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writes:What does this dream mean?Ok so the basics...Ive been in a LDR for 3 years - we did get along perfectly fine, bf developed depression out of nowhere and then because of that he dumped me 2 weeks ago. Said he no longer wants love. I still love him and I still want him back.Ok so my dream...Im with him and we are on a cruise shit with these 2 other guys and we had been all talking about something but next thing I know I see my ex casually walking backwards and the other 2 guys had actually tried to commit suicide but failed in it, and were now lying on the deck getting their breath back. I looked at them like what the heck and then walked away and followed my ex. We ended going down one deck where he came accross a snake game machine and began to play it...we got talking and then next thing I know theres a bed behind us and he sits down on it and is like look I dont know about us I really like stephanie and I was like who the hell is stephanie and he goes a girl who goes to the cinema with us sometimes so I was like oh I see you dumped me because you want her and he goes no then sighed and put this hands into his face.After that I kinda woke up a little bit but must have fell back into a sleep because next thing I know Im with him yet again and we are somewhere alone but the scenary was like from a wild west movie and horses ran past us at one point. I was talking to him about this stephanie and again asked who she was and again he said a girl who went to the movies with him and friends and he was like I dont know if I like her or not she just seems pretty cool and I then said well you always told me that there were no girls when you went out and then I woke up. I want to know some insight into what this means or could mean...first off he either goes to the movies alone or with these 3 sometimes 4 other guys and their all games freaks who isnt all that interested in girls and secondly I am almost 100% sure he doesnt know a stephanie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): Dreams have been studied for centuries. We're not sure exactly why, but they're very important for mental health.Sleep psychologists believe dreams are the way our subconscious organizes and processes both cognitive and emotional information. Everything in your dream is symbolic part of you and your subconscious. Almost none of it is literal. What I mean by that is there is no Stephanie. Stephanie is just your subconscious's blank for "the other girl", for your fear of losing him to someone else.There are plenty of books and websites that help with dream interpretation. But the most important things are: 1) any book or website that tells you that their interpretation is exactly right, don't trust it; 2) don't take anything literally about your dreams. Try to think of them symbolically: as emotions and themes from your life.
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reader, GG96  +, writes (23 April 2011):
Im not a psycologist or anything, but I'm gonna go with nothing. Dreams are just your brain organizing itself. You could've been thinking about how you want him back or how he might be with another girl or even an old friend named stephanie and this dream just came to be. You might have not even remembered the dream. It was just lucky that you remembered.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 April 2011):
 Dreams don't mean anything. It's simply your subconscious going crazy with whatever you were thinking about right as you fell asleep (it's not possible to remember what you were thinking about right as you drifted off). Don't read too much into it.
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