Breaking the ice with a girl?
Q. There is a girl at my school that i relly like, but am terrified to say anything. Any suggustions as to breaking the ice?...
A. 14 September 2011: How much does a polar bear wiegh? Enough to break the ice. That'll probably crack her up ... (read in full...)
Very extreme, unhappy love. What should I do?
Q. Hi, Imma 14 year old girl and I know this is gonna sound stupid but this is something that tears me down nowadays.. Im not just another foolish young child, I have an idea of the world and I understand what people will say, I don't just live in ...
A. 28 July 2011: You have two options:
1.) Get over him, move on with your life, stop seeing him, and find someone your own age. See new sights, clear your head, and smile even though it may hurt. It will hurt at first, but in the long run you'll be happy. ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I don't want to be around anyone but my boyfriend?
Q. Hello Agony aunts and uncles! I have a quick question for you all. I have noticed lately that I don't have any real friends outside of school. The only person I do hang out with is my Boyfriend, and I'm fine with that because he's the only person ...
A. 11 June 2011: Yes. Its great your so close to your boyfriend, but if and when you break up (Your young. It'll happen) you will be crushed and have no one to talk to. Be friendly and outgoing, and your future bffs will come to you.... (read in full...)
Why are you vegetarian/vegan?
Q. Hey, I'm not planning on becoming a vegetarian, but I do care about animals very much and when I'm older I'd like to cut down on my meat intake. I could never fully quit, I love meat too much. So, to all the vegetarian/vegans out there, why are you ...
A. 11 June 2011: Thanks everyone!! ... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to be annoyed?
Q. My boyfriend never agrees to go anywhere or do anything fun with me, like a holiday or to see a gig or something. Now his friend has got him tickets to go away to see a band and he's going. I know his friend payed for the tickets, but I've offered ...
A. 8 June 2011: Ehhhhhh i don't know. Having a friend pay and having a girlfriend pay are two very different things. He probably thinks hes the guy, he should pay. ... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to be annoyed?
Q. My boyfriend never agrees to go anywhere or do anything fun with me, like a holiday or to see a gig or something. Now his friend has got him tickets to go away to see a band and he's going. I know his friend payed for the tickets, but I've offered ...
A. 8 June 2011: Ehhhhhh i don't know. Having a friend pay and having a girlfriend pay are two very different things. He probably thinks hes the guy, he should pay. ... (read in full...)
Parents: birth control for their 17 year old daughter?
Q. Hi everyone. This question isn't from me its for a friend of mine whose scared to ask her parents about birth control so she asked me to post this. Shes 17 going on 18 and is still a virgin. She knows things could happen in the heat of the moment ...
A. 4 June 2011: Thanks! Sorry i responded late but i thought no one had posted!... (read in full...)
Is this 36 year old man worried because he has feelings towards a 16 year old girl?
Q. So, this is kind of an akward question and i don't really know where to start..i know i'm going to get alot of comments on something that this question isnt about! Okay, so basically i'm 16 and i've had a 'crush' on my ex neighbour for ar...
A. 1 June 2011: It kinda sounds like he knows you lik him and he feels bad, thats why he keeps emphasizing the age thing. Listen, he has a kid, so just back off. Your 20 years apart!... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my ex and my friend!
Q. My ex is back. He is 26 and I'm 16.I love him. During our break-up I met one guy online. He is really good. He is 23. After my break-up I was depressed he helped me to get over him. But He is addicted to sex. And He love some other girl,He never to...
A. 1 June 2011: Its your desicion, but,
-he's hurt you before
-he COULD be lying
-in my opinion its better off that you aren't in a relationship right now. You sound like you need a break. but its only my opinion
-if you decide to break it off, just simply send... (read in full...)
I Love My Man but I Am Not Ready for this Baby Now
Q. Hi 23 I'm seeing this guy who is 31. I've known him for over a year but only started dating about 3 months ago, I'm now about 3 weeks pregnant with his child, he had 2 kids whom, he doesn't know if they are alive since where they lived was hit by a...
A. 1 June 2011: It is your descision, but remember he has been through alot, and when you break the news you're getting an abortion do it very nicely.... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my ex and my friend!
Q. My ex is back. He is 26 and I'm 16.I love him. During our break-up I met one guy online. He is really good. He is 23. After my break-up I was depressed he helped me to get over him. But He is addicted to sex. And He love some other girl,He never to...
A. 1 June 2011: Yes, just send him a message on facebook. It'll be fine, he's a big boy. And try to go out with guys your own age, ok? A lot of guys use girls, and you don't want to get hurt again. Oh, and i wouldn't date for awhile, so you can just work thou... (read in full...)
