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writes:what does she meant by this when she performed this action on me?sorry that this is a bit long... but i'm going to try to make it short. this was very unexpected and was surprised and full of shock when she (a lady i knew for almost a year) did this to me. when i was collaborating and interacting with my friends she was trying to get very close to me with her body, then i protected myself from her by shielding my body and moving away from hers. obviously she noticed, then i knew she went in the back of me and walked off but instead she went in the back of me and pet/stroke my hair. my friend, a boy noticed that she was doing that to my hair and after she was done he did not even to bother to talk to me about it. he just pretended that didn't even occured. the next day, she said to me, "you are in denial in front of my friends and people i did not really know that well." i was shocked on why she would say that and acted like what is she talking about. the way she stated that was if she was a bit upset and mad. overall, i did not know what she was talking about.over the next weeks, she has been always looking at me constantly and i did not even bother to look at her at all. i knew and sense she was looking at me. then later in the weeks i do not know why she moaned sexually next to me a few times. i was surprised she was doing this.why is she reacting this way towards me within her actions? Reply to this Question
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reader, pantelis0383  +, writes (30 June 2007):
probably she is lesbian,and maybe your curiosity, gave her a wrong message for you.that is if you are not gay.she thinks you areand that you "played dead" when she stroke your hair,because there was another person there.Just confront her, or ignore her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007): hun
This is a p.s i have been in this situation so if you need to chat then message me, okey dokey TAKE CARE MANDY XXXXX
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (30 June 2007):
Hmmm this is a different situation. Sounds to me like this lady may like you or something? Do you know if she is a lesbian/bisexual? It seems to me from what she said to you, that she seems to think you are in denial of your 'true feelings' for her. She seems to think or so desperately wants to believe you like her back, hence the whole her saying you are just in denial quote.You should tell her that her actions (and tell her in detail what actions, for example 'when you made sexual moans on tue'...be specific so she has less of a chance to make excuses) are making you feel uncomfortable and you will not tolerate them. Then hopefully she will stop them once she realises how they make you feel. If not you will have to seek further help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007): SWEETY
Are you blind, she fancys the pants off you... I dont think other than to strip you naked and take you right there and then she could have been more obvious... But do you like her in this way? Cause boy you have got one very hot female after you.. Take it as a compliment babes and if you dont feel the same you can either carry on with how your acting... Or buy a disguise.... She wants you hunny and bad by the sounds of it...:) GOOD LUCK AND TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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