Why does my boyfriend always stay quiet towards me and is opened up to his mates and not me?
Q. Well this guy I like has a new girlfriend, (I posted the other day about feeling jealous and absolutely gutted) since then he text me saying he will be my future boyfriend and that he would like to give it a go if they split up. What the heck am I ...
A. 20 July 2007: whaattt? this is insane, i didnt write anything about 'my boyfriend' in the question because i dont have one. thats freaky. what i posted originally said, 'Well this guy I like has a new girlfriend, (I posted the other day about feeling jealous and ... (read in full...)
I'm really confused because he said he doesn't fancy me anymore but today he seemed to act different although he's still not talking to me.
Q. This is really complicated but I'll try explain in as few words as possible. I've just split up with my boyfriend (it wasn't a proper relationship and barely lasted 3 weeks, we are on good terms and are still mates) because I liked my friend of ...
A. 9 July 2007: i found out hes been texting a friend of mine really raunchy stuff 2 do wiv her but he said he was joking around and he dusnt fancy her. now im fuming so i told him i dont like him anymore and he says he give a shit anyway. Im so angry/gutted nd i ... (read in full...)
I'm lonely. All I do is work, then come home to an empty flat, watch tv, read and go to sleep
Q. I'm lonely. All I do is work, then come home to an empty flat, watch tv, read and go to sleep. Day after day after day. What worries me is that I'm getting used to it. I still miss my family and friends (all of them thousand of miles away) but I ...
A. 8 July 2007: i think you should try join some sort of group or club for something youre interested in. that way you will meet new people and get out a bit more because i know it can be hard when youve got yourself in that rut but you have to get out as soon as ... (read in full...)
We have big differences in opinions in the war in the Middle East. Should we not talk about this?
Q. Hello, Whenever my boyfriend and I talk about the middle east, we argue and get really annoyed with each other. Seeing as we hold quite different views (he thinks I'm prejudiced on the subject, I think that he holds his views because he confu...
A. 8 July 2007: people dont always have the same views and i think its good to talk about things you dont nesecserily agree on. I know its not the same but me and my best male friend have very different opinions on abortion and I used to get really mad at him when ... (read in full...)
I think I fell in love with an ex coworker and I want to leave my husband for him.
Q. I think I fell in love with an ex coworker and I want to leave my husband for him....
A. 8 July 2007: does your co-worker know you're in love with him? and you need to consider all the factors about this situation. its a big decision and you really need to think things through properly before you leave your husband. good luck working out what you ... (read in full...)
How can I do to help end this stupid cycle?
Q. I've been talking to a guy online over a year now. Our pattern is: I initiate conversation, he responds politely and vaguely. After some weeks or months I ask why is he still responding to my messages, he vaguely asks to meet up and I say I'm busy. ...
A. 8 July 2007: flower girl is right. you need to get him out of your life and out of your mind now because your 'relationship' isnt benefiting either of you. i suggest you delete him as a contact and get out and about with your friends in the real world ;) it will ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to be having some form of relationship with his ex.
Q. So I've been dating this guy now for about 6 months. He has a child with his ex-girlfriend. He's told me that they've been broken up for over a year, but he's was living with her up until a few months before we met. He swears that he won't go back ...
A. 8 July 2007: the only way your relationship can survive with him is if you learn to trust him. He has a child with this woman so its hard for him to discontinue contact with her, however i would be a little wary about the texts on his phone. its still early days ... (read in full...)
Recently my pet died and i was wondering if there is anything that can give me some advice to help me get over him please?
Q. Recently my pet died and i was wondering if there is anything that can give me some advice to help me get over him please?...
A. 8 July 2007: im sorry to hear about your pet dying, some people form close attachments to pets and it can feel just like a person dying to them. Therefore theres is nothing in particular you can do to 'get over' your pet dying, however i suggest you put aside a ... (read in full...)
For the gals: What are you thinking when you are checking out a guy's wedding ring?
Q. For the gals: What are you thinking when you are checking out a guy's wedding ring? I was having lunch with a buddy of mine when this topic came up. Occasionally, when I am among women, I catch them ogling my wedding ring. If they end up maki...
A. 28 June 2007: well that depends, if hes a hot guy probabli 'blimey shes a lucky lady'but usually im just checking out the ring!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I tell my boyfriend I don't want to have anal sex?
Q. My boyfriend has started suggesting anal sex and while I happily enjoy a little anal stimulation, I don't want him fully penetrating me with his penis; I have a terribly low pain threshold. I don't feel I can say no however as he often lets me use a ...
