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8 June 2009: Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
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Do you have to take birth control at the same time everyday for it to work?
Q. If you been on Birth control pills and you never skip a day but take it sometime on different times of the days. Does it still works? ...
A. 11 March 2010: it will still work, but it will most definately work if u take it generally at the same time everyday. it is more efective than taking it at like 1 pm one day, 7pm anthr day and 10 AM another day. like others have probably said, make it a part of ... (read in full...)
Sex seems to be the his main focus. Sould I go on another date?
Q. Hi, I ran into this guy that I use to work with last year. He had gotten a divorce and asked me on a date. I accepted the. Well, of course he tried to sleep with me,on the first date but I didn't. On our second date we had a talk and he told m...
A. 25 February 2010: i think you should leave it alone. he seems to want only one thing. sex. and thats asking to much even though u have already said no. i think it will be the same eachtime. and it is not worth it.... (read in full...)
Please someone help, I'm scared I'll fall pregnant!
Q. please somebody, im begging you for urgent help :( im due on my period on the 3rd march, but tonight (23rd) i had sex with my partner and for some stupid reason i had unprotected sex with him - we never do, please don't ask my why :( he didnt pul...
A. 25 February 2010: if ur period is due in a week, its really unlikely that you will be pregnant. u most likely were not ovulating so you should be fine. but u shood go to ur doctor ASAP. and talk about a morning after pill and definantely birth control. it has saved ... (read in full...)
Friend that keeps pushing the boundaries
Q. Well,I have a guy friend.We were more than friends a couple months ago,but not boyfriend/girlfriend.He doesnt want a commitment,and because of that I figured ill save myself the heartache and just be friends,who do friend things.He insisted on ...
A. 12 December 2009: i know i am young, but i think you need to have another talk with him. ask him why he acted that way even though he knew how you felt. thats rediculous in my opinion. hey, maybe he changed his mind about the relationship. you never know. but yall ... (read in full...)
I ended the affair with my friend's wife
Q. Im in love with my friends wife. We have all been friends for a long time now. It all started when she asked me to take her out to play pool and drink some beer. She asked in fron of her husband and he didnt have a problem with it as long as he ...
A. 7 November 2009: in my opinion, you did the very right thing. the words "the truth will set you free" are very true. telling the husband everything that happened was goog. i recently found out that for every week you keep a secret, you lose a week of ur life. so ... (read in full...)
I don't want what my parents want for me!
Q. I am from India, 16 years and am brought up in a strict Muslim family. My parents have already planned my future for me, get my degree and get married soon after that. But the thing is that I don't want that. I want to continue with my career and do ...
A. 7 November 2009: i think that if ur parents wont budge on what they say, than you should take matters to your own hands. when you're 18, or when you finish your degree you should leave. i know you love your parents, but they dont understand that you need to live ... (read in full...)
Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?
Q. Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me ...
A. 19 October 2009: i agree with CaringGuy. never act on impusle. find a guy u trust and care about. is veeeery normal to have those feelings. i also think you shoudl talk to your mom or to someone close to you and that you trust.... (read in full...)
My mom is sneaking around with a new guy. I feel like my home isn't a 'safe place' anymore
Q. recently my mom divored my stepdad. and that ok. but in the middle of august she went on a trip for her work and on the way back she met a guy. i guess they got long. but the thing is.. that hes married. apprently arent going well for him an dhis ...
A. 10 October 2009: i recently told my brother and i have told my boyfriend. thank you guys soo much. :)
my mom and are a a lil better now. shes been talking to me more and i talked to the guy. im a little better with him, but still uneasy. but its still good.
th... (read in full...)
What are the chances she is pregnant?
Q. Alright, so my girlfriend and I last had sex 6 days ago.(We're both 14, by the way, but please don't answer my question like you're talking to a little kid who has to be told about abstinence)After I ejaculated into my condom, I took off the condom ...
A. 10 October 2009: well.. symptoms dont usually show for a few weeks after a girl gets pregant. but it depends on the person and pregnancy. but there is a very good chance shes might have goten pregnant. is she on birth control? if not and she she misses a period ... (read in full...)
Should I carry on trying to take things further?
Q. hi. I know this might sound a bit stupid but i am totally unbearablely obsessed with this guy. We don't know each other very well but we have been going to the same hockey club for 1 or 2 years and he's recently started at the same school as me. ...
A. 5 October 2009: girl go for it!! talk to him and hang out outside shcool and hockey!! nothing is more hot to guys than girls whose wana hang with them. just always be urself :)... (read in full...)
Why use my pictures when he has access to much sexier porn ones?
Q. My boyfriend tells me that he loves to masturbate to half-naked pictures of me. I take this as a compliment, but I wonder; why would he use pictures of me when he has access to porn where the girls are fully naked and much sexier? Is he just ...
A. 3 October 2009: i think, in a close relationship, a guy woold rather get off with a sexy picture of his than anything. my boyfriend does that too. in my opinion, its a relief to know he gets off to pics of me than some porn star. that means that i am all he needs. ... (read in full...)
My mom is sneaking around with a new guy. I feel like my home isn't a 'safe place' anymore
Q. recently my mom divored my stepdad. and that ok. but in the middle of august she went on a trip for her work and on the way back she met a guy. i guess they got long. but the thing is.. that hes married. apprently arent going well for him an dhis ...
A. 3 October 2009: thank you guys. try and stick with me. im sorry. i didnt realize i typed so much. please and thank you all!!!
my mom has not told anyone in my family about this guy. because of her history with guys. shes been married 4 times. and shes tire... (read in full...)
Caught my b/f with vibrator! What do I do now?
Q. I got out of work early and thought I would surprise my b/f I been dating for a year now by showing up at his apartment last Sunday afternoon. I have a key so I let myself in. I didn't think he was home because the house was quiet. I went to his ...
