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age
36-40,
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writes:I've got a dilemma, this girl I know who has a b.f told me that she thinks shes falling in love with me, i said to her you think? And she said I've fallen in love with you...this was on the phone, i was with her that night before we spoke on the phone, when she was with me she couldn't look into my eyes as she was getting upset because she wants to be with me. The next day she text me saying she cant text or see me until she has sorted herself out. I don't think she will end it with her b.f even though she hates him and doesn't want to be with him...I haven't spoke to her in over a day and half as I'm giving her space but finding it very hard to re-strain myself, I'm worried she won't contact me again! I've already fallen for her :(
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reader, AskEve +, writes (2 February 2007):
 I think this girl is playing you love. She says over the phone she thinks she's falling in love with you yet she can't look you in the eyes? Hmmmmm sounds a bit fishy to me. She wouldn't be able to HELP looking into your eyes if she was truly in love with you and as for the boyfriend... he'd be history, all the more so if they didn't get along and she hated him. She's using you, I'd forget her and move on.
Continue to give her space.... a lot of it!
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (2 February 2007):
 You're doing the absolutely right thing by giving her space. You know that nothing can happen while she's with her boyfriend because however horrible he is it'd be so unfair to him. Carry on doing what you're doing and hope it all works out okay in the end.
CD
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