A. 13 May 2007: straight up just tell him that you're uncomfortable with the thought of having anal sex. If it's worth it he'll understand sweetie =) xx... (read in full...)
He tried to rape me, but I want to give him another chance. Is this wrong?
Q. umm, i have a question 4 you. i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago because he tried 2 rape me. i was in a state. but now i am starting 2 ave feelings 4 him again. I want 2 give him another chance. is this wrong?...
A. 12 April 2007: its not 'wrong' because you really cant help who you fall for no matter how horrible they can be. I'd advise you not to get back with him and try the best you can to move on sweetie. Your relationship would never go back to the way it was before ... (read in full...)
She is spectacular! And I am kicking myself for being too shy to talk to her! Any tips to helping me here?
Q. Dear Readers How are you and thanx for reading. I am a teenager 15 and there is a girl I like alot. I think she is the most spectacular girl I have ever met and I am too shy to ask her out She is about 5,5 and 120 pounds blond hair green ...
A. 12 April 2007: I bet she'd really love to hear how much you feel for her because it sounds like you've well and truly fallen for her! Try play it cool and just be yourself! I know its not that simple, but maybe you should invite a group of friends out to do ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and barely hugged a boy while my friend has scored with someone! I need advice on how to do things with the boys??
Q. im just 13 i've started 2 talk 2 a boy whos 14 and i really like him but hes into se and everything..my best freind is going out with sum1 and scored and i've bearly even hugged a boy. i just want 2 fit in but i don't know how to do anythink i've ...
A. 10 April 2007: sweetie your 13, boy i wish i was still 13!! I was also pretty inexpirianced when i was 13, but then i became more comfortable with myself and around boys which really helped me get closer to people and yes 'score' =P.
just slow it down hunnie and ... (read in full...)
Why are the guys in my school so shallow and immature?
Q. Ok, so I need a guys opinion. I think the guys in my school are immature because they only think really skinny girls are hot. very skinnneeeeyy. Not true, right? I am curvy and my boobs are big! what else do they want.? I weigh 150lbs and im ...
A. 9 April 2007: real guys lovveeee curves!! Trust me, Im a little curvy and i always talk to my boy mates about girls and stuff and they really dig curvy girls. Dont let these imature 'children' get you down becaus ethats what they are, and when you all grow up ... (read in full...)
How can I show her I care for her and shes much more than just a distraction to me!?
Q. What can I do to show my girlfriend that I'm not a distraction for her college home work and while shes at school i'm not a distraction.I just want her to trust me I dont want to push her away we have been together for 2 years now and I love and ...
A. 9 April 2007: just start with a small gesture, maybe flowers. then explain to her what youve explained in your question. Im sure just you being honest with her will help her to trust you, i think its beautiful how much you care you her =) xx... (read in full...)
How can I found out if these other boy's like me?
Q. dear cupid im 9 years old and i just wanted to ask you somthing, i like a boy namde ryan, i like 2 others boys but I dont know if either of them like me. if they dont tho how do i find out why they dont like me and how can i chage it? Love mayishia...
A. 8 April 2007: sweetheart let me just tell you one thing,
never change for anyone but yourself because if they dont already like you for who they are then they really arent worth it! Why dont try decide who you like best then ask them if they like you? good luck... (read in full...)
The girl in my class keeps saying she wants to kiss me but never does! What shoud I do ?
Q. hi I am a boy and there is this girl in my class and she keeps on saying that she wants to kiss me, but she never does. What should i do. Please help....
A. 29 March 2007: Kiss her kiss her kiss her!!! She's probably just a bit shy, and it wont kill you to make an effort to suprise her - she'll probably quite like that :D xxx... (read in full...)
We like each other so why cant we get past this nervous, shy phase and get together
Q. I like him and he likes me but we cant get past this nervous, shy phase and get together?! Im not sure if Im scared because of what people will say about us or judge us but I know I feel so awkward around him! But when im not with him I cant stop ...
A. 29 March 2007: we've only been shy around each other for about 3 weeks (since we told each other we liked each other) xx... (read in full...)
I desperately want to lose weight! Do I make myself sick or what?
Q. Recently, I've been contemplating making myself sick. I've been trying to lose weight for about 3 months now, yet I've been feeling really depressed recently, and feel as though, if i was thin, it would be one less thing for me to worry about. ...
A. 27 March 2007: it sounds to me like you are on the brink of having an ED (eating disorder) so you need to stop thinking in this way as soon as possible because once youre in that rut it will be hard to get out of it without professional help. People who really ... (read in full...)