My period is late, but I've never had sex before. What is going on??
Q. Alright. I'm 18 and a virgin but I haven't had a period in over 2 months. I'm not sure what's going on and I'm really afraid. I called my mom and asked her about it but she was no help as usual. I know I can't be pregnant because as I said... I'm a ...
A. 1 June 2011: I'm with fishdish. Also, if you're really thin than your periods tend to be irregular. I'm a thin girl with a high metabolism and I'm a dancer, and once after a drop in wieght (I hadn't been eating enough, I'm fine now) i was a whole month late. ... (read in full...)
Can an abusive person change their ways?
Q. I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I ...
A. 30 May 2011: I don't know if an abuser can change, but you have kids. Don't risk it. Take your kids and run for the hills!... (read in full...)
What's a backhanded compliment?
Q. What does backhanded compliment mean??? Someone wrote on a mates wall on FB after someone said "you cant handle her twin, she would ruin you," Then someone wrote a backhanded compliment. Ive never heard of it before, what does it mean?...
A. 30 May 2011: Its a compliment thats really an insult. For example: wow, it must take alot of courage to wear THOSE shoes or wow, you look good for a fat girl!!
I really couldn't think of good ones, but thats the basic feel of it. Its just an insult disgused... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has flunked the last year at school. should I break up with him?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i love him so much and i think he still has some feelings for me BUT the problem is for the past week he has been ignoring me....i was curious to know why then i found out he got grounded ...
A. 30 May 2011: I would break up with him but not because he failed a year. Because you don't really love him. Your willing to throw it all away over a grade level? I have friends whose parents are ten years apart. Break up with him, but don't say because of his ... (read in full...)
Would you ever steal someone else's boyfriend?
Q. I wanna make it clear right now--i DO NOT want to steal someones boyfriend. There's just been a lot of things happening recently and i was curious. So, would you or wouldn't you? Why or why not? And have you ever stolen someone else's boyfriend or ...
A. 29 May 2011: Thanks everyone :)... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my ex and my friend!
Q. My ex is back. He is 26 and I'm 16.I love him. During our break-up I met one guy online. He is really good. He is 23. After my break-up I was depressed he helped me to get over him. But He is addicted to sex. And He love some other girl,He never to...
A. 26 May 2011: You've probably gotten this alot, but 26 and 16? I don't know what state you are in but i'm pretty sure that's too wide a gap in age. Listen, it seems both of these guys are bad news. And never trust someone you met online. ... (read in full...)
I have the hots for my older Land Lady! Does this relationship have a chance?
Q. I feel confused by my land lord. Shes 64 years old and not married. I'm 36 years old. I feel something for her; she likes it when I buy her gifts sometimes she lets me kiss her on her lips but that's it, nothing more. I feel I want more than that. ...
A. 11 May 2011: I don't know if you should try or anything--it sounds like she's rejected you, and that's her answer. If so you need to respect her wishes and leave her alone, whether you need to move or not. But always remember, you can live to be 100, but you can ... (read in full...)
Is my plan to propose to her...a bit too cheesy? What do you all think?
Q. Hi all. I just wanted some input on this plan I have. My girlfriend and I have been together for two years (I was 17, she was 14 when we met seven years ago) and she's graduating from her community college to be an RN the day that I come back from...
A. 9 May 2011: I'm with mishmash, it sounds great, and the fact that your so excited is great, but propose to her ALONE. A proposal is alot to take in and comes with alot of pressure. I'm sure she'll say yes, but it would be easier for her to answer without her ... (read in full...)
He treats me horridly and then blames me for his behaviors!!
Q. What is wrong with him. I am a 36 yr old woman, my partner is 42. we have 2 children 3 and 6 yrs. We dont currently live together as we had broken up some months before. We were recently getting along better and had started to become a family again. ...
A. 7 May 2011: I don't know whats wrong with him, but don't talk to him again. Take your kids, don't talk to him again, and move if necessary. That's not a healthy environment for you or your kids. He's abusive and probably has anger management problems. Don't ... (read in full...)
If I don't make a move I'll lose him forever, but there's a girlfriend ...
Q. Okay. So this will sound pathetic. But I need help. I've liked the same guy for almost three years now. He has liked me a lot of that time too but (because of our own reasons) we've never gotten together. At the moment he has a girlfriend, and he's ...
