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writes: I met this girl who I really like. We went out and had a great time. She even planned out a second date for us to go watch a hockey game and then later our alma maters football game. I picked her up and she told me about her friends breakup and how this girl had been in her bed talking about it all day. We were talking about the best place to go watch football, but when we got in the car she said she needed to go be a good friend. 5 min earlier she is touching me and planning out the evening.... I probably acted a little aloof I the way home. When we got there we walked to her r said good bye, then she stalled a bit, and asked if we would talk again. I said sure. I called her the next day to be polite and maybe plan another date to test her interest level, she answered during her clinicals whispering and said she would call back later, she did and I missed it. I called her back and haven't heard anything back. It's only been a day so I'm not super worried. This is the first girl I have truly liked since my long term relationship ended(1.5 years ago). Is she playing games or not interested? It's only been two dates, so I won't do anything super emotional, but can I get advice on my next move? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (22 November 2011):
Let her call you donot chase her. She sounds like she is playing games. Don,t fall for it!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 November 2011):
I'm still trying to figure out what is your "question." BUT, I'm convinced that the answer is "forty-seven."Good luck.....
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (22 November 2011):
It is way to soon to be asking is she interested or not, because you are both still at an extremely early stage. You just need to take things slow and see where it goes. Wait for her to call back and organise another date. Just go with the flow and try not to be worrying about to much, to soon. Good luck.
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reader, babygirllovej +, writes (22 November 2011):
I don't think she is playing games. Her friend is going through a hard time and she it torn between wanting to spend time with you and giving support to her friend. Give her some space. It's sounds like she likes you. You are reading way too much into this especially after only two dates. Relax. Take it day by day.
Good Luck.
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