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*kay_Good
writes:There is this girl I like she calls me her best guy friend... she doesn't have a boyfriend, she knows I'm not gay, she finds me "funny" but not in an obnoxious way im not ugly.... well im really really bad at asking girls out and im pretty sure she likes me can somone give me some tips on how to ask her out?
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reader, Mkay_Good +, writes (30 June 2007):
Mkay_Good is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the help!
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reader, iwillhelpyouthroughit  +, writes (30 June 2007):
 well...my only advice if you get really nervous face to face
do it over txt or msn ... it's not the best of options but it gets the job done..
if you want to do it face to face my best advice would be to take a deep breath look into her eyes make sure u's r alone and just say it..wot can go wrong
be brave if you really like er you should just go for it!
good luck x
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (30 June 2007):
Everyone gets nervous about asking someone out, even if they seem really confident! On the inside they are sooo nervous and think they are bad about it. So you're not alone! However it does get easier the more you do it.
Find a way you think you would be comfortable with it. Some people find writing a letter to ask someone out is the best way, some may find asking them out on the phone would be easier. Whatever suits you.
If you arent ready yet to go in and straight out ask her out, you could try some smaller steps to show her you like her. Like maybe just ask her out to the movies with you. This doesn't mean its a date, but it could be, or it could just be two friends going out.
goodluck and if you have any more questions feel free to ask :)
And remember, there is nothing to be nervous about, you said you already think she likes you, so she will probably say yes :) nothing to fear...
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