A. 7 May 2011: I am in almost the same situation, and i know how you feel. I know it hurts and your probably scared and you probably don't want to mess up his relationship, but that doesn't stop you from liking him. If he's gonna leave soon, you have nothing to ... (read in full...)
He as done a terrible thing to me so why can't I just hate him?
Q. My husband had an affair with my best friend and is now in a relationship with her. I am absolutely devastated not only for myself but for my baby boy who as only been seeing his daddy for an hour or so a week. He say's he wasn't happy and he ...
A. 25 April 2011: I'm gonna go out on a limb here, maybe you can't just hate him beacause you feel like theres more to the story and he still loves you. I can't give you perfect advice because i have never been in this situation, but maybe you should go to therapy ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cannot talk but would not say why
Q. My girlfriend says she's at home, but she's busy, and can't talk to me, yet she does not want to tell me why. She says she'll call me back when she's done, but she will not give me a time. I called her back saying it really bothers her that she woul...
A. 25 April 2011: I know theres probably alot more to the story, but maybe she just doesn't have the time to tell you. Maybe she was in a rush and didn't feel like explaining. Just calm down and get the answer from her. ... (read in full...)
I don't like the idea of being married or having children anymore!
Q. i just wanna an advice , I'm married with a woman in another country now she is gonna have a baby and i don't like the idea neither being married any more i'm so depressed about having a baby and continuing being married , no sex no fun but i stil...
A. 25 April 2011: Suck it up. No one could ever respect someone who left his baby because it didn't seem "fun" anymore. ... (read in full...)
What do you think this dream could mean?
Q. What does this dream mean? Ok so the basics...Ive been in a LDR for 3 years - we did get along perfectly fine, bf developed depression out of nowhere and then because of that he dumped me 2 weeks ago. Said he no longer wants love. I still l...
A. 23 April 2011: Im not a psycologist or anything, but I'm gonna go with nothing. Dreams are just your brain organizing itself. You could've been thinking about how you want him back or how he might be with another girl or even an old friend named stephanie and this ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has been going through a crisis in life and is unsure about her feelings for me. My life has come crashing down...
Q. I am new to this forum and probably wouldn't have ever posted if it weren't for one of the most painful turn of events which might change my life forever. my girlfriend and I had been going steady since dec 2007. we were exact opposites...
A. 23 April 2011: You need to respect her and her descions. You can ask her to be her friend. If that works, good for you, but thats probably all you'll ever be. While your being her friend, try to convince her into therapy. It sounds like she has alot of issues that ... (read in full...)
Hope to cope when boyfriend goes away for a week?
Q. hello, I want advice and ways 2 cope on a few things. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 months. We got commitment rings, (his idea) and he said he does want 2 be with me and loves me but it feels like i want him more and love him much more...
A. 23 April 2011: I think you should use the week apart to have some "you" time. No offense, but if you are too dependent on a guy (and it sounds like you are) if something happens and you break up, you will be so crushed tmyou won't be able to get back up. What i ... (read in full...)
Heroin use during first 3 months of pregnancy... Should I abort?
Q. I am 9 weeks pregnant (my first time ever, and it was unplanned), and I have an abortion scheduled for 5 days from now. Up until today, I was positive I was not going to continue with the pregnancy and was for sure going to get an abortion. Because ...
A. 22 April 2011: If your baby does have a birth defect or physical or physcological disorder, would you be able to afford and be responsible for the treatments and care nessesary? Your on heroin, whether you like it or not, there is alot of drug use and smoking done ... (read in full...)
Should I try and mend this very broken friendship or just let it die?
Q. OK in a nutshell: I used to be friends with this guy, who to be completely honest, I had a bit of a crush on - but I always knew it wouldn't go anywhere as he was gay, which I knew from the start. We were friends for about 18 months. During t...
A. 22 April 2011: I know I'm young, but i think i know the answer to this question. You need to ask yourself, is the friendship worth it? It sounds like you had some good times together, but you also sound like you had a very rough patch. Look deep inside yourself, ... (read in full...)
Recently reconnected after 20 yrs. Should I give up on this relationship?
Q. I am in need of some advice. I recently got back in touch with my first love through facebook and we spent hours talking and texting. I am in the very beginning stages of a divorce and and he is completely single. This is a long distance relation...
A. 31 January 2011: My suggestion is, you are going through a divorce and should spend some time being single to reconnect with yourself. ... (read in full...)
I cant accept his religion, but I cant be without him either!
Q. hey..im really confused and stressed out lately. i m in this relationship for 5 yrs. well i love him so much.. and he does too. but there is a religion difference between us..i mean its okay with me of being different, but he want me to convert to ...