If there really IS a God, why does he allow so much suffering?
Q. Do you believe in God? And if so why does he allow all the pain in the world. I’ve been brought up to believe in God and never doubt my belief. My family are not religious in the sense of going to church, my mother has always believed in God ...
A. 17 March 2007: I've had a fair few bad things happen in my life and plenty times I have asked the same questions. But if there is a god I don't think he chooses those to die to take them away from us and cause us pain, because everything really does happen for a ... (read in full...)
Did he really mean it when he text me to say I love you?
Q. I've recently had feelings for a boy at my school who I've been friends with for 2-3 years. He text me on Friday saying 'i love u' but i wasnt sure if he was joking or not because on Fridays he does football with his mates, so I text my friend and ...
A. 12 March 2007: thanks for the replies, school 2day in like 5 mins lol :S youre right about trying to push it out of my mind, i just dont know how and yes i would say im pretty inexpirienced with guys (im 15) what can i do about that? :S xx ... (read in full...)
I'm assured she likes me but terrified to ask her out in case I fall flat on my face and ruin everything?
Q. I really like this girl, and I think she really likes me. I am in a few classes with her, and I talk to her whenever I can in those classes. She always laughs and smiles whenever she is around me, and my best friend says she looks at me when I get ...
A. 11 March 2007: hey there, well recently i've been on the end of that situation. I knew this boy for about 2 years properly & we are good mates, all my friends always say he stares at me and smiles at me all the time. Recently I got feelings back for him and he ... (read in full...)
Saw him goofing off at school with 2 other girls! I'm pretty upset..am I over-reacting??
Q. saw him with 2 other girls!! okay I know I dont own him and all but when A guy says he likes you and shit and always wants to hang out and have sex with you and shit means he really likes you right?? after we talked on msn and the phone for ...
A. 4 November 2006: You are not over reacting. When you're adolescent you act very drastically and maybe feel confused about stuffy. Im sure he's just not too sure of what he wants or how to feel. But if he was goofing off with other girls then maybe its not worth it, ... (read in full...)
I have touched my sister
Q. i love my sister,she is younger than me with 10 years she is 26 , i had touched her twice during her sleeping and she had feel me but she made her self sleeping,and we touched each other in the swimming pool,but as we having fun in the water, please ...
A. 28 October 2006: It's not normal and it's VERY illegal. You shouldn't be having this kind of relationship with your sister, maybe you should get some help.... (read in full...)
My little nephew is trying to be like me. I am worried he's trying to grow up to fast? What can I do?
Q. I have a six-year-old nephew, who tries to be on the same page as me. I understand that he wants to feel more grown-up, but there are just some things that he will not be able to do, until he reaches a certain age, and I don't want him to feel ...
A. 28 October 2006: i dont know how hes 'trying to be like you' but if he's young then he will probably grow out of it, i'm sure its only a phase. x x... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and experience very heavy periods. Is this normal?
Q. Heyyy, Is it normal for a 13 year old to have really heavy periods, cause when i stand up its like a waterfall and i need the toilet quite alot and i normally feel dead during the day. and i spend around 10 mins in the toilet each time. am i too ...
A. 28 October 2006: it's normal for your period to sometimes be heavy but if its for a long period of time (no pun intended) then you should go see your doctor for sure. Hope i helped ;) x x x... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my best friend
Q. I am i 16 year old girl and i think im in love with my best friend....i dont know tho...i want it to be lust more then love..but he has that thing about him..we were dateing but broke up.....i dont want to hurt him again...but i really think i love ...
A. 28 October 2006: im in a similar situation, i also love my best friend. But he didn't want to take the risk of us spliting up and in a way im glad because he cares more about our friendship. If you really love him then you'll let him go, because if you don't want to ... (read in full...)
Who should have the last say on this abortion?
Q. Hi there. If a couple is pregnant, married, and has the means to bring up the child well (financially speaking and in a good neighborhood with a good education, etc), and one partner wants to have an abortion and the other doesn't, what should be ...
A. 27 October 2006: i dont think there is a straight answer because either way it will put a strain on the relationship. Personally if i was pregnant and my partner wanted me to keep it but i didn't then I would have an abortion anyway, it's my body and i sure wouldn't ... (read in full...)
I lied and told this guy I 've had sex 3 times but I'm still a virgin!
Q. Can people tell if your inexperienced sexually? i have done things once! but im still a virgin! i told this lad im seeing iv slept with 3 people!! and i havnt lol!:S but i told him as I've only had sex 3 times it still kinda hurts! Help please ...
