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*hatthehell
writes:I knew a guy on a dating site. He's from Denmark and obviously, I think we won't ever meet. I like him. We've been chatting for three months now. We don't chat everyday, but we do exchange messages almost everyday. He has become a part of my everyday and to be honest, I think about him everyday. I don't think I'm in love with him. I don't think I will be able to know if I'm in love until we meet. He says he can go here so we can meet in a fleeting conversation, but being realistic, the only time I will believe this is when he's already in front of me. But then, even though I know that in the end, I will get hurt. I just don't want to stop. I think I might develop really strong feelings for him. He likes me too and even said that I am the only one he thinks he could have children with. We have never said we love each other. We have said we like each other. We are sweet although we are not official. I don't really know him and I think I won't ever know him but I can't stop. What do you think I should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 hi. you should try to find people that live in denmark and noe him maybye u could work sumthing out. like save up for a plane ticket?but make sure he is real ya know
sry can't help live nowhere near denmark good luck though
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reader, PlayboyRomeo  +, writes (10 November 2010):
Okay so listen to me carefully. About 90 Percent of internet relationship dont work out. Its too superficial. Great thing for the girl of your age is hang out with boys of your age at your school or university or clubs .Get to know eachother in person,date him , kiss him , have some nice sex. And enjoy your life and close the laptop and move on :) . Trust me.
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reader, cheannryl  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 What can i say.. If things are meant to be it will be.
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reader, whatthehell +, writes (10 November 2010):
whatthehell is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks. may i ask what your situation is? i mean, from a guy's perspective. it's not that i don't trust my guy, it's just that i don't want to expect and be really badly hurt.
don't you have plans to see your girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): holy shi* i am in situation but reverse, i am the male. I think you should not give up on him and follow through and just remind yourself, this stuff only happens once in a blue moon! and remember you have sometihng special.. and taht you only live once. goodluck
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