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writes:I just met someone two weeks ago and things have moved quickly for us. This is NOT a pattern for me. But Ive been single for a bit (him too) so Im worried maybe we are both just acting out of lonliness?HOWEVER, I do feel VERY comfortable with him and in a different way then I have with many dates iVe had the last few months.So we've only been out twice and the second date over NYE. So we both got drunk and had sex. We spent the next day together and it was fine.There are two scenarios that scare me1. Im so used to having men run from the scene of the crime after intimacy that Im kinda not sure how to deal with one that doesnt.2. Maybe he's obbsessive with relationships and I wont be able to get rid of him if I want out. Is this crazy?He asked me to go out again Tuesday. or is it too much?I know I worry alot about these things for sure and have commitment issues....but I'd like other opinions. Please dont make fun of me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 why not just go with the flow and enjoy it and not worry till you need to?
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 I think you have nothing to worry about. He clearly likes you and if you are comfortable then that's a good thing! I see no red flags that he is obsessive. I'm pretty sure there is nothing to worry about and my advice is to relax and have fun!
I don't see a problem with spending time with him on Tuesday if you are available!
Good Luck!
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