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female
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41-50,
*likenight
writes:I have been thinking a lot lately about my boyfriend cheating on me, although he hasn't. I don't know why, if it's from reading the ?'s on this site all the time, and I just found out that my friend's boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend while she was sleeping in the other room. He is supposivly such a nice guy. My boyfriend is a really nice guy too. But I want to know, are there men out there who refuse to cheat, even if given the opportunity? I am a stay at home mom, and I am pregnant with our 2nd baby. He works and supports us. I have told him abt. my worries and he says he would never do it, but come on, what else would he say? I just don't trust men and the fact that he supports me 100% I guess makes me feel insecure as well. I can't get a job b/c I wouldn't make enough $ to even make it worth putting the baby in day care, and we're going to have another one soon. Please don't comment on the fact that we're not married b/c I am aware that some ppl. find this a problem. However, he has asked me and when the time is right we will. My mom had 4 kids and has been divorced 3 times, so don't tell me marrige can save a relationship b/c I know it doesn't make things any easier. I guess I just want to know positive stories and advice from men especially on the subject of cheating. Thanks.
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reader, ilikenight +, writes (5 August 2007):
ilikenight is verified as being by the original poster of the question No, he actually only goes to work & comes home. He never goes out w/o me. But if he's at the dentist or smth. my mind starts to wander for no reason at all. I've never had a reason to think it. I guess it's just from hearing abt. others doing it, it makes me paranoid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): I've got two words for you, honey, female intuition. xx
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Hi there babes,
I know exactly how you feel, I felt like this many years agon when my girls were young, I was at home too....
I heard of so many men cheating on their partners that I began to think what makes my man so special not to do this to me????
We are still together my two daughters are now 20 and 21 yers old, so what I am trying to say is don't allow these things to play on your mind look at your partner give him a big hug, kiss everyday and tell him how lucky you both are to have one another....
A relationship is built on trust and you ahve to trust him with all your heart likewise he has to be the same.....
I wasn't married at first either however we are now, so hun don't allow other peoples stories play on your mind just count your lucky stars you have a good man in your life who loves and supports his family........
Hope this has helped you darling
All the best
Love Donna xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): be careful. Trust your gut. I felt the same for 7 years. Found out 2 days ago i was right!!!!!!
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