A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Had been in a relationship for 5 years and was due to get married this year. 4 weeks before wedding he called it off. It's been 2 1/2 months since it happened and he announced last week someone asked him out. He is going out with her today. We still live together- need to sell house. Worried about him bringing her back t house when I'm not there. Please help.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (4 August 2007):
Hi there babes,
What a lucky escape you had, doesn't feel like it right now though babes, does it????
In time you will realise he did the best thing for the both of you it would have been much worse to have gone through the marriage had kids etc.... then to find out he would cheat!!!!!
You must be broken hearted right now, wished I could jump through this computer right now and give you a big hug and tell you everything will be okay, because it will honestly babes.......
Tell him please to respect the fact that this has hurt you and not to bring this girl back to the house whether you are there or not he has to respect your wishes here after all you were together a long time, he may not love you but please have some respect for you.....
Once the house is sold you can both move on start a fresh, you get strong my babes, you deserve a great guy one who will love, admire nd adore you and who will one dy ask you to marry him and you will walk the asle and you will be married, but this time was not mean't to be my sweet, you must have so many emotions to deal with at the moment so you have your you time right now and boy are you going to get strong.......
Sending loads of love your way
Love Donna xx
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