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female
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anonymous
writes:My bf finished things about 6 months ago, it had been a long distance relationship for 2 years. He really didn't give me a proper reason for the split and he did it by text. Anyway there have been times where I felt upset and on one occassion I phoned him to tell him that I had been madly in love with him and that I had no regrets about the time we spent together and hoped that it had been special for him too. He was fine with that and said that he would get in touch and that we could stay friends. Maybe part of me was wishing we could get back together but I knew it was a long shot because of his emotional distance.Left it another month, wrote him a letter, just a hi how are you,telling him what I'd been up to and that I was feeling better about the split and getting on with things etc etc. Well out of the blue this guy friend of his phoned me, I've only ever met him once. Was sort of cagey and initially thought I was some other girl. What bugs me is he could've only got my number from my ex. Anyway I asked about my ex, he said he hadn't seen him in a while but would be meeting him next weekend. I just said to send him my regards.So why all the cloak and dagger, what's going on,why couldn't my ex just phone me? It's really freaking me out.
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reader, becka4dale  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 hey huni think your ex is being an idiot with you hunive been through this too aswell so you are noton your own if lads see you spill your emotionstoo much they will tend to take advantage, whatyou need to do is move on and find yourself someonecloser to home who will love you for youhope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): Hi love
this all sounds to confusing to say the least, what a strange phone call did he say what he wanted? next time you speak to your ex just mention the phone call, and see how he reacts love, its all abit strange. if he phones again i wouldnt talk with him as he said he hadnt seen your ex in awhile when and how did he get your number. I hope your ex isnt playing games with you darling just take care and dont take any crap... LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): hmmm...wat i think here tht ur bf is just trying 2 see how much loyal u r 2 him..may be he hav some doubts that u hav being insincere u know very well how man say be so possesive some times..so i think tht he just check that how u react 2 other boy's call regards ANGEL
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reader, Brandi  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 I think that you should see what is going on. good luck
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