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26-29,
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writes:Now I have realised that I want to get back with my ex after two years, however I don't know how he feels about me, over the past few months we have been talking everyday over texts and we see each other regularly as we both swim for the same club, however when I talk to him over texts I feel like I am making all the effort, he has always been like that and to get him in to a conversation it takes a while to get in to it. Even when he texts first I struggle to keep it flowing what can I talk to him about?Does anyone have any advice on how to flirt with him something to help win him over ? And any conversation starters?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2012): Sometimes you really can't win someone over. You have to speak with him face to face about it. Texting is a little impersonal. Trust me, I know. Bring up the topic. Ask if he feels the same. If not, there are plenty of people out there. You're still young. Focus on school and yourself. Don't waste time over the past. You'll probably miss the present and the future.
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (1 May 2012):
 Hello,
Why did you break up and why do you want to get back together with him? Sounds like a lot of effort on your part that won't make you that happy.
I would just move on and find someone where you don't have to struggle to keep the conversation going.
There's not much you can do to win him back except to talk to him and explain your feelings. Which is NOT going to be easy considering you have a hard time having a basic conversation with him.
I'm sure he already knows your interested in him as you keep trying to contact him.
Good Luck!
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