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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 I would ask the hairdresser if that style will suit you. If they say no then it might be time for a rethink. I wanted y hair cut short and my sister who has just qualified as a hair dresser said it wouldn't suit me either. I now have my hair in a shoulder length style with loads of layers.
I wouldn't go behind your mum's back and get it cut short. Try sitting down with her and explaining you are going to talk to the hair dresser about if the short style will suit you and if you get it done and it is too short it will always grow out again. Explain you want to try something different.
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reader, x_goddess_x +, writes (4 August 2007):
 well at the end of the day it ur hair and body so it u hu will have the rgrets if it dnt look good besides hair grows back so it will opnly be for a short time so i say do it watever way you think it will look good
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Well babes,
Your mum sees you as her little girl and I can't say I blame her for that because kids grow up so fast now a days, why don't you sit down with your mum tell her you understand her fears incase it goes wrong but would love her to help you find the right hairdressers so it can be done properly....
Tell your mum you understand that she would love your hair to be long but you would like to try something differnet and you are growing up a bit now and would like to have your own mind and hey if its not what you want when its done it wont take long to grow agin would it.....
Try not to be hard on ya mum babes she loves you and doesn't want it to go wrong, and your her little girl now matter how old you get....
Good luck babes,
Love
Donna xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): hello dear, mamy is always trying to the best for their child. your mom always want the best for you. but sometimes you have to talk to your mom' that sometimes you need also to try and to experience like the other friends of yours' so at least you wont miss it when you get old. its not bad sometimes to follow what you want and the new style of hair as long its not bad.. gud luck.. XXX... gladyz here
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (4 August 2007):
 It is normal to be developing your own tastes in hair and fashion at your age. My advice is to ask around to find someone who does a really good job with those designer short cuts as you don't want to end up sheep sheered do you? I am sure there in more than 1 hairdresser where you are. You should get a consultation from them to ask their opinion on your hair. On this website you can upload a photo of yourself and play around with different hairstyles free of charge:
http://www.ukhairdressers.com/hair_move/index.asp
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reader, -Zizu- Second Acc  +, writes (4 August 2007):
Hey dont go to the extremes of be because you will end up depressd :'( there are alot of website were u cna uplaod a photo of urself and change ur hair vitrual to so what i looks like zoe x
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reader, kenny +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Your Mum is just giving you her opinion, as in she thinks this short hair cut won't suit you. I don't think she is saying no to you getting it done, you have probably been growing your hair for years and she dosen't want you to do something you will regret if you don't like it.
At the end of the day if you diden't like it hair always grows back anyway.
All the best x
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (4 August 2007):
 if i were you ide have some cut off like 3 inches taken off she how you like that and if you do then next time get a little more off you can always take off but not back on again, and just say look mum i no you care and have an opinion but its really what i want and if you dont trust the hair dresser we will go to another one hope this helps xx A
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