He can't move on after our one night stand. Help!
Q. Hello there, I wanted to ask help to solve this problem that i have. 4 years ago im working in a department store when i met this guy. At our first meeting he ask for my number. And because of my co-workers that are teasing me i don't have any ...
A. 23 May 2012: When you wrote "And because of my co-workers that are teasing me i don't have any choice but to gave my number." in your post it bothered me because you DID have a choice. Yes, you were pressured to give him your number but in the end the choice was ... (read in full...)
She cheated twice but I still love her, help!
Q. Hey guys, i need some advice. My girlfriend and i have been together for roughly 2 and half years. We live in the same home town but go to school 5 hours apart. We wanted to make the long distance relationship work. At the beginning of the year it ...
A. 23 May 2012: I wouldn't take her back. She cheated on you more then once and will continue to cheat if you stay with her.
Your best bet is to move on and find someone that you can trust.
It hurts but you will get over her. She clearly doesn't respect ... (read in full...)
He's basically said that when I leave in 3 months, our relationship is over. I'm heartbroken!
Q. I met a guy 7months ago whilst on a gap year. He's 8 years older than me and we live near each other back home (about 500km)... We started dating straight away and moved together after 3 months (hasty I know but as we're both here temporar...
A. 23 May 2012: I can understand why you are so upset-it would be heartbreaking for anyone.
However when you said "And so tonight he said he was going to travel some more... basically telling me our relationship is over - in 3 months." it caught my eye because ... (read in full...)
What type of porn would he like?
Q. my partner and I both enjoy watching porn but we don't do it together, I know what I like but would like to know what most men would like to watch. Due to him being a tight arse and refusing to get a new phone where he could view and download ...
A. 23 May 2012: Men have different likes/dislikes and the only way for you to know what he likes is to ask him. Unless he told you there is also a chance he is not that interested in "girl on girl".
Your best bet is to just ask him. :)
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How would you deal with finding out about a one night stand?
Q. Guys or Gals, please share your thoughts. What if you found out a year into your relationship that your girlfriend or boyfriend had a one night stand after being drunk at a bar with another guy/girl they barely knew only a few weeks before you both ...
A. 2 May 2012: Hello,
I wouldn't be happy about it and yes it would upset me but I would just have to put it behind me and forget about it.
She didn't cheat on you as you were not exclusive. She did nothing wrong and in my opinion it's not fair for you to ... (read in full...)
I've liked her for 3 years. Should I tell her of my feelings? Or back off?
Q. I like this girl in college..She was dating a guy for 4 years..I have known her for the last 3 years..Recently they broke up and she started dating another guy..Should i go and tell her my feelings or should i like a gentle man back off and let them ...
A. 2 May 2012: Hello,
I agree with maverick494. I would tell her now or move on and find someone else. Waiting around for her is only going to drive you insane.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend smokes weed and I don't know what to do...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for just over 2 years now. He lives 2 hours away from me and we have had a generally good long distance relationship. He smoked cigarettes and weed when we started to get close, I told him I wasn't ...
A. 2 May 2012: Hello, I'm glad you did your research! I'm not fond of it either and would not be able to be with someone who made a habit of smoking weed. If you really can't accept him smoking weed (I wouldn't be able to) then your best option is to move on an... (read in full...)
Would writting a letter to a guy you like be considered doing too much?
Q. Would writting a letter to a guy you like be considered doing too much? The guy I have liked is moving away and I want to give him a letter expressing my wishes for him, but I'm have some doubts about doing that. I was also thinking of including a ...
A. 2 May 2012: Hello,
It depends...are you close friends? Do you spend a lot of time together? It's hard to say if it would be too much. To be honest the best person to judge that is you. Go with what your gut feeling tells you.
If you are really unsure of... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my LDR b/f ever try to talk to me or cheer me up?
Q. i am in a long distance relationship with a man who isnt working and does his own business.but i call him everyday. sometimes i feell low and need him to uplift me or atleast chat to me when i call but i talk and he doesnt say much. sometimes i ...
A. 2 May 2012: Hello Alicia,
Long distance relationships are hard and you are clearly not happy. I would let this one go and find someone who is in your area. Your needs aren't being fulfilled and sometimes just because of the long distance you lack what you... (read in full...)
I've grown up but my boyfriend of 6.5 years hasn't!
Q. Hi I just wanted to get someones opinion about my relationship... I have being with my man for 6 and half year we got together when I was 15 and he was 20.. Since then I have grown up a lot and he doesn't seem to want to grow up.. In terms of jobs ...
