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Dating problems, help, will she change her mind?
Q. Hi, I was a tuition and this girl came in. She caught my eye and ever since I've been interested in her but never dared to tell her. Its been about 2 months and then one day we had a conversation and she gave me her no. w/o me asking for it. I...
A. 8 July 2008: Personally i would ask her if she likes you, simply because she tells you she just wants to be friends with you but yet she wants to sit next to you and she looks at you. Ask her why she wants to sit next to you but then wants to just be friends ... (read in full...)
Could the pain caused by his ex be the reason he treats me this way??
Q. Things my boyfriend of 2 years does:calls daily more than once. Comes over 3 or 4 times a week at night after work to watch TV. We go to the movies and out to eat at nice resturants Saturdays and Sundays. We sometimes buy things for each other for ...
A. 2 February 2008: He could simply be acting this way because of insecurity, this guy could be insecure ands there could be a chance he is scared of getting hurt again hun. Try sitting him down and talk to him about this and try asking him why he is acting this way ... (read in full...)
How can I find out about contaceptive pills?
Q. Hi, as i m physically active. I want to know the intructions of taking oral contraceptive pills for protection. I have usually heard that u should start taking the pill after 5 days of ur periods but since i have not got my periods yet wanted to ...
A. 10 December 2007: Just letting you know you can always talk to your local GP about the contraceptive pill, they can give you any information about contraceptives. Hope my advice helps hun. If you want any more advice just ask.... (read in full...)
Am I over-thinking things?
Q. Hello. This isn't much of a big problem, but I wondered if you could tell me what you think. I haven't spoken to my ex-girlfriend for about a month now, after she split up with me this summer. Tonight I went on Myspace and posted a bulletin talki...
A. 19 November 2007: You need to stop telling every little detail, i used to be like this myself always worrying what people thought and worrying if what you said has been taken the wrong and they think something else, correct me if i'm wrong bbz. I just Used to say ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I'm insecure?
Q. I understand communication is the key to any relationship. If I want to tell my boyfriend I'm insecure with out relationship, what is the best way to tell him. Letter? Email? Phone? MSN? In person?...
A. 19 November 2007: It would be good to try and do it in person but do it the way it is easier for you to do it hun, not everyone finds it easy to talk to someone in person hun, if you wana talk just mail me hun xxx... (read in full...)
What do you say to start up a conversation?
Q. Hi, I am 22 and ive never had any luck with girls but i want to change this as i am fed up of being single. i am going clubbing on my birthday and want to chat some girls up but i have absolutely no idea where to start. for example you see...
A. 19 November 2007: just smile and just say let me buy you a drink, just be yourself and confident but not too confident. Don't be nervous you will meet a lovely girl one day bbz, there is someone out there for everyone, you are still young and free.... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin at 39, but how do I tell anyone that?
Q. Growing up shy, I have never been a girl magnet. I generally fall into the "Nice Guy" category. I have been in a few relationships in my life, but nothing serious. I am uncomfortable making small talk, I am bald and wear glasses, so needless to say ...
A. 19 November 2007: believe me woman go for personality rather than looks bbz, i no i do. you will meet a nice woman one day when you least expect it, just be confident about yourself but not too confident though. there is someone out there for everyone hun. if u need ... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin at 39, but how do I tell anyone that?
Q. Growing up shy, I have never been a girl magnet. I generally fall into the "Nice Guy" category. I have been in a few relationships in my life, but nothing serious. I am uncomfortable making small talk, I am bald and wear glasses, so needless to say ...
A. 19 November 2007: babes don't worry, one day you will meet a girl that will appreciate that you are still a virgin this sends out that you are a very decent guy and that you don't meet a girl and just want to jump into bed with her. You will meet a special girl one ... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin at 39, but how do I tell anyone that?
Q. Growing up shy, I have never been a girl magnet. I generally fall into the "Nice Guy" category. I have been in a few relationships in my life, but nothing serious. I am uncomfortable making small talk, I am bald and wear glasses, so needless to say ...
A. 19 November 2007: babes don't worry, one day you will meet a girl that will appreciate that you are still a virgin this sends out that you are a very decent guy and that you don't meet a girl and just want to jump into bed with her. You will meet a special girl one ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to like giving blow jobs and how can I develop a healthy libido again?
Q. I am 18 and I have been married for a little more than a year. We have a baby boy who is almost one years old. I got pregnant the first time I had sex and I think that maybe that really damaged my libido. It's really hard for me to get in the ...
