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My fiancee is in another country and wants a nudey pic... Should I send it?
Q. i have been in this relationship for thre years but my fiance is in another counrty now and he want a picture of me naked.What should i do cause i dont have a cam and i am afraid to send him a picture.Should I send it or not?...
A. 4 February 2007: If you don't want to send him one don't!
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Had a great crush on the girl I work with... until I found out she has a boyfriend! How do I get her out of my head?
Q. I am in a miserable situation. I am 25 working as admin in an airline. I have a great crush on a girl at workplace. I didn’t notice her before but from last three weeks or so i noticed that she has got some feelings for me. So i took a step forward ...
A. 4 February 2007: It's hard but you know deep down that this girl did the right thing in telling you she had a boyfriend. On some level if she hadn't told you you probably wouldn't like her as much. She's made it clear now though. She's in a relationship and ... (read in full...)
Should I try and patch things up... even though I don't think it was my fault?
Q. I have been seeing a guy from work for 4 years. During that time we have argued often about another woman from work who has upset me by being very friendly with. He says nothing is going on but I have always been uncomfortable about it. She left ...
A. 4 February 2007: I think the way he sees your behaviour is that you were being insecure and didn't trust him when he said there was nothing going on between them. Being friendly and whispering aren't signs of an affair, they're signs of a close friendship, and it ... (read in full...)
About thave sex with my bf...so should I shave it all off or keep it?
Q. Pubic Hair Horror, i am about to have sex with my boyfriend and i would like to know whether i should get rid of my pubic hair or keep it plz help x x x...
A. 3 February 2007: That's totally your decision. With regards to sex with your boyfriend the only thing that matters is that you're not being forced into doing something you don't want to do and that you use contraception. Pulling out does not work.
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How long do Aids/HIV tests take to get back to my doctor?
Q. I went with a man for 2 years and were now broke up i had some drug problems but ive been to rehab and ive been clean 6months,goin back to school gettin my life and son back,I left him becuase he still does it and the queston is I heard he shared a ...
A. 3 February 2007: That man could get into HUGE trouble, as in attempted murder trouble if he had sex with you knowing that he was infected. I don't know anything about the Canadian health service but I know that unless you go private here tests can take about ten ... (read in full...)
I need details...how do I kiss a boy?
Q. hi, all my friends are going out with lads and kissing them(snogging) a lad has taken an interest in me but i feel that he'll want to kiss me and i want to kiss him back i just dont know how. HOW DO I KISS A BOY? i need details. from hopeles...
A. 3 February 2007: You can't really explain to another person how to kiss. You just do what comes naturally. You won't believe me now but once you've been kissed you'll understand.
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Finding it hard to get over my ex-boyfriend... we're still hanging and kissing!
Q. So I'm finding it really hard to get over my ex-boyfriend.. and he's got a new girlfriend.. who he doesn't really like that much. The other night I was really drunk and we kissed for ages.. until he said that he couldn't because he had a girlfriend. ...
A. 3 February 2007: If he doesn't really like her that much why is he still with her? I hate to say it but it sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Anyone who loved you wouldn't treat you like this. You can't move on unless you give yourself space from ... (read in full...)
Can't shake my crush on this older teacher!
Q. I have a massive crush on my teacher, but I'm 16 (17 soon) and he's a LOT older than me. Problem is, I can't shake it, we spend so much time together at school, and his behaviour towards me isn't normal, and often very flirtatious. We're quite cl...
A. 3 February 2007: Hey, well we all know how awful crushes can be but if you really like this guy try to remember that if anything were to happen between you and him he could lose his job and even go to jail. I'm sure that if you really like him you wouldn't be ... (read in full...)
I think I love my step-sister...
Q. I'm in a sticky situation. Well i think i love my step sister-very much and i have been for aobut 2-3 years. I live with my mum still as i'm only 15 and shes 15 as well and lives with my dad and step mum. I like her loads, and i need tell her how i ...
A. 3 February 2007: You can't help how you feel and there's nothing technically wrong with you dating your step sister. Morally you will encounter some criticism from people around you though. It's also worth considering that if you break up (and at your age ... (read in full...)
I think my ex boyfriend is schizophrenic!
Q. I think my ex boyfriend is schizophrenic. We're still pretty close even though we're not together, and he went crazy last night. He has AD/HD and has always had social issues and can get very violent, but he really scared me. He sent out a text to a ...
A. 3 February 2007: I'm no schizophrenic expert but what you've described sounds similar. If it is schizophrenia he might need to spend a period of time in a mental hospital but it will be for his own good. Call Mind on 08457660163 for further advice. They'll be able ... (read in full...)
Does vagina size matter? Is it something men look for?
