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writes: I broke up with my boyfriend around 3 or 4 months ago because of a problem with religion. Well i love him still and i think im in love with him. I have a boyfriend now but the thing is that my boyfriend dont make me feel like that guy did and i need help in figuring out what to do. Every time i kissed him all my problems went away. When i was with him i felt special and my boyfriend now never makes me feel like that. My parents want me to stay with the boyfriend i have now but i dont think thats good because i dont truely love him. Oh and my ex has a girlfriend now but i cant get over him and i think about him all the time. Can anyone help me figure out what to do about that situation please.
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reader, babygirllovej +, writes (18 November 2011):
He's in a relationship now so you should stop the contact with him. It's only hurting you more. Your relationship didn't work out and the best thing to do is cut ties and move on. I know you prefer to get back together with him but there is a reason you two broke up.
Stop contacting him and tell him not to contact you. Until you are over your ex it's a bad idea to be in a relationship. Did you break up with your current boyfriend yet?
Be strong, in time you will be over your ex. You just have to set your mind to it. You will find someone better who doesn't pressure you into sex and makes you feel amazing.
Good Luck!
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reader, Claraw1 +, writes (18 November 2011):
Of course your new boyfriend doesn't make you feel the way your ex did, he is a different person. You should break up with him because you being extremely cruel to him by leading him on when you are still in-love with your ex.
Now to your ex, he has a new girlfriend so he has moved on and although it hurts, you need to get over your ex before starting a new relationship because it is cruel and unfair to anyone new.
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe believed in greek gods and i am a christian and he wanted to do things like sex when i didnt want to and i just feel like we were meant to be and the way he pokes me and flirts with me i think he feels the same way as i do and i cant help but feel like that.
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reader, babygirllovej +, writes (17 November 2011):
Leave your current boyfriend. It is not fair to be in a relationship with him because of your feelings.
What religion? And who is practicing the religion....you or your ex? And why did the religion interfere with your relationship?
Your ex is in another relationship now and as much as it hurts there is a reason it didn't work out. Keep yourself busy and don't think about him. You will get over him in time.
Good Luck!
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