A. 22 August 2007: Babe, you can't learn to like giving blow jobs ok. You should not have to feel bad cos at the end of the day your husband should respect that u don't want to give him blow jobs hun. Don't do it jus cos your husband wants u to ok, always remember you ... (read in full...)
I visit prostitutes about once a week and it taking it's toll on me! Any advice?
Q. Hi! I´m a 27 years old guy who has a problem with prostitutes. I have not girlfriend for long time and everytime i feel the need of have sex i go to see prostitutes or i even call them to visit me to my house. I usually have sex with a prost...
A. 25 June 2007: Hiya love. You shouldn't be having sex with prostitutes ok, you should be having sex with someone very special.Try spending your money on going out and meeting girls instead of spending money on prostitutes.That way you can meet someone special and ... (read in full...)
Will my crush on my teacher ever go away?
Q. I've posted on here sveral times bout this teacher hu i really fancy! I've been browsin the site and hav been looking into other ppl's posts with a similar problem as me. Anywayz, alot of the the advice seys dat it will pass over in time! I've been ...
A. 25 June 2007: Yes. eventually you will realise this is jus one of those highschool crushes teenagers have but it's very likely that soon you will stop fancying your teacher.... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if your hymen is broken without sex?
Q. If your hymen is broken some way other than sex, does it mean you're no longer a virgin? Does the term virgin mean only someone who's not had intercourse?...
A. 22 June 2007: Hih hun, if you haven't had sexual intercourse then you are still a virgin.... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if your hymen is broken without sex?
Q. If your hymen is broken some way other than sex, does it mean you're no longer a virgin? Does the term virgin mean only someone who's not had intercourse?...
A. 22 June 2007: Hi hunni, if you haven't had sexual intercourse then you are still a virgin.... (read in full...)
He used to be so controlling, now I think I'm becoming the same way
Q. Boyfriend is going clubbing....i'm stuck at home. I was wondering if someone could give me some advice please. I have been with my bf for about 7 months. He use to be quite controlling and wouldn't let me speak to my mates let alone see them, ...
A. 22 June 2007: hey hunni, just remember you also have the right to go out and have a laugh just as much as he does. ok love!... (read in full...)
He used to be so controlling, now I think I'm becoming the same way
Q. Boyfriend is going clubbing....i'm stuck at home. I was wondering if someone could give me some advice please. I have been with my bf for about 7 months. He use to be quite controlling and wouldn't let me speak to my mates let alone see them, ...
A. 22 June 2007: Hi hunni, next time he goes out just ring a friend and go out yourself. A relationship shouldn't be like this at all babe, both of you should be able to go out not just one of you.At the moment this is a one way relationship but it should be a two ... (read in full...)
I felt like shit because mum and dad were going through rough times so I dumped my girlfriend, I was so depressed, now I want her back as I made a big mistake.
Q. Hi i really really really really need some help well basicly what the story is is that me and my ex girlfriend were going out and everything was fine we both loved each other so much Then my mum and dad started to go through rough times and i fe...
A. 17 June 2007: She obviously doesn't want to be your girlfriend right now babe, i'm so sorry to hear that. It might be a good idea to try to move on though.... (read in full...)
Gf dumped me because of a drunken kiss with another girl! How can I get her back?
Q. first of all I have been with my girlfriend nearly 5 years. I was out on saturday night and got really really drunk, I ended up kissing another girl which my girlfriend seen. this is totally out of character for me and it has been 2 days since it ...
A. 17 June 2007: Hi. try to give her space cos she will need time to think things through and just be sensitive towards her, also let her know that you understand how much you've hurt her.All you can do realy is give her sometime babe. Take this advice into ... (read in full...)
Partner wants me to move out. I need more money before I do but he's very persistant. What can I do?
Q. partner today has asked me to move out, he is buying me out as i am on the title deeds. He has told me he has slept with another woman (that makes the total 2 in 6 months) so why would i want to stay in the house with him/ I can't stand him anymor...
A. 17 June 2007: Look hunni if you then tell him because there is no way he can physically make you move out hun,this guy is upsetting you emotionally and by the sounds he is going to make you move out emotionally, he is causing you to move out by attacking your ... (read in full...)
The father of my baby tells me I do everything wrong when dealing with her when he's the one not feeding, playing or bathing her!
Q. do i break up with my partner of 3 years and the father to my 6 mth old daughter? b4 the baby was born things were tough he alwsys seems to manage to put me down. Call me stupid and a liar (i am defo not a liar but maybe stupid sometimes, but n...