A. 2 May 2012: Hello,
I'm sorry you are in this situation. There is little you can do except talk to him and explain to him what is going on and what will happen if he doesn't get off his butt and help you.
I know it's hard where you have children with hi... (read in full...)
Is it a common opinon when women are in a bar, that they are there to pick up men?
Q. Bars are only for picking up? I just wanted some opinions on this. We are a groupof women all ages from 29 to 46 who like to get together for some drinks and dancing. Ussualy its 4-5 of us getting together once a month. We pick a place,where they...
A. 2 May 2012: There is nothing wrong with going out with your friends to have fun as long as your partner doesn't have a problem and you act responsibly. Bars are not just for singles!
However it seems you and your friends are getting quite the attentio... (read in full...)
I lied in front of my friends and said I wasn't a virgin, but I am and I'm afraid they'll find out!
Q. i have a massive problem, that could screw me up and lose my best friends and the guy if i tell the truth!! I'm going out with this guy, we're getting closer and i can feel it's leading somewhere.. thing is i haven't had sex before, but i don't want ...
A. 2 May 2012: Hello,
I think you should just talk with them and tell them the truth. Ask them for advice and let them know that you are sorry you kept it from them. Honestly it's not that big of a deal and if they were good friends they would understa... (read in full...)
Do I give it a go with this older guy? Or just say no?
Q. Hi, So I dated a guy about 3 years back. I knew him through his brother. We started talking a lot on Facebook and there was a connection. He's older by 15 years which didn't bother me as we got along and we had fun. We dated for about a year. Fe...
A. 2 May 2012: I agree completely with YouWish.
1.Do u think he really feels something and is just scared?
No, I think he misses you but as YouWish said he only wants a part time relationship and doesn't want to commit to you. I think he is trying to lead you ... (read in full...)
Guys & kissing..likes and dislikes?
Q. Guys can you answer a few questions about kissing, do you like when girls use tongue or no tongue when they kiss you? Where do you like their hands to be, on your chest, arms, waist, back of your neck etc.? Also, do you like when a girl ...
A. 1 May 2012: I know I'm not a guy but in my opinion every guy is different and I'm sure each one has different likes and dislikes as far as kissing goes. My advice would be to gently kiss the guy and see if he takes the lead and follow what he does.
Good ... (read in full...)
How do I flirt with my ex to win him over?
Q. Now I have realised that I want to get back with my ex after two years, however I don't know how he feels about me, over the past few months we have been talking everyday over texts and we see each other regularly as we both swim for the same club, ...
A. 1 May 2012: Hello,
Why did you break up and why do you want to get back together with him? Sounds like a lot of effort on your part that won't make you that happy.
I would just move on and find someone where you don't have to struggle to keep the convers... (read in full...)
Can guys fall in love through casual sex or is it mostly women it happens to??
Q. I'd like to know people's views on this. When a guy and a girl have casual sex, can the guy develop strong feelings for the girl or do all guy see casual sex to be separate from emotions? Basically if a guy already likes you and you have s...
A. 1 May 2012: Hello,
In my experience most guys separate casual sex from emotions. There are always exceptions but they are rare. I wouldn't get your hopes up. Sometimes guys even lose respect for a lady if they have sex with them when they don't know them tha... (read in full...)
How should I interpret our relationship?
Q. Hi everyone I was just wondering what you people think of this I met a man 14 months ago we have slept together ever since we have agreed not to sleep with anyone else me or him which we are both happy with we see each other a couple of times ...
A. 1 May 2012: Hello,
It sounds to me like this is a friends with benefits situation as he clearly told you he wasn't interested in having a relationship. He probably added the "yet" to keep you coming back to him. However I could be wrong and maybe he changed ... (read in full...)
Did I have a chance with him?
Q. So I liked this guy that I have known for 11 years and have had a crush on him for a years. After I told him I liked him he started talking to me and flirting, We text every day and he's sweet but recently I confessed to him that I don't want him to ...
A. 1 May 2012: Hello Keilta,
It sounds like you probably did have a chance but due to him leaving in short time he doesn't want to get involved. Your best option is to enjoy your time with him and move on as in eight weeks you won't be able to see him.
Good... (read in full...)
My live-in BF has never once in the whole 2+years touched me in a sexual manner!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 3 months, in the beginning it was good, he would hold me and kiss me and say loving things to me, he moved in with me after three months and then things started changing. He became less affe...
A. 1 May 2012: Hello Justmeigues,
It sounds to me like you have a low self-esteem or you are really attached to this person who not only cheated on you but is not affectionate to you and does not fulfill YOUR needs.
You don't have any sexual issues and you a... (read in full...)
Are they real friends or are they telling me I don't belong in their group?
