going to happen. I am NOT getting an abortion, it's totaly against my morals, plus I ...
A. 18 April 2007: I think you need to talk to a counsellor. Having a baby at such a young age is a huge deal, which I'm sure I don't need to tell you. Talking it through with someone else will allow you to make a clear decision on what to do with your baby, and how ... (read in full...)
Condoms the 1st and 2nd time..no condoms the 3rd and 4th time! I am terrified I'm pregnant. ANy advice?
Q. i need help! i had sex yesterday..first and second with condoms..3rd 4th without a condom..im soo scared that my bf cum inside of me..and it have to be week before i get my period. i think im suppose to get my period around the 20th or 23th..and now ...
A. 17 April 2007: Hey,
I know its a really scary thing thinking you could be pregnant, trust me, I went through that recently. The important thing to do is to not stress yourself out because if you get all stressed out that can actually put your period off and if y... (read in full...)
I let him know some do's and don'ts about dating and he's upset with me! Was I out of line?
Q. I met a guy at school and we've been hanging out when he confessed to me he like me and after 3 months of hanging out with him he told me he could see himself falling in love with me. We're just friends and I don't feel the same way about him. ...
A. 15 April 2007: I would say yes you were out of line. No one likes to hear bad things about them, especially when they aren't asking for your honest opinion, but even then you have to be careful with how you say it. The fact that hes likes you alot, and you put him ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to be dependent on someone in a relationship?
Q. I feel that someone from outside could understand myself better than I could and that my worth depends on how that person evaluates me. Especially I think like this for any girls I form a relationship with. If she criticizes me or talk things I ...
A. 10 April 2007: I would say its a big no, its not ok to be as 100% dependent on someone. Yes to an extent is ok. But where do you draw the line is the question you are asking. I would say that when somoene basis their self opinion on what someone else thinks of ... (read in full...)
I dont know if I have something wrong with me, but I think mentally cheating on someone is way messed up.
Q. I have been with myboyfriend for one year last month. During that year I found out that he was emailing his stripper ex girlfriend and telling her how much he needed her and she would write back the same, never mind that she was MARRIED. I dont know ...
A. 27 February 2007: Your bf isnt being what a bf should be...loyal & honest. Even if he hasnt actuallly cheated on you phsyicaly, doing what hes doing is just as bad and isn't acceptable. You should not let this happen or put up with it. Try talkign to him about how ... (read in full...)
I think he's interested in me but I'm not 100 per cent sure, there's 20 years between us, what do you think?
Q. I'm a 20 year old female who works at a grocery store and attends college full time. Over the last four years or so, I've developed a friendship with an older man who is a customer. We've talked about everything from cars(we both love muscle/classic ...
A. 25 February 2007: Hmm this is tricky situation. He seems to be giving you mixed signals. Him coming into your work so often could be a sign he is coming to see you or he could be doing his weekly shopping like many people do. The fact that you have his email address ... (read in full...)
How can I get to be friends with this girl? What can I say to start a conversation with her?
Q. i really like this girl in my year. i've never talked to her. i want to know her and meet her not necessary on a date but just to know each other as friends. any ideas without givin away i like her. she is really pretty and out of my league as i'm ...
A. 23 February 2007: No one is 'out of your league'. Don't tell yourself such negative comments because it wont give you anymore confidence. You could be pretty suprised about what she may think of you. She could very well think you are good looking despite what you ... (read in full...)
Could a relationship work if you have different beliefs on sex?
Q. I’m a guy who’s a 24 year old virgin. I intend on saving my virginity for the woman I love on our wedding night. But I’m curious to know if a relationship could work if we had different beliefs on sex? For example, like if she saw sex as not a big ...
A. 10 February 2007: Hmm it really comes down to the two people. Some people may be able to make it work, some not. It just depends if both people are willing to come to some agreement which does not force either to sacrifice & change their beleifs and values. So if say ... (read in full...)
Could a relationship work if you have different beliefs on sex?
Q. I’m a guy who’s a 24 year old virgin. I intend on saving my virginity for the woman I love on our wedding night. But I’m curious to know if a relationship could work if we had different beliefs on sex? For example, like if she saw sex as not a big ...
A. 10 February 2007: Hmm it really comes down to the two people. Some people may be able to make it work, some not. It just depends if both people are willing to come to some agreement which does not force either to sacrifice & change their beleifs and values. So if say ... (read in full...)
He tells me I can date otheres, even though we sleep together! What should I make of this guy?
Q. Sorry, I know your probably sick of hearing about my "relationship" of the guy who Im friends with and sleep with but, I had a conversation with him a few nights ago before I went away on holiday and he said I could sleep with another guy if I ...
A. 1 February 2007: Yes I would say he is "playing you". It seems to me that you guys dont have a relatiosnhip at all and he is just using you for sex, hence why he said you could sleep with other guys. If I was you, i would stop sleeping with him. It sounds like you ... (read in full...)
How do I communcate with a boy I really like? He calls me but I just dont know what to say I need help!
Q. How do I communcate with a boy I really like? He calls me but I just dont know what to say I need help!...
A. 22 January 2007: Alot of people get nervous around people they like. Ask him about himself, as him what he has been doing lately, ask him hows school/work etc. Ask him what music hes into and tell him what you are into and maybe you will both share a love for the ... (read in full...)
How do you stay with someone who cheated? How do you deal with the betrayal? Any advice?