Q. Does size matter? There's often a lot of talk about whether a larger penis is important but I worry about whether my vagina is tight enough to give a man pleasure and whether its something that men look for? I was once described as rather cavernous ...
A. 3 February 2007: Everyone's vagina loosens up as they have sex/babies and I'd imagine that being described as cavernous was more a one off insensitive remark than a true one. However... if it is something that really bothers you there are some exercises you can do ... (read in full...)
My gf hides alot of her thoughts and feelings from me! What should I do?
Q. Hi everybody. I am having trouble handling my gf. She does not tell me if she's unhappy with me even though i asked her. She does not tell me a lot of things too. Like for example, when i could not spend christmas with her last year, she was pretty ...
A. 3 February 2007: Okay, in relation to the Christmas issue because that's the one you used.... In that case I would have been highly apologetic about not being able to spend Christmas with my partner and I would have suggested perhaps having our own Christmas on a ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't touch me but he masturbates everynight. What can I do?
Q. My husband will not touch me but I walk in on him every night pleasing himself. what do I do?...
A. 3 February 2007: Offer to give him a hand? Maybe masturbation has just become a habit. Talk to him. I'm sure things can be worked out.
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I hate the thoughts of his colorful past! Am I just being petty?
Q. Im with a Guy who's a lot older than me. first person i've ever know to make me feel what can only be love i guess. thing is he's had a slightly colourful past and everytime i think about anybody he's been 'with' or some of the conquests he's ...
A. 3 February 2007: By your age you're going to struggle to find a guy who doesn't have some sort of past. I think it's something youve just got to come to terms with and learn to live with.
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Sent him some messages I regret. Will he be really angry with me?
Q. This week a guy i fancy'd , found out ! =S ... he was all off with me for the rest of the week . Last night i was drunk and went on msn , and sent him some messages saying , i dont even fancy you anymore ... ect . He didnt reply because it was ...
A. 3 February 2007: You know what? These kind of dramas are really intense at your age but you'll be amazed how quickly they blow over.
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Will I be stuck with 'bitchy' girls, all year long at this new school?
Q. Im starting year 9 at a new school next week. I dont know anyone there so im nervous. A girl in the same year as me, moved from my new school to my old school. She was talking to my friends and she said that the girls at my new school are really b...
A. 3 February 2007: At your age all girls are bitchy to a certin degree. Don't stress about these girls before you've even met them. Start your new school with an open mind, telling yourself everything will be okay and don't get drawn into the web of bitchiness if it ... (read in full...)
He dumped because he said I was too young! How do I get over him?
Q. I have been in love with this guy (lets call him Fred) for a year, he is 17 and im 14. He said he liked me but im too young and if i was older he would go for me. I understand im too young but i cant seem to let go. I really want a boyfriend, a lot ...
A. 3 February 2007: I really hope this doesn't sound patronising but Fred did the right thing. In the future three years won't be a big age gap but right now it's kinda important. Another guy will come along in time but it seems to me that you're still so hung up on ... (read in full...)
How do l break up with my girlfriend but remain good friends?
Q. How do l break up with my girlfriend but remain good friends?...
A. 3 February 2007: You can't force the post break up friends issue. She'll more than likely feel hurt and betrayed at being dumped and will take a lot of that pain out on you at first. You should give her time to get through that stage before suggesting that you are ... (read in full...)
He left me for a 20 year old but now, I'm not sure but it seems he maybe trying to win me back! Any advice?
Q. please dont pass me by i really need your help?.i was on before to you and the help i got was great but now i have a follow up.i was here in oct about my husband leaveing our 21year marrige for a girl 20years younger than him she is the same age as ...
A. 3 February 2007: It sounds like he is regretting what he did to you all and obviously it's your decision whether to take him back or not. Things I would take into account is that first he cheated on you, now he's going behind his new girl's back. What if the ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my online guy. The problem is, I am stuck in the web of lies I created
Q. I met this guy on the internet a few months ago and to start with i was just looking for fun and having a laugh, if i'm honest i just wanted a bit of attention. now i've fallen in love with him. he's in love with me too. and i know that people often ...
A. 3 February 2007: I think you need to write this one off to experience. I don't honestly believe that you can love someone you've never met but if you're sure its love and that it's mutual then he'll be able to forgive all your lies but it's a big ask. Be honest in ... (read in full...)
What was the wet... and could I have gotten pregnant through his boxers and my panties?
Q. ok i hope this questions isn't dumb, but i'm genuinly confused..... the other night i was at my boyfriends house and i had my legs wrapped around his waist and i was kissing his neck and everything (it's his "special spot") anyway i noticed he start...