Q. i have these friends that i have known since university. Some of them have gotten married and some who are single. everytime they have problems in their relationships, hardships at work or they just need a friend i am always there. i answer the ...
A. 1 May 2012: Hello Alicia, My Mom had a friend that acted just the way you are describing your friends. Whenever that friend wanted or needed someone my Mom was always their for her. Even when it was inconvenient for my Mom. However when my Mom wanted or ne... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to date but wants to "hang out" should I?
Q. I was seeing this guy for almost two months. Everything was going great but he told me he wasnt ready for a relationship at the moment and wants to see other people but he still wants us to hang out. Should i continue to be friends with him or just ...
A. 2 March 2012: Hello,
It depends really. Do you want to be friends or do you want a relationship? If you want to be friends then go for it but I suggest being careful so you DON'T turn it into a friends with benefits situation. Don't cross the line if you are ... (read in full...)
Feelings of insecurity that b/f will leave me is causing trouble in our relationship
Q. i have been in a happy stable relationship for over half a year now and things are still okay despite the odd hiccup however im starting to become very insecure about losing him.. i constantly have thoughts that he will get bored of me and just lea...
A. 2 March 2012: Hello,
Worrying about it and taking it out on him is certainly not going to help but I'm sure you already know that.
My advice is to apologize for your recent behavior and explain why you have been acting so cold towards him. STOP taking it o... (read in full...)
I tell my b/f that I trust him but I really don't. He cheated!
Q. my bf cheated on me 6 months ago with his best girl mate who he promised me it nothing ever like that between them. he told me half an hour after it happened and said it happened for literally half a minute, when he realized what he was doing he ...
A. 2 March 2012: Hello,
What made you realize that you don't trust him? You said that you've been through a lot together...is everything Ok now in the relationship? Have you been fighting together a lot? Is his behavior making you uncomfortable and leading ... (read in full...)
How to tell your lover you want him as your boyfriend?
Q. Hello everybody, I have one question.I've been dating with someone for about a half year now. He's not my boyfriend, we see each other once a week or once on two weeks. We usually go to my or his house and we sleep together. Or we go just for a dr...
A. 3 January 2012: Actually, I find your English is very good. My advice is to meet up with him and tell him how you feel and that you want to take it to the next level. Then listen to what he has to say.
There are 2 ways this could turn out and before you meet up ... (read in full...)
Are we moving quickly and acting out of lonliness?
Q. I just met someone two weeks ago and things have moved quickly for us. This is NOT a pattern for me. But Ive been single for a bit (him too) so Im worried maybe we are both just acting out of lonliness? HOWEVER, I do feel VERY comfortable with him...
A. 3 January 2012: I think you have nothing to worry about. He clearly likes you and if you are comfortable then that's a good thing! I see no red flags that he is obsessive. I'm pretty sure there is nothing to worry about and my advice is to relax and have fun!
I... (read in full...)
I have been having a relationship (no sex) with a married man, because I was in need of money. I want to end this now, but how do I do it?
Q. What I am about to tell you is something that I have not admitted to ANYONE. I am so afraid of being judged.. I am about to pour my heart out, so please be honest but try not to be unkind. I met an older man. Let's call him Theo. I was att...
A. 2 January 2012: Honey,
You are be too hard on yourself. Life is hard and when your at the point of starving and selling your clothes then I applaud you for getting through!
You do not have sex with this men so carry no guilt. Though it concerns me that... (read in full...)
I don't just want to date my b/f I want to marry him and we keep fighting about it!
Q. Hi, I'm in a pickle! I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 33. He is Egyptian Muslim and I am British Muslim revert (but I don't wear hijab or anything). We've been together for 2.5 years. The last year has been horrific!! His mum and sisters apparent...
A. 1 January 2012: Hello A1sha, I'm sorry your going through this. I understand somewhat of what you are experiencing. I dated a Muslim (Arab) and it turned out to be a horrible experience for me. You claim you are a Muslim revert however you don't wear a ... (read in full...)
Is this how cheats normally behave?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend almost 5 years. She is 10 years younger than me. We go out,and without fail she chooses out a girl in the crowd and when we get home she has accused me of looking at her chosen girl all night or says we couldnt take ...
A. 6 December 2011: It is common for people who cheat to accuse their partners of cheating. My ex would often accuse me of cheating and never trusted me when he was the one who cheated.
I suggest that you should really think if staying in a relationship with her... (read in full...)
Can my ex be my confidante?
Q. My ex-boyfriend is amazing. I know it sounds weird since he's my ex, but that's it's own story. Anyway, I've been going through some incredibly tough times lately, and I really need someone close by to talk to. I can't handle everything alone. And ...
