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writes:So... i met this guy on myspace a few weeks ago and he then added me on MSN and we spoke at least 4-5 hours a day on it to get to know each other. Ive seen him on webcam and got his number so i know he's real. I'm 14 and he's 15 and we both live pretty close to each other.He had a girlfriend until sunday when he told me he was only with her for the sake of being with her, and he prefers asian girls [im asian].We've still been talking and ive developed feelings for him, hes so kind and adorable, just how every guy should be but i dunno if this comes as a problem but im a little chubby well chubbier than his ex and im not sure but maybe 15yr old guys nowadays want to go for skinnier girls. You can't tell im big through my pictures as i have a skinny face.I told my friend to add him on MSN and tell him that i like him to see his response and to see if he liked me back. She asked him but he didnt give a full response he said "i just got out of a relationship" and he also told her hes gonna act weird with me online but he hasnt been acting weird at all. He talks to me alot more and is pretty flirty.Is this guy really into me? or is he just stringing me along. I'm not sure.Any help would be very much appreciated. Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): Sorry, If a guy likes you because your azn its just a lil wrong and being chubby is nothing...If he does'nt like you because you are then he's not the guy for you...
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reader, Yos  +, writes (2 July 2007):
 From what you've said I don't think anyone here can tell you the answer to your question. Right now you just don't know whether he is for real or not. The only thing you can do is go into this with your eyes open.
MSN is fun and flirty, but it is really NO way to tell anything about someone in a meaningful way. The only way is to meet them IRL and see how you get on. You're going to have to meet this guy face to face and see how it is. It's the only way to really tell.
Maybe you can't meet. In that case, just have fun flirting and don't think it means anything more than that. It's totally Ok to flirt with guys online, but don't mistake that for a real relationship. A real relationship means spending time together in person and showing intimacy and affection for each other.
So have fun, but be careful and look after yourself. And remember that most 15 year old guys are pretty clueless when it comes to relationships ;)
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reader, Brandi  +, writes (2 July 2007):
 I think that you should be careful. Because he could be faking and then again he could be truthful so be VERY careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): I'm sure you're just being paranoid about the whole chubby thing. I meet people off myspace quite alot, and I'm ALWAYS scared that they'll think i'm fat, as my pictures make me look quite thin. But they never think that. It's always just in my head. I'm sure its in yours too.I think that you should arange to meet him.Imagine if you kept on talking to him, and your feelings developed, so you met him and things just didn't click between you. You'd be so hurt. So I think it's better to find out if there is any chemistry, face to face.Good luck lovely x
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