A. 3 February 2007: It's really unlikely that sperm would get through his boxers and your knickers but it is possible. They're small enough after all. It sounds like if you're not 100% sexually active yet that you will be soon so it might be a good idea to visit your ... (read in full...)
Why would he be turned on by my feet!?
Q. Why are feet such a turn on for some people? My boyfriend even asked me to incorporate them into our intimate times. We got on the topic of fetishes, and I said 'well, I like feet and everything, but not to the point I'd cut someone's off', and he ...
A. 3 February 2007: Who knows? Some people are turned on by being peed on during sex. Some people find it a turn on to have sex with dead people. Why? Who knows? Your boyfriend's fetish is common and harmless enough but remember you don't have to do anything you're not ... (read in full...)
Any tips for phone conversations?
Q. Can anyone tell me how to keep a conversation on the phone?...
A. 3 February 2007: I assume we're talking about you chatting to someone you feel a bit awkward around? If I'm worried about this I think of some things to talk about if there are awkward silences, stuff like... that new french teacher is a cow hm? or have you seen ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my fear that I will be cheated on again?
Q. after an 8 year relationship and three wonderful children i separated from my cheating ex who happened to be cheating with a friend! now i have found a new love and i am afraid that he will walk away with one of my friends how do i over come this ...
A. 3 February 2007: There's no instant solution. Really, all you can do is let your new man build up your trust slowly.
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My gf hides alot of her thoughts and feelings from me! What should I do?
Q. Hi everybody. I am having trouble handling my gf. She does not tell me if she's unhappy with me even though i asked her. She does not tell me a lot of things too. Like for example, when i could not spend christmas with her last year, she was pretty ...
A. 3 February 2007: Stop talking to her mates. You're too old to only talk about each other through your mates now. Trust me, it'll just open a whole new can of worms. By not telling you how she really feels your girlfriend is trying to protect your feelings. She ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my bf asked if he could take my virginity. What should I do?
Q. im 13 n still a virgin. i've been goin out with my boyfriend for awhile. one day i was on the fone with him n he just asked if i as a virgin. of course i said yes. then i asked if he was on he said no.i said oh ok, cuz it didnt really bother me. so ...
A. 3 February 2007: If you're scared you're not ready to do it. At thirteen you need to give it a few years because relationships don't always last that long and boys often kiss and tell so you don't really want those things to happen to you. However, if you decide to ... (read in full...)
I can't ask him for a date as I'm scared of rejection...what can I do?
Q. i really like this boy and he knows but says to my best friends that we are just friends but he told his friend that he wants to go out with me i can't ask him because i really scared i will get rejected, i don't know what to do or if he likes me or ...
A. 3 February 2007: He told his friends he wants to go out with you so you won't get rejected. Just as yourself this. What's worse? A few minutes of red face or liking him so much and nothing ever happening because you're too scared to make a move?
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He's just split up with his gf...should I tell him I love him?
Q. I have a friend, who lives in Bath and i live in Cardiff. we've become so close that we tell each other everything, but now i think i love him, and i think he loves me too, but hes just split up with his girlfriend, shud i tell him how i feel?...
A. 3 February 2007: If you don't give him time to get over his ex, then even if he says yes to being with you you'll be the rebound girl and your relationship won't last. Be there for him when he gets over her and when the time is right to ask him out you'll know.
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How can I get his attention when this other girl, is always taking it away?
Q. There is this guy in my circle of friends that I can’t help but think of a lot. We are just semi newly acquainted friends. I see him checking me out. I purposely wear cute clothes so he can notice me and it works. We’ve gotten to the stage (kind of...
A. 2 February 2007: Neither of you have asked this guy out right? Well then the way I see it is that you haver nothing to lose by trying it. Think how much you'd kick yourself if a few weeks down the line she asks him out and he says yes simply because she asked him ... (read in full...)
My best friend does everything I do and then some - then acts as if she's better than me! What gives and how do I cope??
Q. Can someone help me cope with my copycat better than you attitude best friend? I love her and yes at times to death, but why does she ALWAYS compete with me??? I thought it was flattering in school, then I got married, she got married. I had ...
A. 2 February 2007: Why are you seeing her as your rival? Most people get married, have babies and buy houses at the same sorts of time. It's not necessarily copying. If it's irritating you when she constantly steers the conversation round to herself just walk away. ... (read in full...)
Some other guy is with the girl I like. I want to put on a mask and beat him up! What should I do?
Q. Hi i really really really like this girl and she said she liked me but now shes goin out wif this other guy and i actually hate him. i want to beat him up and im on the verge of putting on a mask and absolutly kicking his face in. but i know i s...