A. 1 December 2011: If you are single and he is single then I don't see why it wouldn't be appropriate. However, he IS your ex. As much as you miss him you need to remember that. Leaning on him for support could easily end in tears and your heart broken. If you can ... (read in full...)
I need him to stand up for me! Please help!
Q. Please help me!! I have been dating a man for 2 years now who I adore and would do anything for. We have been living together for the last 6 months or so but the problem is that his mom and grandma hate me and make our lives hell, (the rest of the ...
A. 1 December 2011: To my understanding you are mad at your boyfriend for not telling his mother "Accept it or I will disown you." Correct? If that is the case you have NO right to tell your boyfriend that he has to tell his Mother such a horrible thing. Do you ha... (read in full...)
I think my crazy sister in law wants my husband!
Q. I think my sister in law is trying to destroy my marriage because she is jealous of me and hates me because she wants her brother, my husband. She is constantly putting me down but playing it off as joke so if I say anything it will seem as if I'm ...
A. 1 December 2011: I'm sorry to hear you are going through this situation. It seems very strange to me that she behaves this way with him. How does your husband react to her? Perhaps the reason why she is so upset is because at one point they were "together". I ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 24 November 2011: Good! Keep up with the no contact! Your doing great! :D Just keep being strong and soon this will be all over with!
Do you have a pet or any friends you can focus most of your attention to?... (read in full...)
Is she playing games or not interested?
Q. I met this girl who I really like. We went out and had a great time. She even planned out a second date for us to go watch a hockey game and then later our alma maters football game. I picked her up and she told me about her friends breakup and how ...
A. 22 November 2011: I don't think she is playing games. Her friend is going through a hard time and she it torn between wanting to spend time with you and giving support to her friend. Give her some space. It's sounds like she likes you. You are reading way too much ... (read in full...)
If a girl has kissed say 12-13 guys in two months, what kind of girl does that make her? Would you want to get involved with her?
Q. If a girl has kissed say 12-13 guys in just about two months, what kind of girl does that make her? Would you want to get involved with this girl, or is it better to not go there? I ask because I met a girl who I got talking to in a club and I ask...
A. 20 November 2011: Maybe she was lonely and wanted to make new friends but went about it the wrong way. If you like her so much I wouldn't judge her on this. Take it slow and get to know her before you judge her character.
... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 18 November 2011: The best way is to ask him about it. One night when you two are together ask him how he feels about french kissing and see what his reaction is. Then proceed from there on what to do.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate to hug a teacher?
Q. first of all,there is an english teacher that i really like and she's a female teacher. she teached me before two years and we are still in the same school and i see her every week. but the problem is that she told me that she's going to another ...
A. 18 November 2011: No, I don't think it is appropriate.
I agree with k_c100; you are better off buying a card.
Good Luck!
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My new boyfriend doesn't make me feel the way my ex did
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend around 3 or 4 months ago because of a problem with religion. Well i love him still and i think im in love with him. I have a boyfriend now but the thing is that my boyfriend dont make me feel like that guy did and i need ...
A. 18 November 2011: He's in a relationship now so you should stop the contact with him. It's only hurting you more. Your relationship didn't work out and the best thing to do is cut ties and move on. I know you prefer to get back together with him but there is a reason ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend doesn't make me feel the way my ex did
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend around 3 or 4 months ago because of a problem with religion. Well i love him still and i think im in love with him. I have a boyfriend now but the thing is that my boyfriend dont make me feel like that guy did and i need ...
A. 17 November 2011: Leave your current boyfriend. It is not fair to be in a relationship with him because of your feelings.
What religion? And who is practicing the religion....you or your ex? And why did the religion interfere with your relationship?
Your ex... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and in love with 2 men!
Q. im 27 weeks pregnant and am in love with two men, one is obviously the father who i love as my friend the other i am extremly attracted to what do i do?. ...
A. 17 November 2011: Oh my....
You are close to getting yourself into a bad situation. Your pregnant...Congrats! However by involving another men into your life that is NOT the father is asking for trouble.
My advice is to keep your friend you are attracted to JUS... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 17 November 2011: I'm so sorry to hear she is causing you all this grief. I understand a little bit of what you are going through. My ex was horrible to me. He was abusive physically and mentally. When I finally had the courage to leave him he didn't leave me ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 14 November 2011: I'm sorry to hear you are in this situation. The best thing to do is tell her your relationship with her is over. Show no emotion and if she threatens you then report it to the police. Cut all ties with her and tell her to stop contacting you. If ... (read in full...)
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