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writes:My girlfriend works as a nanny for a large family, which for some reason in the last 3 months have somehow not paid her on time, sometimes her wages are paid 1 week late, meaning that she sometimes is low or runs out of money, i have offered her money but she wont take it from me, a couple of weeks ago she took my niece out to the cinema, and when she went to pay for the tickets her credit card was refused and my niece ended up paying for the tickets, she told my niece not to tell me, as i have now found out from my niece what happened at the cinema i asked my girlfriend if she needed any money but told me that she was alright and that it did not matter and i told her that it mattered to me that she is miserable all the time because of her money situation, would it be alright for me to deposit money into her account without telling her as this seems to be the only way i can help her as i gave her a check for £1000 and she tore it up in front of me and said she did not want my help.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 November 2008):
The only way you can help her is to convince her to find another job.
If she tells her employer that she is going to quit if her wages don't come on time then they may make more effort.
I'm sure they'd rather keep her than have to train a new person up.
She just needs a boost in confidence enough to complain.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 if she said she did not want your help, then you should
listen to what she wants. Not what you want for her.
You've offered and it the best you can do. Just be supportive in other ways and offer to pay everytime you are with her
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