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My boyfriend has flunked the last year at school. should I break up with him?

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Question - (29 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i love him so much and i think he still has some feelings for me BUT the problem is for the past week he has been ignoring me....i was curious to know why then i found out he got grounded because he failed the whole school year grade(his friend told me) so now i was ok with us going out considering the fact that he was only 1 grade younger than me and 1 month younger but NOW he is going to be 2 grades younger than me and i find that a little weird to have a relationship....so should i break up with him or stay with him??

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A female reader, GG96 United States +, writes (30 May 2011):

I would break up with him but not because he failed a year. Because you don't really love him. Your willing to throw it all away over a grade level? I have friends whose parents are ten years apart. Break up with him, but don't say because of his grade level (he probably already feels horrible) or because you don't really love him.

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A female reader, antanelly Belgium +, writes (29 May 2011):

antanelly agony auntHmm...I agree with what loveonce says.. well maybe he was just too embarrassed to tell you himself that he flunked school..but in all better Judgement ask urself this , if u were in his shoes would u be alright of he ended things just cause u failed a year? second of all is it really fair that u would only base ur relationship on whether he is in the higher grade or lower grade.. wouldn't it all base on the heart and how u both feel about each other?

Now I dnt know exactly how ur relationship is but please do ask urself these questions...Good luck and let me know how it goes :)

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A male reader, loveonce India +, writes (29 May 2011):

loveonce agony auntwhich sort of relationship is this in which you can not face the fact that he got some trouble...he could not tell you coz of shame.people normally do that...is leaving him is the only way??but if you think that it's a casual relationship then you can go through your reasons of leaving him...

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