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writes:My Question is: Does He like me?We met: At school in my class called stagecraft that we don't do anything unless we have a play, so all we do is lay and sit on the stage and talk.About Him: I am going to call him Henry to protect his identity...He is a nice guy and has a girlfriend (who doesn't even like him that much)...Problem: He does things that show that he likes me, and we really do have alot of chemestry...but I think he doesn't think I like him so he doesn't leave his girlfriend..even though the truth is that I love this boy with all my heart.Me and Henry started talking one day during class...The first time we talked, we talked for a whole hour, about many stuff..laughed ALOT, and I could tell we had chemestry. Scince that day we talk every day in that class non stop and I really enjoy it, and I know he does too because he told me he did.Me and Henry have two classes together, in the first one we sit right across the room from eachother FACING eachother with nothing between us. (I am giving all these facts so you can understand everything better)And the last class that is when we talk, we sit anywhere from the drama room, or we sit around in the auditorium areas.Every day in our first class I usually get there before him and sit down, when he comes in he usually walks over to where I sit but I try not to make eye contact and act as If I don't notice (becuase I am trying to hide that I like him).. He usually tries to get my atention but not with ovious stuff he just talks to the people around me and when he walks over to his seat he allways glances at me. During this class I try to just stare at the floor to avoid eye contact so he doesn't think I stalk him...but I can feel him looking at me (also I can see him with my periferal vision). Sometimes he stares for a couple seconds and sometimes for minutes and when I look up and cath him he Keeps staring but I am too shy so I look away.. Next class: I usually try to sit somewhere away to see if he tries to sit by me and he does, He often changes seats so he can be closer to me. When we talk he allways listens very closely and lowers his voice when he talks to me (they say thats a clue) He sometimes makes up lame excuses to touch my hands like saying "Let me see how big your hand is" or "lets play pattiecake" and I can tell he likes grabbing my hands! He often playfully makes fun of me..He makes eye contact when he talks to me and I have noticed that he follows me around. I tried testing him a couple times like once I asked my teacher If I could help with something with the set, and of course he said yes so I got up and henry followed me, and some other people followed him too but he told them to stay there cause only me and him where going to do it. When the two of us are alone we allways make jokes and we play around like I hide behind the stage and scare him and he does that to me too.At lunch, and during passing periods I often see him walking with his friends and sometimes his girlfriend but he sees me he stares at me untill I am out of sight, sometimes I sit close to the table he sits at lunch and I catch him glaring at me many times, and looks at me when me and my friends walk out of the cafeteria. If I look at him He'll smile at me...and he allways seems to be aware of what I am doing when I am around him, he notices little things I do and asks me where I was if I am not around. I have told my friend (Who is a guy) all of this and he thinks he likes me alot but he doesn't tell me becuase he thinks I don't like him. I don't tell the guy I like him because I am very afraid of rejection...but I love this guy with all my heart, I think about him during the day, night, I dream about him alot...I would do anything for this guy...even take a bullet for him. I need some advice on what to do. By the way he may seem like he is cheating on his girlfriend with me, but he is a good guy, very sweet and he would never do that, I think he just wants to know if I like him.Sorry I typed so much but there was alot of details!Tell me what you think and some advice please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): men are the same as us shy. if you have got his mobile number text him hoe you feel as it looks like you can write how you feel more than saying it. but if ya re4aaly want to ask him. by the letter it really does look like he likes you. when ya in class next look at him when he walks in. when you catch him looking at you stare at him for a few seconds then look away then look again give it about 2 second if he still looking at you give him a smile then look down wiv a bigger smile on ya face. i got so news for you men are not mind readers if they where life would be to easy. lol. you got to tell him. if you have got his mobile number write it like you would texting a mate then go to his number close your eyes take a deep breath and send it. go on give it ago or you will never know
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (30 November 2006):
You say you would do anything for him...like taking a bullet. Darling if you are that serious then don't you think you would tell him how you feel? By not telling him you are not only stoping yourself from having someone you care about so much in your life more then a friend, but you are also stoping him from havign that chance too.
I thiink the chance of rejection is something you have to take. There is NOWAY around it. You kind of just have to accept it, which is scary but at the same time you have SO much to gain if you tell him how you feel.
And rejection isn't that bad either. Its not like you are going to dye. Although it hurts, no denying that, you will get through it just like everyone does and you will move on and eveyrthiung will be ok. So in the end its not such a bad thing.
Tell him how you feel. If you are too shy to say it, perhaps trying writing it down on paper and handing it to him.
goodluck and I hope it all turns out for the best for you.
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reader, chica +, writes (30 November 2006):
just let it fall into place by being passiont or take a risk and tell him how you feel. It dosnt have to be direct, just do what i did, Tell him" Do you think you and me can be more than just friends one day? Do see us together like that? Try little clues.
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