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writes:Hi, Please help me if you can, my partner of five years has just discovered that he has an 18 year old daughter from a one night stand! He did go out with the woman for three years at school previous to him marrying another woman who obviously he cheated on with his past love! We have not been getting on terribly well but I really do love him, but he is pushing me aside and saying he is not sure he loves me anymore! He went off for a few days last week but came back here as I always let him, I know I am silly, but I have no problem with him seeing his new daughter if that is the case but it is her mum I am worried about as she is now splitting with the man she is with, and my partner has stayed over there twice since meeting his new daughter! I am a worrier and always think the worst but he is not letting me get involved yet saying she wants to meet her immediate family first! Shall I give him space or give up although I will be really hurt and I also have a daughter who needs me, shall I wait or give up?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Hi there babes,
I understand your pain but if he needs his space then give it to him if he decides to go back to his ex then let him there is nothing you can do is there babes????
He would be a fool to think it would work again this is his past and he has only just found out that he has an 18 year old daughter......
You deserve some one who is going to love and cheerish you babes the way you give love so don't allow yourself to be hurt hun, I know its hard you think of yourself and your daughter right now, go out with some friends and keep busy sweet....
Hope this has helped you in some way and I really hope it all turns out okay for you hun I really do
Love Donna xx
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