A. 17 June 2007: To be quite honest hunni you can seriously do without this guy in your life. He shouldn't be going to the pub every night, he should be sat at home with his partner and taking as much responsibility for your baby like you do. When your in a ... (read in full...)
27 and about to get married but I've fallen for a 40 year old woman! What can I do?
Q. Hep, I am 27 years old I am about to get married but six months ago I started a new job, I love my job but have fallen for a 40 year old married woman who has two daughters 20 and 21 years old,she is so caring and looks great for her age, she care...
A. 16 June 2007: Well babe this may sound harsh but do you want your lover or your girlfriend? It is not fair to be with both of them ok so the best thing to do is to think about who you really love. Have you fallen for this woman because she is fun, caring, is ... (read in full...)
She lied to me about her abortion, and admitted to sleeping with another guy. But she wants me to marry her next week!
Q. I have been dating a girl for 2 years and living together with her for 1 year. We were engaged and things were going good for a while. Well she got pregnant about 6 months ago and told me she had a miscarrage. She later tells me she had an ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hey bbz if you can move on and put the past behind you then go for it and also you need to be able to trust her again. if you can't move on or put the past behind you the and if you can't trust her then there is no point in the relationship. Trust ... (read in full...)
He likes me but his ex is one of my mates! I like him too but he's concerned about the ex. What can I do?
Q. hi, Two days ago this guy i really like told me on msn that he liked me but i didn't get the chance to tell him i liked him back. i didn't tell him because after telling me he liked me he said that nothing could happen because his exgirlfr...
A. 16 June 2007: He may not already know that you like him. This guy had the courage to tell you on msn that he liked you so you could always tell him that you like him as well, Just tell him the next time your on msn, that way if you get embarassed he won't be able ... (read in full...)
I panic and freeze whenever my husband wants sex! What can I do?
Q. my husband and i split up last year for four months, i found the sexual part of the relationship difficult. we got back together, i thought it might be ok, i bleed each time we have intercourse and get pains, now my body goes into a panic at the ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hey hunni you're not the only one who experiences sexual problems. You could always go to your local GP about the bleeding and pains during intercourse that might help with the panicking when it comes to sex and if it doesn't then wait til you feel ... (read in full...)
We're both stubborn and we argue a lot! Any advice?
Q. Not sure where to start. Basically I have been with my partner 2 years, hes been living with me and my 5 yr old son 8 months. But we never stop rowing, we love each other, and sometimes things are brill but when theyre bad, theyre bad! we are both...
A. 16 June 2007: phone him and meet for a chat. You need to make him aware of this problem and that you do love him. Decide whether you should be together or should you call it a day babe. If you decide to call it a day then remember that you will move on and meet ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my children, their beloved Grandmother is dying? Any advice?
Q. Hi can someone please help. i have just found out that my childrens grandma is dying my middle daughter loves her so much how do i tell her she will be leaving us. their grandma is not very old and my children are 10 7 5 and 2 how do i handle the ...
A. 16 June 2007: hey hunni this is one of the hardest things to do. I lost someone when i was 14 and it was really hard but everyone deals with things differently, they will be really upset but you need to sit them and tell the younger ones that grandma is going to ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant by putting it in and pulling it out once??
Q. Can you get pregnant by putting it in and pulling it out once....
A. 8 June 2007: Yes you can there is a chance but highly unlikely, but u should go to ur local GP to get the emergency contraceptive to avoid pregnancy babe but next time use contraception next time hunny.... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my 30 year old teacher! I can't go on like this--what should I do?
Q. I'm so desperate to end this misery! Firstly, it was a crush... then it got a lil stronger and now it's just got out of control - I'm mad about him!!! He's 30, i'm 15 - big age difference! you see, he's a teacher at my school! Sometimes i cry ...
A. 8 June 2007: Look love nothing is ever going to happen between you and your teacher, this is nothing but a highschool crush. He won't risk losing his job for a school girl. Get over him and move on babe, you will find someone who has such a crush on you.... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant by putting it in and pulling it out once??
Q. Can you get pregnant by putting it in and pulling it out once....
A. 8 June 2007: Yes you can hunny, you can just take the emergency contraceptive pill to avoid pregnacy just in case he ejaculated babe... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship over the summer! I'm so upset--what should I do?
Q. hey there people,im in a bit of a dilemma :0( iv met what i thought was the perfect guy at uni. He has a lways been with lots of girls but always liked me apparantly. Normally when he goes out, he kisses loads of girls but al hisf friends say that ...
A. 8 June 2007: Hey babe if this liked you as much as he is supoosed to then he would still want to be with during the summer babe. You can do better than this guy, i promise you will meet a guy who wants to actually be with you in the summer. You need this guy in ... (read in full...)