Q. How do you stay with someone who cheated? Has anyone out there had someone cheat on you but you can't seem to leave them? How do you deal with the fact that you were betrayed? How do you know they want to be with you now? Are things ever the same...
A. 18 January 2007: I personally think that if you stay with someone who cheats on you that you will always feel like that. There will always be that constant worry. I havent ever known someone who could stay with someone who cheated on them and not be constantly ... (read in full...)
He cheated and now..he texts me all the time that he loves me! Does he really love me?
Q. My problem is extremely complex! Me and my fiance split a year and a half ago after I found out he had been cheating on me. I had some tell tale signs to warn me but simply chose to ignore them. Since our split we've had a very tempramental ...
A. 16 January 2007: If I was you, i would leave him. He says that he has learnt his lesson but if he had, he wouldnt be seeing the girl he cheated on you with...even if they arent having sex, he surely shoudlnt be contacting her or sending her rude photos. If he was ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend that she smells of BO?
Q. Hey my friend smells of BO.I don't want to hurt her feelings but I reaaly want to tell her, because she's my friend and I care for her a lot. I don't want things to change between us if I tell her this. I don't want it to be awkward. Could you...
A. 16 January 2007: I agree 100% with what vina 101 said! Buy her some sort of nice smelly gift pack as a present. And hopefully she will try it. ... (read in full...)
My gf got back with her ex, now I'm feeling lonely and used. Any advice on how to cope with this?
Q. This is the guy that posted a question a while back about his girlfriend stating that she wanted space and islolating herself from me and not knowing what to do, and I have to thank cd206 for all her help, but its official, we broke up, i found out ...
A. 16 January 2007: I think everyone has been through what you are going through now, or atleast they do experience sometime in there life, if not quite alot.
I understand totaly how you are feeling. I think most people in your situation would feel the same way.... (read in full...)
I have a lot of guy friends and when I get drunk I end up sleeping with them. Do you think they are taking advantage of me?
Q. I have a lot of guy friends, and when we all get together we get really drunk. I usually end up having sex with one of them. I love my friends there my emotional support. I am starting to second-question that? I live with my roomate (who is guy) we ...
A. 16 January 2007: Hey there,
It sounds to me like your male friends are taking advantage of you, which is sad that they would do that. However if you are upset about the thought of loosing them as friends as you said they are your emotional support then you dont have... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me and is with someone else. It hurts like hell! How do I get over him?
Q. I don't know how and i don't know why i fell for him so hard! Please bear with me it's an emotional subject for me! I was in a one sided love relationship with D where i really wanted to love him back but the only love i felt was friendship!...
A. 16 January 2007: Hi there,
I understand how much you are hurting right now. I know it feels like crap and like perhaps there is nothing worth living for if you cant be with him (hence why you tried to kill yourself?). But darling you have to remember how life was ... (read in full...)
We are both shy so how can I get him to kiss me?
Q. I really like this guy and i think he likes me back i having my 18th bday party soon any ideas on how i can either kiss him or have him kiss me as we both shy and he doesnt drink also. we cant play spin the bottle as almost everyone else is in a ...
A. 13 January 2007: I would do what someone else suggested already...kiss him on the cheek, move back a tiny bit and look at him and hopefuly if he has the guts he will kiss you back...on the lips.
Or you know how when you cut the birthday cake and if you touch the ... (read in full...)
I dislike sex with him when he's drunk and I told him that! Now he's mad and in a huff...what do I do?
Q. This evening my boyfriend came round to my house. I couldn't go out as I was working from home. He went to the pub. I fancied a nice evening together when he got back but I didn't wish for him to be drunk. He does drink everyday and when I used ...
A. 13 January 2007: Seems to me like your bf isnt thinking about how you feel or he cant seem to understand. He seems to be focusing more on what he thinks.
Have you ever talked about this issue to him when hes SOBER? if not i suggest you do this as if he is not drun... (read in full...)
My friends are upset I am going to date my ex again! What should I do?
Q. Well I just got back together with my ex like a week or so ago. The last time we went out like over a year ago we didn't break any ground we did even make first base. He lives two hours away and so we still haven't seen each other since a year ago ...
A. 13 January 2007: You should go as far as BOTH of you feel comfortable with. Don't push things to quickly, just take it easy and see what feels right at the time. As for your friends being worried, do you think they have a good reason to be worried? sometimes our ... (read in full...)
Was I out of line to tell my fiance that things between us aren't the same as they used to be? Any advice?
Q. Was I completely out of line to tell my fiance that things between us aren't the same as they used to be...for example, we don't cuddle as much. I didn't say it in an angry tone, and didn't want to start an argument. I was just noticing it, not like ...
A. 13 January 2007: I think you did have the right to say what you said. You are in a relationship so therefor you should both be able to talk about things openly without fearing the others reaction.
My guess is that when you brought this subject up with your fian... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my school buddy, but he has a girlfriend! (long post)
Q. My Question is: Does He like me? We met: At school in my class called stagecraft that we don't do anything unless we have a play, so all we do is lay and sit on the stage and talk. About Him: I am going to call him Henry to protect his identit...
A. 30 November 2006: You say you would do anything for him...like taking a bullet. Darling if you are that serious then don't you think you would tell him how you feel? By not telling him you are not only stoping yourself from having someone you care about so much in ... (read in full...)
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