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writes:i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do till my doc gets back??sorry i know im so dumb, but please help Reply to this Question
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (29 January 2009):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey guys, sorry i havent updated you guys lately... i have posted other questions though that might have been part updates... umm update:
my baby daddy is not with me
i have a fiance who is not the bby daddy
i am stressing like a bitch
i am eating like a kjlkasdfkashf
i have gained 2x's as much weight as i was before
baby is kicking a lot
i am almost done!!!
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (8 November 2008):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalright, well i want him to be there when i tell my mom cuz she is WAY calmer about everything when he is around, she really loves him as do i.... so is it better to have my mom with her bf and his dad there all together, or do you think its better just seperate and idk.. any one have ideas on wat to say? i dont wanna give my mama a 3 attack
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Dear Poster
You have to forgive yourself; it will not help you or your unborn baby if you walk around with guilt feelings. Make peace with the situation and starting thinking about the future in a positive direction. I need be consider counseling to help you to get your "mind switched" to be less guilty and to be more positive.Take lots of additional vitamin supplements.
We all make mistakes, but the secret is to learn from them.
Best wishes and please keep us posted.
Lots of hugs and SMILES.
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (8 November 2008):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionha, junk food is all im eating!!!! i hate papia, so no worries.... i just feel like, horrible... she trusted me and left me home for like 9 hours with a guy, so we could have a movie date, and she bought us movies and stuff then went out of her way to make sure we had the house, cuz we couldnt afford to go on a real date... and i let her down, i dont even know wat movies she got... to be honest.. i just was being so stupid
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Let us know how it goes.Do not stress yourself.A big glass of milk everyday morning and night.Porridge,fruits and nuts are a must.No junk food,none at all.Do not have Papayas.They are not good for the baby.Do not feel guilty.There is no use thinking about the past.You need to look forward.Keep yourself happy.Hugs,Bugs
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (7 November 2008):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalright alright, i love my mommy!!! she is amazing, yea she is dumb sumtimes but she does trust me and i guess im just afraid to admit i let her down.... ill tell her tomorrow... at dinner
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008): I am a mom.You are going to become one.Please stop calling your mom names.Every teenager feels that way.you need to grow in maturity by leaps and bounds now.There is no way that you can hide it from your mom any longer.You need to tell her as soon as possible.I will have you in my prayers.Hugs,Bugs.
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (7 November 2008):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionw/e.... i think she is stupid, ne way... yea daddy is with me, he knows but only him and me and my doc. he takes me to the doc, and pays the bills........
any ideas on tellin a mama that her yougest child is havin a bby?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): Its not nice to call your mama names dear.she trusts you so much that she is not even suspicious.Believe in yourself.Is the father of the baby with you?Is he taking responsibility?Who is taking you to the doctor?Have you had your results?If you are underweight it can seriously harm the baby.You need to eat accordingly.My advice is tell your MOM at once.These things are going to be eventually found out.Please keep us posted.
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (4 November 2008):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnah, my mama thinks im having a growth spirt and thats why i eat a lot...idk how to tell her yet, ill work on it.. thanks guys.... yea im showing A LOT! but idk.. she is a dumb f**k i guess.... just thanks for helpin me guys, im like so happy im gunna cry.... thanks just everyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): Sweetie No one is judging you.Its just the pregnancy hormones that are making you feel this way.If you are five months gone you would definitely be showing.Haven't your parents asked or noticed anything yet.Please don't apologize. I remember being so dazed during my pregnancy.I couldn't think at all.You are not wasting our time.That's why we are here to help you out.Let us know how the tests go.Keep us posted.Please do tell your family.We are here to listen.Hugs,Bugs
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (3 November 2008):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes, i am really 15... my bf and i did it for the first time and the condom broke, i know i am really not the smartest, but i would rather talk to random people then my family. I am sorry if i am asking stupid ?'s and wasting your time, but thank you all again for helping me, i called the nurse and im going in in about an hour to get tests done.... im sorry im so dumb... i just im sorry
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (3 November 2008):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes, i am really 15... my bf and i did it for the first time and the condom broke, i know i am really not the smartest, but i would rather talk to random people then my family. I am sorry if i am asking stupid ?'s and wasting your time, but thank you all again for helping me, i called the nurse and im going in in about an hour to get tests done.... im sorry im so dumb... i just im sorry
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): Dear Poster
There are lots of things to take into consideration and it the best will be for you to get medical attention; contact your health planning clinic or another doctor; it is your health and the health of your unborn baby; it is not worth taking risks.
Please don't wait for your doctor to get back; get medical assistance.
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 November 2008):
Are you eating a balanced diet?
Make sure you are eating veg and meat and getting all the nutrients you need.
All you can do till you see the doc is keep eating.
It says you are very young like 13-15 so perhaps that has something to do with it and your body is not developed enough to handle pregnancy without a lot of extra help. Your pelvis can't be fully grown yet so perhaps your body is just trying to grow as fast as possible to be able to get through this pregnancy.
Drink lots of milk as you will need all the calcium you can get.
Good Luck!! xx
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