A. 3 October 2009: i think you guys should just talk about it. i know its going to be hard, but its gotta be done. if hes the love of youe life, then uve gotta work it out. for the sake of your relationship. just ask something like soo..what was tht? or.. what maks ... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 19 September 2009: cool :)... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 7 September 2009: thats cool. so its not awkward between you guys?... (read in full...)
Date raped and now pregnant..don't know what to do!
Q. Ive struggled to barley even say this, so i really do apolagize if it gets a little long. Ive just run out of people to turn to! And i need to talk to someone. Sorry. Im now 17, and i was with a guy for almost 18 months, aged 14-15, but at 15...
A. 3 September 2009: i think you should tell your parents. u have nuthing to be ashamed of. u did nothing wrong. u were the victim in this. i understand you are worried to lose the baby again, but stay positive and take care of urself. jus out of curiousity, do u knoe ... (read in full...)
After a threesome, my gf is pregnant. What do we do now?
Q. My girlfriend and I are both 25. Normally she has a very regualar menstrual cycle, the pill make her sick so we avoid sex on the days she ovulates. Her last period was period was July 1, which means she should have ovualted from June 12-15, we had ...
A. 1 September 2009: first off, a girl can get pregnant at ANY TIME!!!!! even on her period!! u need to tell the other guys that theres trouble. and if the pill make her sick, try different pills or a different birth control like the shot or the ring. you should know, ... (read in full...)
How do I punish my son for what he did?
Q. Our 3 year old is very intelligent. He can write his name, sing the alphabet and ride a bike without training wheels. He is an excellent talker and even uses big words to describe things in detail. HOWEVER, he is mean to our dog. I keep ...
A. 1 September 2009: in all honesty, i think you should either give the dog up or let the dog stay at someone elses house for a little while. ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!
Q. Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...
A. 31 August 2009: i know how you fell. i thot i was pregnant awhile ago. but the best thing to do right now, is to not worry alot. added stress will make your period late and it can be confused for pregnancy. i was a week late because i was stressing. my boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Did he tell me those things because he was drunk, or did he really mean it?
Q. Please help me out here, as I'm not sure what to think. It's a little long but please bear with me, any advice helps. On Friday night at around 12:30 I recieved a phone call from this guy that I used to see/talk to pretty regularly from O...
A. 31 August 2009: personally, you should talk to him. text or call him and say we need to talk about your phone call. put all the cards on the table no matter what kind of stress they are. just clear the air and get everything stright.... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 31 August 2009: thats cool. have you seen him recently? just wondering. ... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 11 July 2009: well..do u like him? i know thats probably adumb question. but it cant hurt if yall talk and if things do happen, its consentual(dont know if thats the right term) dont think on it. just be careful. :)... (read in full...)
Should age matter?
Q. Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
A. 11 July 2009: dont worry about all that. just go for it. :) but, you should still be careful. i am :)... (read in full...)
Pregnancy and oral sex
Q. Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and we've been having sex for about 8 months. We used condoms for about 2 and a half months and then I went to the doctors to get a pregnancy test just to check. (Thankfully it was negative) ...
A. 7 July 2009: just make sure to use condoms wen u have sex bcuz i did get pregnant with the pull out method, but sadly had a miscarriage.. but life goes on. :)... (read in full...)
Pregnancy and oral sex
Q. Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and we've been having sex for about 8 months. We used condoms for about 2 and a half months and then I went to the doctors to get a pregnancy test just to check. (Thankfully it was negative) ...
A. 7 July 2009: well...there is a posibility that you could be pregnant, but u should go to ur doctor and take a test to be sure.
but if u want him to go down on you, just ask him, like you can txt or write a letter. i know its lame, but its a way to ask.
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Should age matter?
Q. Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
A. 27 June 2009: i think you should talk to his kids and try to find a common ground with them. i mean theyve got to get use to it cuz yall r guna be married.
hope this helped a little.
best of wishes..:)... (read in full...)
I feel like a child compared to my friends because I'm not having sex, drinking and taking drugs!
Q. Im 14 years old and all my friends are already having sex and giving guys BJs and drinking, drugs ect... i really don't fit in but for some reason im friends with them there nice people but i feel as if im werid cos i dont have a boyfriend and im q...
A. 15 June 2009: DO NOT..i repeat DO NOT do drugs or alcohol. there is too many things wrong with drugs! they are laced with crap that can get you addicted, sick, and even cause you to die. alcohol can do the same thing and people can things in your drink that will ... (read in full...)
He's pressuring me after promising that he wouldn't
Q. i have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months. He said that he wouldnt pressure me into thing sexually and to his credit he has been very good at keeping his word... well untill recently. He says he wont pressure me but in the same breath ...
A. 14 June 2009: u should tell him that you want to wait until you're ready and if he cant accept that then you should dumo him. its not worth the pain over that stuff. ... (read in full...)
Should age matter?
Q. Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
A. 11 June 2009: thanks alot.
and thanks for the conversation about this. lol :)
you are a fun person to converse with. :)... (read in full...)
Should age matter?
Q. Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
A. 10 June 2009: sorry. i forget to check my spelling. thank you for that.
but what ive gone through, and how ive had to grow up, ive had to learn to harsh life that adults live. i know that younger people still have maturin to do. and i agree with that. i will... (read in full...)
Should age matter?
Q. Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
A. 9 June 2009: m sry. i meant this as a scenario. im so used to saying i. im sorry for the misunderstanding.... (read in full...)
Should age matter?
Q. Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
A. 9 June 2009: to QuirkLady, i totally understand where you are coming from. and i do get that younger people are in a different stage of life, but from my personal life, what ive gone thru, im more mature than MOST people. cuz others..well..ar... (read in full...)
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