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writes:Apologies for the extremely long post but I want to get this out the way... it's been worrying me for 4 weeks now.I'm 21 years old, my boyfriend's 23.Recently he's been complaining our sex life's not good enough, even though I think it's good.He's been going on and on about wanting a penis enlargement, saying "My d**k is too small! Time to have the enlargement op...". He claims there are multiple benefits to having it, including a better sex life, no more jokes about him having a small penis, and a better sex drive. He said people had teased him about his penis size a lot, and felt it would get them to stop teasing him.I heard that penis enlargement had negative side effects, so me and him looked it up on the Internet but couldn't find anything - only a mass of adverts. My boyfriend's face was like a kid in a candy store seeing all the adverts!!Now he wants to book the operation, but I'm not so sure about it.Doesn't a penis enlargement have negative consequences?? What are the consequences, if there are any?? Should I use shock tactics to try and convince him this is a bad idea, and also, anyone know of any online material that lists the negative consequences of it??he's still insisting he should have the op... and refuses to have sex with me until he does! it makes me feel unloved and unwanted but he insists he loves me and said if i love him, i should wait until he's had his penis enlargement to have sex with him again.i've only heard negative things about penis enlargement... does anyone have any experiences/stories relating to this they can mention so i can give my boyfriend a more balanced viewpoint?? he's just believing what he's read on the internet regarding the adverts for penis enlargement, but i'm now getting worried...i've suggested counselling, but he said it wasn't necessary... (was it a good idea to suggest it?)all advice is welcomed, i'd really appreciate your help!allison
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reader, StevenAnderson  +, writes (28 December 2010):
There are lots of consequences to having a surgery. The more serious ones include loss of erection or even adverse effects when the penis actually becomes smaller. There are pills and stuff out there but I've tried some of them and for me it just cause problems. Increased blood flow to the penis and what not. I found the best alternative to be exercising the penis. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. Sexcrashcourse.com offers a lot of tips and free advice and stuff on that site so you can try checking that out. Penis enlargement can be safe if done naturally and with care. It will take a while to work but the gains are permenant.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (28 June 2007):
Your bf is only going to spend $$$$ on a penis enlargement that is uncalled for. And here is why. If he will take the time to study the female vagina. And get acquainted with a woman's Clitoris, where it's located and it's role in your orgasms. He will find that all that hype about bigger is better is a bunch of BULL S..T. Here's a quicky in Sex 101. The female's clitoris is at the upper junction of the MINOR-LABIA, Her innermost vaginal lips. And it is well within reach of any size penis. The clitoris needs to have,for most women, direct stimulation if her orgasm is to occur. With the penis inserted into the vaginal opening no matter what it's size. It is only indirectly stroking her clitoris. And my Sex-Bible says: " Only one woman out of three can have an orgasm with Penile-Vaginal-Stroking". So if your gf isn't having orgasms, you'll need to learn how to use your hands,fingers,or tongue, oral-sex.They are great because they won't let you down, No erection failure,when it comes to them. Hope this has been helpful for you both. Do enjoy your Sexuality, but DO get some good books to read. OK.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (27 June 2007):
 http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,185156,00.html
Hi just found this site which lists different view points after studies into penile enlargement, give it a look and show it to your partner and see what he thinks.
Hope it is of some use.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Brandi  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 well i think that he wants thwe enlargement because he feels like he is not pleaseing you during sex talk to him
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