A. 27 October 2006: i think you should tell him the truth! Because no relationships can be built on lies, you always get found out in the end. Tell him how you were scared he would run a mile if he knew you were a virgin but you only lied because you really like him ... (read in full...)
Hand-job timings?
Q. How long should a girl keep going for before stopping when giving her boyfriend a hand job?...
A. 27 October 2006: well it depends. You should keep going after he comes, because it makes it more pleasurable for the bloke. But dont keep going obviously for an hour or anything crazy!! You dont want to kill the poor guy!! Just keep going a little while after hes ... (read in full...)
One guy treats me badly but I like him..the other guy is nice but I don't like him. Who do I choose?
Q. Which is the best way to find a proper bloke? do you think it's better to go out with a boy who likes you but you don't have a crush on or with a guy who doesn't treat you properly? Is it better to wait fot Mr Right, do not try and stay home sle...
A. 27 October 2006: simple. neither. If you don't like the nice one then it would be mean going out with him if you don't have the same feelings, he wont want your pity. And the mean guy! well if he doesn't even treat you right then theres no future there. Just ... (read in full...)
My friend is having a tough time getting over an ex! How can I help her?
Q. What advice can i give my friend about getting over her ex?...
A. 27 October 2006: you cant nessicerily say anything to make her feel better but just being there for her will help her loads. Don't bother saying any of those sayings like 'plenty more fish in the sea' because if shes just got out of a relationship then it's a rather ... (read in full...)
He treats me like crap! What should I do/
Q. My boyf is changing..its been 3yrs...and jus bcuz ive been there wid him thru thick n thin, he thinks its ok to treat me like crap. he yells at me.. dusnt matter where we are...he makes me feel low..and wat drivez me crazy is that at one point i was ...
A. 27 October 2006: sometimes when you love someone you forget all the bad things about them, even though they make out weigh the good. If he's not treating you right then theres certainly no secure future there. You should be with someone who makes you happy and feel ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that I like him?
Q. Okay so there's this guy that i like and i'm pretty sure that he likes me, but i'm not possitive. If i go somewhere then he tends to go there too, and he sits by me and stuff. But when i leave him comments on myspace he doesn't comment back. then ...
A. 27 October 2006: i think you are reading to much into the comments, but if he doesnt reply back then maybe you should ease off. well if you like him and you think he might like you then go for it girl! Don't hold back, maybe you could ask him if he wanted to go to ... (read in full...)
When does a women ovulate on the pill ?
Q. I know it seems like a silly question (makes me seem young). But I'm seriously not very experienced... So, when does a woman ovulate? If I'm on the pill, how does that work?...
A. 19 September 2006: it doesnt work! lol being on the pill is a form of cantraception and you don't ovulate :) hope i helped !! xx... (read in full...)
I have dreams he is cheating...
Q. Hi I know this is going to sound strange but it is really bugging me. I have an amazing boyfriend and we love and trust eachother very much, but I keep having dreams that he cheats on me. I know he isnt as we are always together and I know I am the ...
A. 12 September 2006: dreams can sometimes be percieved in different ways, you're probably not dreming about him cheating on you because he is going to cheat on you. Everyone gets worried from time to time about partners cheating, but if you spent tho whole relationship ... (read in full...)
10 ways not to call him...
Q. what were your ten ways to not call or text him when you Know he would listen to you ...
A. 3 September 2006: 1 do something arty and productive - you dont want to waste time and it would be good to have something productive out of this! 2 eat - always a good favourite of mine :D 3 write a letter to an old friend and catch up 4 read your favourite book... (read in full...)
I kissed a guy just after he argued with his wife...was I wrong to do that?
Q. i kissed a married guy with kids and enjoyed it, it was after he had an argument with his wife outside the pub, and she punched him in the face. He told me he was gonna leave her and we kissed i would have done more but my friend pulled me away, i ...
A. 31 August 2006: everythings wrong with that. My father had an affair so i know what its like to be on the recieving end of it, think about this guys children if you were to persue this 'relationship'. Years on, you would be out of the picture and their memories so ... (read in full...)
Is there different ways for a termination of a pregnancy?
Q. I am worried I might be pregnant. I do not want to go to clinic for an abortion. is there an alternate way of termination?...
A. 30 August 2006: its probably too late for the morning after pill so if you dont want it then sorry you'll have to have an abortion, hope it turns out okay sweetie :) xXx just b more careful next time!... (read in full...)
Any Sheffielders? Say "hi"
Q. Just curious if anyone else is from Sheffield, England? xx...
A. 29 August 2006: north devon! soz!! ... (read in full...)
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