A. 31 January 2011: Your boyfriend shouldn't force you to convert if in your heart you don't believe it. Tell him you love him, but in your heart you can't accept his religion and be happy. If he really loves you, he will understand.... (read in full...)
We both like her but he won't ask her out!
Q. i really really like this girl at college but my best friend also really likes her. he doesn't know that i like her and i'm not going to tell him because i want him 2 go out with her cause he's my best friend and i want him to be happy. the thing...
A. 30 January 2011: Just casually bring it up. Ex.: After silence in the conversation or you are talking about relationships and who likes who, etc. You: So who do you like? Her: (this is if she tries to beat around the bush) ummm someone You: c'mon, you can te... (read in full...)
My boyfriends parents do not accept our relationship, and I am engaged to someone else!
Q. (Moderator note: please note the nationality of the question-asker before answering) I have a boyfriend. I love him alot, but his parents torture me and are abusing me. They hate me but my bf loves me alot and I also love him But his parents do n...
A. 30 January 2011: Hmmm I have never been in that situation. You could go to your parents and have them break the engagement, break it yourself (idk if you can do that though) or just deal with whatever they throw at you and stand tall. ... (read in full...)
What can I do when my boyfriend believes I secretly want his older brother?
Q. Me and My Boyfriend have been dating for 10 months and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I love him so much and I know it's stupid but I feel like he's the one. The only problem is he is insecure. He doesn't feel like he is good ...
A. 30 January 2011: Ok, I can see that being really annoying. Just talk to him...tell him he could be the one..... (read in full...)
I love my hometown so much I do not want to leave it, but there's no career opportunities for me here. Is it silly to stay even though?
Q. Hi there, I'm in my late twenties and I value my lifestyle possibly too much. I live in a small city that, to me, has everything. We're five minutes away from several beaches, forrests, tramping and hiking spots and one of the most beautiful na...
A. 30 January 2011: Thats not abnormal at all. Well, you have to ask yourself "what is right for me?" Is it better to get work and then have a better chance at a career? Or is it better for you to stay in the tiny city you've grown to love so much? What I'd do is s... (read in full...)
Why can't he be enough for me? How can I change to accept him for him
Q. I am not happy and don't know what to do. I was internet dating for 5 years and met lots of men who lie and cheat and finally met a really nice guy who is introvert and doesn't soclialise. At first this didnt bother me as I got him all to myself ...
A. 29 January 2011: The answer is simple. You're bored. You want some excitment, and your boyfriend is unsociable and quiet, so he doesn't introduce you to interesting people or do fun things. He doesn't make very much money, so he can't take you on an adventure.
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Why can't he be enough for me? How can I change to accept him for him
Q. I am not happy and don't know what to do. I was internet dating for 5 years and met lots of men who lie and cheat and finally met a really nice guy who is introvert and doesn't soclialise. At first this didnt bother me as I got him all to myself ...
A. 29 January 2011: The answer is simple. You're bored. You want some excitment, and your boyfriend is unsociable and quiet, so he doesn't introduce you to interesting people or do fun things. He doesn't make very much money, so he can't take you on an adventure.
... (read in full...)
The changes in my friend are unsettling me
Q. My best friend is really starting to change. It all started when we went to the mall. I saw these really cute pants but I'd wasted all my money on a birthday present for my mom. So, my friend says "take the pants, put it in your purse and walk out...
A. 27 December 2010: Drugs can change a person. She obviously is changing. You can help her give up drugs. Tell her that you will tell her parents if she doesn't stop. And if she doesn't stop, tell them. It doesn't even have to be them. It can be your parents, a ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents that I have a boyfriend?
Q. Hi! well my problem is that i'm afraid to tell my parents that i have a boyfriend because maybe they will get angry. in the past, i was caught having a boyfriend but i lied to my dad and he warned me that time. now i'm junior high school, i promis...
A. 27 December 2010: You have to tell them. Just say "hey mom, I have a boyfriend" and act like it's not a big deal. If your calm, most likely they will be calm.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me fat and that is destroying our relationship
Q. Hi everyone. This is my situation... I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 10 months, we've been friends for two years and I'm very in love with him. He says he loves me and I believe it because he has proven me he does love me. Our relation...
A. 27 December 2010: Your boyfriend is really rude. What boyfriend (joking or not) would say that to his girlfriend? You need to sit him down and explain everything. From the bulimia to how you feel to how you feel more confident around other guys. And maybe some ... (read in full...)
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