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Guys & kissing..likes and dislikes?

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Question - (1 May 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Guys can you answer a few questions about kissing, do you like when girls use tongue or no tongue when they kiss you?

Where do you like their hands to be, on your chest, arms, waist, back of your neck etc.?

Also, do you like when a girl bites your lip as she pulls away?

Do you prefer a soft, but firm kiss.. or a passionate intense kiss?

Thanks in advance! And please let me know why you answered what you did, thanks :)

Oh, by the way! This all applies for when you meet a girl in a bar/club, or when you are on a date with a girl you like

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (2 May 2012):

Honeypie agony auntI'm not a guy, but I think there is a kiss for every situation. Some guys don't like a snog your socks off right in front of their friends, others do.

Don't force a kiss, let the chemistry, guy and situation guide you. And no "kissing by numbers" - as in, don't follow a pattern you think will work, just do it.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (1 May 2012):

person12345 agony auntAll guys are different and I know I'm not a guy, but I've asked my bf many times what his preferences are. He likes when I grab the back of his head and pull him into me while we kiss. Also if I just wrap my arms around him and kind of hug while we kiss. If you're unsure what to do, running your hands through his hair is usually a safe bet.

He also loves with I nibble a little on his lower lip (VERY GENTLY, don't bite). Also a lingering kiss where you kiss without tongue, then just sit there for a second or two before pulling away. I know this isn't kissing, but many people have super sensitive ears and if you nibble on their earlobe it can feel really interesting. Also lots of little kisses on the neck.

He also likes when I do little circles around his tongue with mine or when I trace his lips with my tongue.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (1 May 2012):

The Realist agony auntI like the tongue but it has to be subtle, not all out licking your face.

The hands I am not picky about. If you are standing it can be awkward if you have your hands on his chest because they can get in the way of you two being close together. The best feeling is when both peoples bodies are pressed together.

Light biting is good. You have to watch because if it is too hard it is a huge turn off.

The first kiss or the kiss that starts making out I would say should be passionate. There is a place for the soft kisses but speaking in terms of the first kiss after meeting someone passionate is definitely the way to go.

I answered this based on first kiss experience and then making out while in a relationship. The first kiss should be the most passionate and when you are dating the soft kissing leading to making out is really nice.

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A female reader, babygirllovej Canada +, writes (1 May 2012):

babygirllovej agony auntI know I'm not a guy but in my opinion every guy is different and I'm sure each one has different likes and dislikes as far as kissing goes. My advice would be to gently kiss the guy and see if he takes the lead and follow what he does.

Good Luck!

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