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female
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36-40,
*exiestgirlalive18
writes:I have a problem. I have anger and I just have problems. The guy I am with we plan on getting married in december of 2007 and his family is so much in our bussiness it is messing our relationship up. Every little thing his family does p*****g me off more and more. They even know how much our bills are. But everytime I get mad I take it out on him. I dont know how to stop that. I have really bad anger. When I get mad I throw stuff. I am afraid of losing him. I cant really talk to him I have tried but I just cant. I just dont know what to do. How do I get over my anger and how can I talk to him more and how can I get his family out of our business and life? It kills me more and more inside cause I can see that I am driving him away and I dont want that his family is ruining our relationship and he just really dont see it. Someone Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Ah babes you poor thing,
I think your getting frustrated because he will not admitt to his family interfering with your lives, you will be marrying him soon my sweet so you really really need to able to sit down and sort this out before its too late...
He has to realise your marrying him and not his family and you need his support here don't you babes......
It is a very stressful time planning for a wedding people just don't realise how stressful it can be, you need to find ways to unwind and chill out a bit other wise your just going to keep exploding and this isn't good for you nor him babes....
I do hope this has helped you in some way and I wish you all the luck in the world with this...
Have a great day in December and chill out on your honeymoon sweet
Love Donna xx
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