A. 2 February 2007: Talk to someone about your anger. You're not reacting in a healthy way at all! Relationships and crushes are so fleeting at your age but just because you liked this girl doesn't mean she has to like you back. Take a few deep breaths and realise it's ... (read in full...)
How do I orgasm during sex w/out touching myself? And how do I tell him I faked it??
Q. When ever i have sex i never climax.If i do it is because i touched myself but i never get one if i leave it up to my partner being inside of me. What's wrong with me? Is this normal? i want to be able to do this without touching myself but how do i ...
A. 2 February 2007: You don't have to tell him you faked it if you never do it again. Just tell him that you'd love it if he could touch you during sex since you hardly ever come through penetration alone. This is totally normal. Most women can't come through ... (read in full...)
When I lost my viginity I bled a little. But now every time I have sex I bleed a lot afterwards. Is this normal?
Q. when i lost my virginity i bled a tiny bit, but since then i have had sex about 7 times (quite reguarly, like 2-3times a week) but i have bled more after each time. im not talking like a dot of blood, but alot - alot more than when i lost my ...
A. 2 February 2007: It's very possible to bleed after rough sex. However it can also be a result of an STI so see the doctor to put your mind at rest. Yes it's embarassing but some STI's if let untreated can cause big problems for you so it's as well to be safe.
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Guys make me itch. Is this normal?
Q. this might sound completely ridiculous....but is it possible to get hives (itchiness) because you cant stop thinking about a guy? i know he likes me, but im very weird about relationship stuff, to be honest. it all freaks me out...im 21 and never ...
A. 2 February 2007: U know what it might be? Know when you exercise and you feel itchy but it's nice itchy? That's a result of the endorphins you get from doing exercise. Endorphins are also released when you're in love so you feel the same itchiness. Just a thought.
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Two guys like my gf and I don't likethem talking to her! How do I controlmy anger over this?
Q. hi, heres my problems ive been going out with my girlfriend a month and a bit. shes older, an we both go school. a guy in her year likes her, and says and does stuff to her such as stroking her hair or tickling her, he says he thinks boyfrien...
A. 2 February 2007: She's with you. If she wanted to be with one of the other guys she would be. If you try to control her then you'll end up pushing her into their arms.
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Newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, I laugh uncontrollably. What can I do?
Q. Hi, I`m newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, tend to laugh uncontrollably. we`re just not able to have sex because of ths. pls pls help!!...
A. 2 February 2007: Sex is a hugely emotional experience and when you think about it, sex is funny! However I can see this is killing the mood for you both. Having never had this problem I'm not 100% sure what you could try but maybe try to stay in the moment rather ... (read in full...)
She has a bf she hates, says she loves me but won't end with him! Any advice?
Q. I've got a dilemma, this girl I know who has a b.f told me that she thinks shes falling in love with me, i said to her you think? And she said I've fallen in love with you...this was on the phone, i was with her that night before we spoke on the ...
A. 2 February 2007: You're doing the absolutely right thing by giving her space. You know that nothing can happen while she's with her boyfriend because however horrible he is it'd be so unfair to him. Carry on doing what you're doing and hope it all works out okay in ... (read in full...)
Does kissing another guy mean I don't love my bf?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half, we are suited in every way, want the same things out of life, never argue and always have fun together. We moved in together for the first time 4 months ago, and set up our own business. It has been ...
A. 2 February 2007: I think you're overanalysing a kiss. You say you were drunk and tha it was a mistake. I just wonder if perhaps your guilt is telling you that you don't want to be with your boyfriend but if that's definitely wrong forgive yourself. We've all had ... (read in full...)
Was he just awkward around me or does he really not like me? Any advice?
Q. Yesterday the guy I fancied found out some how, that I fancied him. He's told some people he would go out with me and everyone says he fancies me. But that was yesterday ... today he was all off with me. Maybe it was just awkward, or he's making a ...
A. 2 February 2007: Hm how old are you? Guys will be awkward until about 16 but after that if they really like someone they'll just go for it.
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He's married and I love him. But I don't want to be a homewrecker! What should I do?
Q. I'm in love with a married man, he has a one year old son. He loves me too and he told me so. I don't want to break another woman's home, but, i really love him, what should I do?...
A. 1 February 2007: Forget him. He's married. His wife and son deserve to have him in their lives and being faithful towards them. You say you don't want to wreck another woman's home so don't.
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I ask her out and she ignores me! What can I do?
Q. please help i realy like this girl and i keep asking her out to her face but she ignores me she thinks im joking around and ignores me by doing this how do i tell her my true feelings despite what other people. Thanks L.knighton...
A. 1 February 2007: Sounds like she knows you're being serious but isn't interested in pursuing it.
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