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writes:dear cupid,I know I just asked you a question about me and my bestfriend but I have another question 4 you.. If I do end up forgiving her if she wants to be my best friend again it will take me ages to trust her again IF I even can and I don't know if there's a point in us being friends again if I can't trust her? I might just take some time or it might never be the same again .. I don't know.. What should I do?? And is there any ways I could learn to trust her again, it's not only trust, I feel like I won't be able to be myself around her either like I'll have to be something I'm not, always smiling and laughing even if I'm not in the mood cause that's what she says she loves about her other friends and she thinks I'm moany all the time even though I'm not all the time .. please help lv unknown xxxx
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reader, Brandi  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 I agree with yummy mummy. do you want to be friends and plus trust really does not happen over night you both have to want to be friends and trust each other for it to work.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 I think all friendships go through a rough patch at some point or another, because especially with best friends you feel as though you can say whatever you like to them and thats the way it should be, if you are true friends it is worth saving the friendship you will work things out eventually and in years to come look back on this and laugh about it.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Do you want her to be your friend? Answer that question first before worrying about the trust.
Trust doesn't happen overnight and it will be hard work for her to gain your trust again. But it can be done. You both have to want to work on the friendship or it won't be worth the effort!
It's going to be hard to begin with. So take things slow. Don't see each other all the time. Don't queston everything she does, only if you think she's doing something deceiving again.
xxxxxx
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