How do I get a really smoooooooth shave in my genital area?
Q. Im 16 When i shave my vagina it leaves red dots and when i run my hand over my vagina it feels like i havent shaved, its all prickly and hurts.. how can i make it feel and look like there's no hairs there. Also do guys get turned off by a little bit ...
A. 8 June 2007: Hey hun you could try using shaving cream instead of just shaving babe then it will be a lot smoother... (read in full...)
I'm 16, he's 23 - he wants to sleep w/ me, but he lives with a girl! I feel guilty! Can I really go through with this?
Q. Im 16 years old and i've been in numerous relationships in the past year buti've never had sex. now this guy's come into my life, i've known him about nine months and thought he was a jerk up until about three months ago when we got to know each ...
A. 8 June 2007: personally i think you shouldn't do it because if you did n this other girl found out, if she is his gf then it could break their relationship up n do you wanna be held responsible for that. I don't think you do. Remember it would be your virginity ... (read in full...)
Does this all sound like hes too good for me ?
Q. ok i told my bf that he wuz too good for me cuz he wud do anything to make me happy he said that if it wud make me happy he wud let me cheat on him and he wud try not to say anything about it, he treats me so much better then i treat him but i don't ...
A. 8 June 2007: Look hun people have different opinions cos at the end of the day if he died he would want you to find someone else eventually and not kill yourself and if you died it would be the same.You don't even need to talk about death ok so get on with your ... (read in full...)
Should I risk it to become more than mates ?
Q. I'm desperately in love with a girl and can't get her out of my mind! We've been great freinds for 3 years and I dont think she knows how much i like her! should i risk it and try and become more then mates? How can I do this?...
A. 8 June 2007: Well you could start of by sitting her down and telling her that you like her, you could also tell her that you would like to date her but if she doesn't feel the same then you don't want it to effect your friendship with her.... (read in full...)
How would I ever know if he is lying to me? I really want to trust him, but with everything that has happened to me, I'm just not sure how to trust guys anymore.
Q. Hi. I really need to talk to someone, but I can't see a counselor or a psychologist right now, so please help me. I'll give you my story, sorry it's so long. It all started last summer, when I was seventeen. I met this great guy and went out with ...
A. 8 June 2007: This guy that you are dating needs to unerstand that after everything that has happened you feel insecure and find it hard to trust anyone.After what you have been through it is very understandable hun, you should try to tell him how you feel and ... (read in full...)
Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?
Q. Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...
A. 8 June 2007: Hey hunny this is simple if he can hit you once what is going to stop him hitting you again and then again. Babe get out of this relationship now before it gets worse.If this guy loved you he wouldn't want to hurt you in any way.... (read in full...)
He wants sex but I'm having 2nd thoughts. What should I do?
Q. I am 15. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. We have done pretty much everything, except sex. He wants me to, and I think I do too but Im still not positive and Im having second thoughts. I keep thinking of things that can happen, like ...
A. 7 June 2007: If you're not ready then don't do it and remember you are also too young, it is against the law to have sex under 16. Don't do it just because your boyfriend is ready, you both have to be sure that your ready. It's a big step in a relationship.... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex and he 'came' inside me! Will I get pregnant?
Q. Ok I am 14 years old and i had unprotected sex with a guy that i been with for 9 months, he told me he came in me, i dont know if i might be pregnent but this happened like a week ago, will i be pregnent???...
A. 7 June 2007: Hiya hun there is a chance but you dont always get pregnant straight away just buy a pregnancy test or go to your local GP and they will do one for free ok bbz... (read in full...)
I care so much for her! How do I ask her to choose either him or I?
Q. i would like to explain this from the begining if i may. i was in, and still am in the military. i meet a lady a few years back. we started out just talking to one and other pretty often. and to be honest i have no idea when it went to us being ...
A. 7 June 2007: You should just give her the ultimatum, if she wants to be with you so much then she will choose you. You have the right to know, because she is giving you mixed signals at the moment. Just ask her!... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend, but don't want to say anything in case it negatively impacts our friendship!
Q. i am in love with my bestfriend what should i do ?? well its been more then a year i know this girl she is my bestfriend now and i feel that i am in love with this girl the problem is that i just cant tell her that i love her because i dont w...
A. 7 June 2007: You should tell her, you will never find out if his girl likes you if you don't talk to her. You could just tell her you need to tell her something but you've been unsure about telling her because if she doesn't feel the same then it may effect your ... (read in full...)
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